i have this friend and i really lke her.the thing is that i think i like her more than a friend. we really care bout eachotha and get on really well. but (this gets compicated now) i used to go out with her sister which was only for a week. im am so scared that my friend loved me but gave up on me because i went out with her sister. if she did love me and because of the actions i took doesnt anymore. i blame myself and cant deal with me feeling like this.i feel that if i had done things differently then maybe things would have been different. i cant help but think that i have ruined anychance of getting the girl that i truly love. i have always loved her but i just was too thick and stupid to admit it. my feelings will never change for her - i love her so much and alwatys will. do you guys think that she would still like me?eventhough i went out with her sister(we didnt do anything with eachother nothing) and is it my fault that if she did once love me and doesnt now - is it my fault?
2006-11-17 02:58:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you having a laugh? go talk to her and see how she feels before you jump to any sort of conclusions. i think you might find she likes you more than a mate but just doesnt want to ruin the friendship if the relationship doesnt work out. good luck
2006-11-17 03:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know..maybe this is a good thing thats happened, cos now you realise how you feel about this girl and your feelings, how do you know this girl isnt feeling the same way, maybe you took too long to show her exactly how you felt, but maybe, like I said, it happened for the good and now you can maybe do something about it once and for all, try explaining to her that you have had time to think about her and you and how you now feel about her, why you acted how you did, but most of all, tell her how you feel and what you want from the relationship, see what she is looking for, if anything, from this relationship, maybe she thought you werent as serious about things as she thought and wasnt that interested in her, you must talk to her and I dont think the sister is a problem, stop looking for reasons and get talking to her, sort it out and falling out of love with someone does not happen easily or quickly, so how will you find out unless you pick up the phone and deal with it !! good luck.
2006-11-17 04:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate from one guy to another
chill out ok so you made a mistake we all think we have in life but if deep down you truly love your friend then she will understand providing everything you say comes from the heart and you are honest in what you say and your friend and her sister can tell this (im guessing they know your charachter well i.e. when your lying and when your not)
so you know your right just show her by talking about your feelings and you will end up happier than a pig in poo!
2006-11-17 03:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Music fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to talk to her alone. i wouldnt worry about the sister thing it sound like u barely even went out. meet up with her and talk it through.. u will then know where you stand.. dont be needy though whatever you do, that may scare her ...good luck hun
2006-11-17 03:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by so bored at work 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure that if this friend you love saw twhat you've written about her she'd fall for you(again) before you could click it's not your fault but i definately think you should open up to her like u did in that e-mail cus it was soooo sweet for a bloke
2006-11-17 07:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by burn baybee burn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-17 04:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by superstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋