Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

why is it that guys like taking girls virginity but then they doint like th "clingy"ness?

2006-11-17 02:55:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does my dad hate my feancie so much? I've asked and he says he doesn't but I can tell he does, he treats him real bad. I've told him that Chris, my feancie, won't do anything that'll hurt me intentually and that I'll always be his, my dads', little girl and nothing would ever tear me away from him, and that I'd always be there for him like he has for me. I also said that I'd always chose him over anyone. I said how much it hurts me to see that my dad hates the man I love so much. I worry that my dad scense something about Chris that I don't because Dads Know Everything about Men, especially when it comes to their little girls.

2006-11-17 02:53:46 · 5 answers · asked by lill_angel_07_88 3 in Family

it hapenned when we first broke up.... the next day, he dated his crush. They watch movie back to back for three times and they kissed. He tole me everything about it... what should I do?

2006-11-17 02:53:43 · 14 answers · asked by ♥ fÄtimÄ ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I like these three guys two of which are way to old for me especially since I am not 18 yet but will be, the other one I've known for 4 years and we get along so well but we still dont know about whether we should go out or not..Who should I pick?

2006-11-17 02:53:34 · 3 answers · asked by Cesars Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been going out for about 2 years now and he is my first boyfriend. I have absolutely no idea what to get a boy for christmas. Can somebody please help???

2006-11-17 02:52:48 · 9 answers · asked by Monkey*crazy 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay time to fuss up you guys, what are your dating no-nos? Meaning, what turns you off FAST..?

I'll start, my no-no is when a guy orders food FOR me.

2006-11-17 02:51:46 · 23 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

her mom kicked her out, she already graduated high school, she is 21yrs old almost 22 and she takes care of her younger brother because mom cant, or dont want to. my daughter works a full time job and goes to night school plus takes care of her brother. her mom does not give her any money towards taking care of him and does not give her any of the child support money. WHERE DOES IT GO? it should go to the kids, thats what its for, in my opinion. someone give me an answer or something please. thanks

2006-11-17 02:51:31 · 11 answers · asked by confused I am 1 in Family

Yeah that's my question to all guys, gals welcome too. Do you think they are cheap? Would you think they are less 'valuable' than the girls that you ask out? If it's a girl that you've been eyeing for some while who asks you out, would you wanna go with her or would you think she's cheap and stop liking her?

I didn't really ask this guy out but I invited him for some party and he thinks that I'm asking him out! OMG! But the thing is I actually like him. I don't know what he will think. I'm from an Asian country and my mentality is girls should never ask guys out! It is just so cheap

2006-11-17 02:50:47 · 4 answers · asked by floridaisfreakinhot 1 in Singles & Dating

I am hurt but we fight verbaly and t just get's worse and worse and it's not about money, It's us I am upside down with worry,
in one point I don't want to go further and start arguing in front of my kids, my son 3 y old has been there and already he is telling us to stop yelling at 3, It's killin me. what to do

2006-11-17 02:50:36 · 9 answers · asked by marnold7714 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Both myself and my boyfriend have been burned badly in past relationships, we were both engaged and he was used and i was cheated on. I've been with him only 5 months but i know that i love him, i love and trust him more than i thought possible after my ex. I want so badly to tell him that i love him but i'm honestly afraid that it will scare him or that he will back off, though i don't think that he will...
It never seems the right moment.

Any advice to get over my insecurity of telling him? Any clues i should look for that he may be waiting for me to say it first?

I feel like a teen again....

2006-11-17 02:50:15 · 3 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 02:50:05 · 9 answers · asked by so bored at work 1 in Singles & Dating

they read the questions you have posted on here?

2006-11-17 02:49:58 · 59 answers · asked by Lotus 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short...we split 2 months ago. She and I have NO sexual feelings for each other. We still live together until the lease ends in January. But, she has already begun to talk to her ex's again. I think its wrong because she does it right in my face. I dont know if I am being shallow, or what. It upsets me to sit here and see how fast she is moving forward now. 5+ years, and this is all I get in return. Continuous disrespect. Her best friend pretty much keeps on pounding the thought of leaving asap...which may be the best thing. But, her best friend also is nt a BEST FRIEND. My ex doesnt realize how much she is ruining her life for the "grass is greener" concept...but thats cool.I always treated her with respect...never cheated...I mean, I have treated her like my queen. serious answers only..PLEASE! Am I wrong for being jealous...angry..emotionally disrespected? What can I honestly say in response to..."It doesnt matter, we arent together anymore!" This sucks!

2006-11-17 02:49:35 · 17 answers · asked by searchingforlove 1 in Singles & Dating

can you still get "it" up.. Wondering if you still can at that age

2006-11-17 02:49:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hard to be hot. maybe guys do the same thing but im not in a position to judge that stuff. what is it about the site that brings this out in people? do people think they are movie stars or something? strange to see a "friend list" of a friend of yours and half the girls are either in bikini tops or showing major cleavage or something. whats the deal? not that i'm complaining but its sort of an interesting sociological phenomenon. give me some insight.

2006-11-17 02:48:39 · 5 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Friends

He treats me suspiciously, I want to earn his trust

2006-11-17 02:47:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when a man has really upset a girl how long should he leave it before trying to talk to her again ?

2006-11-17 02:47:49 · 68 answers · asked by james t 2 in Friends

lost a very special person in my life recently. she was my very best friend, my confident, my inspiration, my teacher, mentor, someone i could call in the middle of the night just to sit on the phone and not say a word. she knew i was troubled before i said or did anything. she always had the right words for any problems or worries i had.
she loved me for me and i loved her more then life itself. i wish she
hadn't died so i could hug her neck and tell her how much i love her.
She is my grandma. My special Lady and I miss her very much!

2006-11-17 02:47:45 · 19 answers · asked by mgcsrep112706 1 in Family

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We met and immeadiatley became very serious. we got a new apartment together 6 months ago and have both met each other's families (everyone loves each other and gets along!)
This has really been a dream realtionship for me and he says the same. Even thought its been a year and a half he began bringing up our future at around the 4 month mark. (he talks all the time about our "future children".) We've gone to 3 weddings together, had a great time.
I guess with the holidays coming up and the fact that all of our friends thought we'd be hitched aldready is making me crazy. why hasn't he proposed? I bring it up and he says that i shoudln't worry about that now, but if not now, when? We're both almost 30, have great jobs and and make each other laugh. I am getting frustrated. I have also said in passing that I don't even want a ring, I just want to be his wife, but still nothing. He says I'm his soul mate, why won't he propose?

2006-11-17 02:47:09 · 44 answers · asked by Arlo J 1 in Weddings

He went out with his cousin and some friends. There was a girl involved. My husband and his friend is married. Two other guys (including his cousin) are single. Apparently the girl liked my husband but "he didn't want her or like her" so she turned to the single guys. Between all four of the guys, 3 of their stories collaborate. His cousin's story goes like this: She was sitting on top of my husband in the back seat of a truck.

But then the next day, he said he lied to me so I would get off his case. So I don't know if they already made up a story to give me or if he (the cousin) really is lying. I don't know who to believe. My husband is angry with his cousin for lying to me but he isn't trying hard enough to contact his cousin to confront him either.

What should I do?

2006-11-17 02:46:34 · 15 answers · asked by m l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone heard of this quiz you can take that will kind of help tell if your marriage will last?
I am looking for information on marriage so I can try to save mine. We need to better understand eachother. I don't know what to do.
I just need to understand where he is coming from and he needs to understand me better....

2006-11-17 02:46:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

girls in my class are messing me up and I tryed to tell the teacher but she wan't listen to me so wat do I do now??

2006-11-17 02:46:15 · 5 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Friends

Whats the difference between being content in a relationship or being happy in a relationship?

2006-11-17 02:46:13 · 7 answers · asked by mrhappy1171 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And if you aren't, how do you handle knowing that you aren't the kind of girl he typically goes out with?

2006-11-17 02:46:04 · 5 answers · asked by lachicadecafe 4 in Singles & Dating

she blows me off and she's hanging out with a (not single) hott guy, and a bounch of others. She thinks shes everybody's favorite and is blowing me off, but she was one of my best friends! What should I do??

2006-11-17 02:45:20 · 5 answers · asked by LJ 1 in Friends

Okay, us women are always talking about the cruel things that guys do...the mind games that they play and how "cautious" we have to be when it comes to dealing with them, but I want to know the guys point of view. I want to know WHY they put up such a front when it comes to dealing with women...and what exactly is it that us women put u men through???

2006-11-17 02:43:16 · 16 answers · asked by Nikki 4 in Singles & Dating

I was mad at him because rumor was he went over his ex-girlfriend house but he sad his close friend was talking to her but now he mad at me because he heard i was talking to a boy talking as in bout to go out he havent called me in two days

2006-11-17 02:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by jesse 1 in Singles & Dating

in a serious relationship?
what makes a guy want to settle down?

2006-11-17 02:42:21 · 5 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me last night. He said he did it so he wouldn't hurt me anymore, but breaking up with me last night hurt me more than he ever could.

I'd found out a few weeks ago that he'd had a relationship 4 years earlier. They slept together for months. She got married shortly after they broke up. It just hurt imagining him with someone else. I was coping with it in my own way. Time would have helped me, but he didn't give me that time. He promised to do things to make it up to me like to stop talking to her, to teach me how to drive his car (it has manual transmission). Those things never happened. In fact, she got in touch with him and invited him to play poker with all their friends (they shared friends). He said he didn't want to stop talking to her because he would lose his friends.

Last night, he told me that his friends were his family, and he didn't want to even hypothetically consider chosing someone over them. So he dumped me.

2006-11-17 02:40:22 · 27 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mother of five children, their father was recently sentenced to prison for 25+ years for child porn and abuse. He was our main source of income. We are about to lose our home, I make very little money, as I was a stay at home mother, and my youngest has autism. I am at my wits end. Someone told me I may be able to quality for a grant to supplement the income we lost, and that eventually it would come from his social security funds. Any information will be helpful.

2006-11-17 02:37:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family