Okay, us women are always talking about the cruel things that guys do...the mind games that they play and how "cautious" we have to be when it comes to dealing with them, but I want to know the guys point of view. I want to know WHY they put up such a front when it comes to dealing with women...and what exactly is it that us women put u men through???
2006-11-17 02:43:16 · 16 answers · asked by Nikki 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Different people are put through different things..
The worse is double standards.
That SOME people have and set.
Men and women are really different and everyone under each category is different..
alot of guys dont like talking about things (i do)
The front isnt a front its who people are.
women put men through just as much as men in different situations. Some people have different fronts to different people and situations..
Whenever me and my girl had a problem shed run away avoiding dealing with it.. and id be wanting to deal with it... not all women want to deal with problems either?
best answer to me..
Real Men dont put up fronts, dont play mind games, and you shouldnt have to be cautious with them. Real men are who they are.
Accept them or reject them.
Fronts are tough to break too best is to discuss, ignore, or move on.
2006-11-17 03:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are talking about what is quite often the most fragile ego in the animal kingdom. We put up fronts and play games because we do not know what women want. We have always heard that the foxy ladies just want to be asked out. Most guys are intimidated and they never get dates. So I took that to heart and asked a very foxy lady to the school dance. She turned me down. Fooled again - except that she ended up at the dance with her grandfather - no one else asked her out. It was one of the hardest things to go up and ask her out and my ego was at a very low point until I saw her at the dance. Multiply that by dozens of situations and you have why we play games and put up such fronts.
2006-11-17 11:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worst thing I have seen a chick do to a buddy of mune was have her new boyfriend beat the hell out of him until he physically couldn't walk then screw her new boyfriend right in front of him as he laid there.... Later I heard at least from her that the new boyfriend pissed and poo'ed on him after he threw him out in the yard and beat him down some more. All I know for a fact was that my buddy ended up in the hospitial for 2 days after it was all over....
2006-11-17 10:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With some guys it's a "Macho" thing to put up a front - especially in front of others when they are with their girl - Why? I dunno - It's plain stupid - And some guys just aren't able to be open for either lack of cofidence or not wanting to look like he's not a macho type guy - it happens with alot of guys and there are some that aren't like that - everyone has their own type of personality and unfortunately alot of times the personalities are mirroring everything they see around them
As for what you women do to us guys - I can sum it up in one word - Hormones - They can put girls into mood swings from Hell at times and it just drives us CRAZY!!!!!
2006-11-17 10:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mad Marvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I appreciate the opportunity. My BIGGEST thing, and I swear I laugh at it now, is seeing posts here that ask where all the "great guys" are. I am right here. I'm not perfect, but I can laugh at myself, but otherwise I am considerate, respectful, and caring. Every woman I have dated sees this, and accepts that I am this way (I think) but then moves on b/c they get bored w/ what they said they wanted. It's like y'all are waiting for me/us to tell you ladies, "You like me and this is why."
2006-11-17 10:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's funny. How about emotional drama, saying yes when meaning no, jealousy, insecurity in every form imaginable, having easy sex yet expecting a relationship and saying "he used me", getting "accidentally" pregnant, monthly excuses to cry and rage like a maniac, obsession with hair/nails/clothes/weight....
2006-11-17 10:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has nothing to do with the women what it is, is that we find it hard to open up also if we do then we believe that we will be seen as being weak also that is why you do not see many men cry
2006-11-17 10:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When You Walk All Over My Heart !
2006-11-17 10:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think guys put up fronts because they want to be acknowledge
2006-11-17 10:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by tyree_dickerson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make a Very Good point!!!
2006-11-17 10:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by Wolf Apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋