im away from him in another state and im only able to spend time with him on the weekends. when i finally do get to see him his sexual appetite isnt up to part as it should be.
2006-11-17 03:56:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex would act diferrently everytime he was with another woman. His sexual desires were different, he was less lovable, and he was constantly trying to hide stuff. So I went and installed spyware on my ex's computer when I thought he was cheating...It worked..I got proof. Found out he was actually cheating on several of us. Now he just cheats on his current wife of the moment.
2006-11-17 04:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by serephinadragon 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It does not mean he is cheating. Do you feel in anyother way that he is cheating? I read that the more you have sex the more of a sexual appetite you have. The less you use it, the less you have. This could be the case.
Does he give you reason to believe he is unfaithful? Are the calls frequent? Does he try really hard to keep the relationship good? You have to look at all the surrounding factors. And if you still are not sure, just talk to him. Tell him how you are feeling, and ask him what the deal is. Since you are in a LDR, communication is even MORE important that if you were closer. Of course it is very important in normal relationships, but talking is what you do most of the time. I know I am in a LDR also.
2006-11-17 04:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you don't really ever KNOW unless he tells you or you find proof. Going with your instinct is good, but if you put the question out there in the open and he isn't cheating, you can end up changing the relationship forever. However, if you question him and you find out it is true, the relationship is going to change anyway, too. So...it's kinda a pickle. If you don't want things to get weird, then leave it alone until you have proof. My ex-husband cheated on me. Looking back, I had no idea it was going on, but once I found some clues...I looked for more and then I confronted him. There is no point in accusing him without proof, but ultimately, there is no way to know for sure without proof or by asking him and hoping he is telling the truth.
2006-11-17 04:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he buy new underwear? Is he wearing a new cologne? All of sudden does he have weird excuses for where he is or has been? Does he start to insult parts of your body that he never mentioned before? Is he picking a fight with you for no reason? But, he could have other things going on that affect his sexual appetite that are not cheating.
2006-11-17 04:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man isn't sexually wanting you from the moment you step in the door when you both are in a long distance relationship; there is something wrong whether he is or isn't cheating on you. My guess is yes he is having sex with another girl. I'm also assuming that if you do have sex that it isn't what it was? If that is so then that is another problem. He should be wanting to connect with you physically and emotionally and giving you attention.
2006-11-17 04:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by missprissy1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone doesn't want to have sex all the time doesn't mean they're cheating.
As you "grow up" you will realize that there are other factors including: stress, health, pressure to perform and many other things that could be hindering his sexual appetite.
Also maybe the fact that since you spend so little time together he wants to do other things with you besides waste 15 mins.
2006-11-17 04:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then if his sexual appetite is not good you can be sure he is having sex else where other wise he should be feeling hot. You did not say what age you are but if you are 40 and below i would set a tail on him
2006-11-17 04:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN YOUR MAN IS CHEATING ON U HIS SEXUAL APPETITE IS GOING MOST LIKELY GOING TO BE LOW AND HE WON'T SAY THE THINGS HE USE TO OR EVEN ACT THE WAY HE USED. EVERYTHING WILL BE FRONT WITH HIM.
2006-11-17 03:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by tmacbaby80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating and why would you date someone that was not in the same state as you
that gives them the chance to cheat
you are just the weekend girl
2006-11-17 03:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1.if he is acting different.,any change in scheduel.
2.if he is accusing you
3.takes a shower or washes hands right away.
4.funny feeling...dont over look.....JUST ASK!
2006-11-17 04:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by jenna1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋