Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

2006-11-17 03:17:23 · 16 answers · asked by lauren r 1 in Singles & Dating

Do I have the right to know what happened after my ex left me few years ago to go with another woman now that he wants us to make up and get together again? We do love each other so bac but there is still the ghost of this other relationship which he denies. But I know something happened because of all the information that I got at the time. I told him to be open and sincere because it seems I can not move on if all the truth does not come up. If only he admitted but I found her picture at home at the time and I still can not stand the pain. I know he only loves me, it was just an affair, but to me, when we are honest and sincere, makes it easier to keep on going. It is like a wound, we need to spread some medication to heal. I could not live my whole life always wondering what really happened. Thanks and no jokes please. This is a serious question.

2006-11-17 03:16:47 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My.. well I'm not sure what he is to me. I guess a friend. Anyway, he said he's going to come to my house and kill me for all the crap I've done to him. Not sure if he would though, but I've been pretty mean to him. I would deserve it though. Anything I could do to maybe make him less angry? Here is a list of some things I've done:

1. I jacked up his cell phone bill to over hundreds of dollars by sending him really stupid text messages.
2. I irritate him on AIM by sending him lots of chat invites and talk invites.
3. I call him around 3 am occasionally and yell WAKE! and hang up.
4. I curse at him.
5. I photoshop his head on naked women or on animals, or just about anything and post it on his myspace. I think it's funny...
6. I've probably done other stuff that I've forgotten about.

2006-11-17 03:15:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this guy has been in contact with me for years.he always texts me when he is out in town to see if im out too to meet up.i do like this guy.he was even texting me when i was with my ex fiance.(he knew of my relationship)he still is too.

i dont live in the same place as him.i have met up with him 3 times.we only meet if we happen to be in town on the same nite.there is no planning.it does make meeting difficult as we dont live near eachother.

we have only kissed despite im wanting to take things a little further.he compliments me,buys me drinks and always makes conversation with me.when i was last with him he asked if i was enjoying being single.i said yes.

was he hinting at something?why hasnt he asked me out on a date?

hes 28

2006-11-17 03:15:34 · 7 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

well,its my 15th b-day soon,i am thinking of inviting friends to the amusements and to get something to eat also,i have a crush on a shy guy in my class,so i am going to invite him too, with 1 of his/my guy friends,and also a few other guys and girls from the class
do u think he would come? i am going to write invitations and give one to him personally,good idea?

2006-11-17 03:15:31 · 5 answers · asked by *cutie with a bootie* 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 03:14:13 · 10 answers · asked by Kaydi Em 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not innocent of this either.

How are we supposed to know why your bf/gf won't call you, et al, and why do you almost always make yourselves sound good and naive when you ask them?

2006-11-17 03:13:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I used to hate it like everyone else, but I have turned it into a hobby--I like to collect them and see how many different ones there are. I'm hoping that someday I'll have the whole set! Who knows, maybe someday they'll be worth something.

So, is anyone else here a "collector"?

2006-11-17 03:13:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well yesterday the boy i have liked since the 6th grade {i am in 8th} started touching on me and i said stop now he want speak to me and i am a grl who is saving myself till i get married but now it is like nothing is happening between us .he doesnt say hey bye can i have a hug or kiss nothing so should i just forget it and move on or try to just do watever it takes to get him back? Please help me out thanx i will choose the best answer kk lol bye

2006-11-17 03:12:07 · 2 answers · asked by *Chocalate Drop* 3 in Singles & Dating

when i was in the 7th grade, my dad wanted custody of me and wanted me to live with him...we had to go to court and in the papers he sent to my house..the tings he said were MAD!! he said i was overweight,wore tight clothes,and a bunch of other things that werent TRUE!! he hasnt called me in a LONG time..and on oct. the 14th i hurt my knee(right) and had to ahve surgery the 17th of oct...and when i nana(dads mom) said she was going to call him and tell him,HE DIDNT EVEN CALL ME TO SEE IF I WAS OKAY!! do i need to call me dad and get things straight or not do anything at all? what should i do or what would u do??? i would like to hear from guys AND girls
thanks

2006-11-17 03:11:46 · 11 answers · asked by RockStar 1 in Family

theres a SUPER hott guy in my class right now how do i get his attention!?! hes baking cookies for the class....the ovens are right in front of me...

2006-11-17 03:11:37 · 14 answers · asked by Nessa<3 1 in Singles & Dating

when he hugs me he kisses my neck..or when he's about to leave he kisses my neck and then on my lips..what does this expression mean? dont get me wrong i like it..

2006-11-17 03:10:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy that's 19 on yahoo and i've told him in the past to leave my 12 year old sister alone and he said he would then but is still trying to talk to her and ask her out. plus on top of it he's telling her and her friends that he's only 16. is there anyway i can report him to someone on yahoo?

2006-11-17 03:10:21 · 11 answers · asked by hizwhitegirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

who besides me has had there boyfriend call them at 2:30 in the am drunk and wake them up? i got him back and have been calling him every hour this morning starting at 7 30!!

2006-11-17 03:09:49 · 6 answers · asked by treez1976 2 in Singles & Dating

part 3 of my survey. Your answers are appreciate!

a) honesty and trust
b) sexual desire
c) financial security
d) other

2006-11-17 03:07:01 · 12 answers · asked by spottedtan5 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 03:06:42 · 32 answers · asked by Thebronx 5 in Singles & Dating

My uncle has been abusing me for months now and it's stepped up to a lot of uncomfortable "touchy-feely". I posted a question on here about committing suicide but yall convinced me not to do it. Now my question is I am scared to go to the cops b/c they wont listen to me BUT I am scared to run away because he might b able to track me down what should I do?

2006-11-17 03:06:12 · 16 answers · asked by He See My Tears, He Saw Me Cry 1 in Family

2006-11-17 03:05:49 · 34 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

well, i am a senior and our prom is in may of next year. So i was talking to my bf and i asked him, how do he feel about going to prom with me and he said that he really dont know, but then he said that he dont really feel like going to a high school prom,but what he doesnt understand is that it is a special night and an important night for me and i really want him to go. If i was the other way around , i would go to his prom , if i really didnt feel like going. I do so much for him that i dont want to do, but i still do even though he don't want me to because it will make him happy, but he dont want to do this one thing for me. How Can I Get Him To Understand That This Is A Really Important to me?

2006-11-17 03:05:10 · 12 answers · asked by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 in Singles & Dating

does my husband have to pay until child is 19 or can we stop since he is 18 no one seems to know the legal age in alabama Please help

2006-11-17 03:04:39 · 4 answers · asked by Waynes Angel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for over 6 years. We have a very close relationship and I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him. Recently, my friend announced she's getting married and I'm her bridesmaid. Everyone ahs been asking me when are me and my boyfriend getting married and saying stuff like "It'll be you next" I just have never really thought of it like that. I mean we live together and have a mortgage so I guess marriage would be the next step, but is it important these days or could it just lead to problems?

2006-11-17 03:04:06 · 31 answers · asked by ? 6 in Weddings

The lady and I went to the movies, and I was trying to play it cool, not be forceful or anything like that. So then about 20 minutes left in the movie, she wraps her arms around my arm, and puts her head on my shoulder. Then when we left the movie, I went back to her house to hang out with her family, and she pretty much did the same thing again. Now I am pretty much a rookie at this type of thing, but I am not sure if I handled it well. When she asked me if it bothered me, I said no, of course not. What do you think about all of this ladies?

2006-11-17 03:02:54 · 39 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf are fighting over something he said she said argument and i dont know what to do should i stay with him or not

2006-11-17 03:02:42 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Myrtle Beach SC, but I don't want to be married on the beach or in a church....any ideas?

2006-11-17 02:58:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have this friend and i really lke her.the thing is that i think i like her more than a friend. we really care bout eachotha and get on really well. but (this gets compicated now) i used to go out with her sister which was only for a week. im am so scared that my friend loved me but gave up on me because i went out with her sister. if she did love me and because of the actions i took doesnt anymore. i blame myself and cant deal with me feeling like this.i feel that if i had done things differently then maybe things would have been different. i cant help but think that i have ruined anychance of getting the girl that i truly love. i have always loved her but i just was too thick and stupid to admit it. my feelings will never change for her - i love her so much and alwatys will. do you guys think that she would still like me?eventhough i went out with her sister(we didnt do anything with eachother nothing) and is it my fault that if she did once love me and doesnt now - is it my fault?

2006-11-17 02:58:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he says its cause hes tiered or stressed.and that he hasnt got much of a sex drive like he used too.and he says with him not been to the gym latley,that effects his sex drive.hes got nothing wrong with his bits,it just hes lacking interest,and im trying my best to solve things,what can i do.as im not sure how sex effects men in their 50's

2006-11-17 02:57:53 · 31 answers · asked by burns_kerry_05 1 in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for around 3 and a half months. Everything is great except that I'm a little worried about our physical relationship. We used to have sex at least 5 times a week. Then he told me that he gets complacent about sex sometimes (especially since we're both law students and studying all the time). Then, last night, we were talking about our pasts, and he mentioned that he and his ex used to have sex everyday. In fact, they did some pretty crazy things (i.e. like in a sauna). However, he hasn't tried to do anything wild like that with me. It bothers me that he didn't seem to be complacent with her. I thought maybe he's just not attracted to me, but he keeps assuring me that I'm the most attractive girl he's ever dated (not to sound mean, but I've seen his ex, and I would have to agree with him). What does it mean that he's gotten so complacent around me? Should I be worried?

2006-11-17 02:56:34 · 5 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, assume there is a guy (26 years old) that has shaved his head because he is balding. He is good looking, good personality etc. At what age does it not bother you? For example, would you not be attracted to him if you were 21, but you would be attracted to him if you were 28? In other words, do women become more attracted to bald guys the older the woman gets?

2006-11-17 02:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 02:55:59 · 34 answers · asked by Nettle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes I lost all of my pregnancy weight!
Yes I take great care of my body... I eat right and work out!
I have tried things like touching him etc.... He says we don't have any time! God Forbid sex cuts into our watching tv time!
We still do things together... We go to dinner...We go to sporting events... We still get along like we used to... BUT sexually we aren't there!
I guess he is not in to me anymore! He hasn't told me I look beautiful (or even nice) in atleast 16 months!
I do not think he is cheating because he doesn't go anywhere. He goes to work then he comes home!
I don't think he'll do counciling... I can't get him to chuch with me once a week... I don't know how I'll get him to counciling.
He feels sex is very personal. He would faint if he even knew I was asking for advice!

2006-11-17 02:55:57 · 14 answers · asked by Help_Me 1 in Marriage & Divorce