Has anyone heard of this quiz you can take that will kind of help tell if your marriage will last?
I am looking for information on marriage so I can try to save mine. We need to better understand eachother. I don't know what to do.
I just need to understand where he is coming from and he needs to understand me better....
2006-11-17 02:46:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No need for any quiz. First commit to spend quality time with each other. List down the issues you have with each other & what you love about each other ^& discuss it & make action plans & reminders
2006-11-17 03:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mock-mast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to sound like a robot here, not intending to.. BUT communication is vital for every relationship. To better understand your spouse, you need to open your sights & see from a different point of view. There's always 2 sides to every coin, however, how someone perceives it is what matters. Counseling would help you both to see from a different point of view. Sometimes that's what we need... is to close our minds from OUR opinions & see it from a different perspective. Sometimes explaining what you mean in a different way helps too. This will sound awful, not intending to here, but if you've tried the adult way of getting your point across, but the other doesn't seem to grasp it, try explaining it in child language. It sounds silly, but sometimes that's what it takes for the other person to grasp what it is you're trying to say. Metaphores sometimes work too. If in the end you both just can't seem to grasp what the other is saying then both really need to go see a counselor. No quiz will ever help you "fix" your marriage or help save it either. Only the 2 people involved can accomplish that.... & that is with a lot of talking things through & working them out. Compromising & understanding.
2006-11-17 03:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey a quiz is not going to save your marriage you just need to communicate what you are feeling is going wrong and talk it out if you do this maybe you can save your marriage it worked for me we just celebrated 13 th anniversary so good luck
2006-11-17 02:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Waynes Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the quiz and get into counseling. Sounds like you both have hard work ahead of you. If you both are in love with one another spend the time and money to learn how to be a true couple
2006-11-17 02:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No need to take a quiz, Communication is the key, Talk to each other
2006-11-17 03:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by Shem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the quizes won't help. The only way to work out your marriage is through communication, couple have to communicate to make their marriage better. you should talk to your husband about your marriage and both of you have to work on it together for marriage to work, it takes 2 to get married, will take 2 to work things out. marriage isn't one sided.
2006-11-17 02:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No quiz will help you with that. You need to talk to each other and possibly a councilor if your marriage is failing
2006-11-17 02:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is allot of different relationship tests out there, but I don't put to much faith in them.
This might be to deep but God gave us all a moral compass, most don't use them and their ships go afoul.
If people lived the Golden Rule as do unto others as you would want them to do to you I think that would solve most of the problems.
2006-11-17 03:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the 5 love languages quiz. my man & I did and we learned a lot.
2006-11-17 02:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Candy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a mediator. Someone who is impartial. Maybe you should both go to counselling. It will help.
2006-11-17 02:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋