The lady and I went to the movies, and I was trying to play it cool, not be forceful or anything like that. So then about 20 minutes left in the movie, she wraps her arms around my arm, and puts her head on my shoulder. Then when we left the movie, I went back to her house to hang out with her family, and she pretty much did the same thing again. Now I am pretty much a rookie at this type of thing, but I am not sure if I handled it well. When she asked me if it bothered me, I said no, of course not. What do you think about all of this ladies?
2006-11-17 03:02:54 · 39 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I was vague on the details, but I do like this woman, and when she grasped my arm, it was great to be honest. I posted this question so I can see what you ladies thought, I know what I think perfectly well
2006-11-17 06:04:59 · update #1
Hey honey! i know how ya feel...my ex-bf was the same way when we first got together.... but listen up.........i think u handled it perfectly....jus remember to always be truthful -tell her what makes u comfortable and what dosn't.....and next time.....put YOUR arm around HER....she'll love ya forever! hehe
i hope everything gose great for ya
take care
~Ally
2006-11-17 03:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She was just showing affection to you I think...if you are interested in her show her some too a hug or a kiss should suffice dont be too aggressive. I think she'll let you know and/or give ques as to what she wants from you and her interest in you. I wouldnt read too much into the putting the head on the shoulder thing just take it for what it was affection
2006-11-17 03:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the lady is taking it fast, but this is not the point here.
The point is do you want that? Because you haven't mentioned anything about YOUR wishes. She asked you if it bothered you and you said "No, of course not".
Well?
Were you telling the truth? That's the first thing you should have mentioned in your post.
If you were telling the truth, then all is fine. Enjoy the fun of it! However, if you think she is moving too fast, say so. Simple, ain't it?
2006-11-17 03:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by eleni f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, the lady showed her affection for you .......... in the presence of her parents? Nice, you did well.
She showed her parents that she likes you, that is major!
Keep taking it slow, there is nothing wrong with slow. But if you want to keep this lady ......... you do need to show here some affection too, before she thinks that you are not interrested.
Next time when you two meet for a date, give her your very best smile, and hold out your arm for her to grab.
No need to rush, if going slow makes you feel more comfortable. But do show affection!
2006-11-17 03:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by Endie vB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know everyone keeps saying that she likes you, and that is true BUT it seems that she also FEELS COMFORTABLE around you, which is the best thing to happen.
I once heard a guy say that guys do like it when a lady raps her arms around your arm with out even telling you, she just does it out of the blue, so i guess you can say your a lucky guy to have a girl to do that to you, Have a nice next date! :o)
2006-11-17 03:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im lost what is wrong? It sounds like she likes you but you were not comfortable with her doing the arm thing. If she asked and you didnt tell her the truth you should have. Let her know your a slow kinda guy, if thats what it is, if its eomthing else let her know that. If you like her but want to go slowly then just let her know. If you are not interested also let her know. Dont waste time, you both should be happy, lying and pretense is not the way to be happy.
2006-11-17 03:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by workless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously likes you. But is she trying to get the message across to her family also that she likes you and you both are 'together'? If you like it that way, then play along. She seems like a person you could talk to also. Ask her what she feels about you and what level are you both in with your relationship. It will help you move forward with her or take a step back. Good luck and happy dating! :-)
2006-11-17 03:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes u. A girl would not be lovely dovey in front of her family unless she liked u. The girl prob was waiting for you to make the first move and u didn't so a real women made the first move. Sound like u got a keeper
2006-11-17 03:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by sexy*kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see a problem. You did just right for hanging with her and family. It sounds like you are showing respect to her and her family. Once in with the family, you got it made. Do they like you too?
Good Luck
2006-11-17 03:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by orcahock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did great!!!! Next time lean over gently and kiss her lips. Nothing passionate long and drawn out just short and sweet. Just a peck. It will work like a charm.
2006-11-17 03:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by Supermom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋