when a man has really upset a girl how long should he leave it before trying to talk to her again ?
2006-11-17 02:47:49 · 68 answers · asked by james t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if after 48 hours she's still not speaking to you then you really must have sed sumthin rong but don't give up keep calling e-mailing sending pressies i know i'd feel better after all the fuss
2006-11-17 07:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by burn baybee burn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with this girl? Depending on how long you have been with her, you should know her character. Is she the type that gets mad over the smallest things and then makes your life miserable for the next three days? Or is she the type that gets mad or hurt but will hug and kiss you within the next two hours?
Depending on how serious your offense was, for the first type, you should give her a couple of days, maybe even a week. Stop by and leave a rose for her at the door, write her a letter, let her see you walking by her house... you know... things that show that your are persistent but not harrasing. For the second type: A couple of hours or even a day should do. When you come back, you should really be sincere and ask for forgiveness (if that is what you want...) and listen to every word she says. Most girls will deny it, but most of us do appreciate persistance. Like I said before, be persistent but not to the point of harrasment. Don't wait to long or she will think that you don't care or that you really don't feel anything for her.
Good luck...
2006-11-17 03:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by Magy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you did I'm afraid. Though sortin through straight away never hurt any1 and you both care bout each other then you'll find a way of making it up to her whatever she wants don't argue and attack her making it seem like it was her fault the trouble started accept the blame gracefully; )
I can't say she'll forgive you bring her flowers or chocolates if you really want to have her friendship back buy her jewelery no girl can resist that with a very sincere apology.
Give her time don't think she'll forgive you straight away takes time remember she is the injured party so she might lash out! But then it all depends on what you did to upset her.
Good luck I hope the situation works itself out; )
2006-11-17 03:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Genipher17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what has been done to upset her, and it depends on the individual. Personally I like to be left alone to calm down and pull myself together. Then sort it out. Don't leave it too long either or that's trouble! I would say the same day and if not try again tomorrow. If you really want to sort it out, just do it. Good luck
2006-11-17 02:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by Marlene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How upset was she?if bad then try and leave her 4 aslong as you can you could send her a txt message 2 test the water if she doest reply leave her 4 a bit longer if it is ment 2 be you will sort it out
2006-11-17 02:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ღ☆ shoesaholic ☆ღ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather advise that the guy should talk to her immediately so that the girl would know that he is really sorry for what he has done.The guy can at talk to the girl for say three (3) of a week maximum and that is if the girl has refuse to accept his appology.
NB: The guy/man should also show that he is sorry for what he has done
2006-11-17 03:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by gentlesam77_4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the type of girl but I would say that most of us would like for the guy to approach us right away. That way, whatever it was that upset her won't linger on.
Hope everything works out and good luck!
2006-11-17 02:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why has there always got to be rules about everything? When the time is right. Maybe try writing a letter first, explaining everything, and then talk to her the next day. Just let her know how sorry you are.
2006-11-17 03:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't upset her in the first place but try and talk to her straight away but it does depends on how you upset her - if it was a smart comment then straight away. But if you cheated on her to upset her then give her a few days - cuz she might hit you. xx
2006-11-17 03:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by renaultfi69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how bad u have upset her. But let her know u r still sorry and when she is ready 2 tlk 2 u, she will let u know.
Dont give up until she tlks 2 u though
2006-11-17 04:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what you have done to upset her. Something minor I would say an hour - something quite bad, a couple of days. If you have really upset her you might have to wait months.
2006-11-17 02:53:41 · answer #11 · answered by Ally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋