Both myself and my boyfriend have been burned badly in past relationships, we were both engaged and he was used and i was cheated on. I've been with him only 5 months but i know that i love him, i love and trust him more than i thought possible after my ex. I want so badly to tell him that i love him but i'm honestly afraid that it will scare him or that he will back off, though i don't think that he will...
It never seems the right moment.
Any advice to get over my insecurity of telling him? Any clues i should look for that he may be waiting for me to say it first?
I feel like a teen again....
2006-11-17 02:50:15 · 3 answers · asked by attila 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you feel that strongly about saying it, do it. just tell him how you feel. tell him that you don't want to scare him because of his previous relationship, but you've been feeling that way, and its killing you to tell him, even tell him you feel like a teenager again. and don't get all upset if he doesn't say it back. if he doesn't say it back, he might not be ready yet, doesn't mean he doesn't feel that way, but he'll say it when he's ready. "It never seems the right moment." - there is never a wrong moment to tell someone you love them.
2006-11-17 03:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by BigJCliff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just fix him a nice dinner and over dinner tell how you feel. Explain to him that you were scared to tell him because you were afriad of losing him. Tell him that you really appreciate him and you want this relationship to go furhter. and tell him you love him. Trust me he will not run away and he is going to appreciate this from you that you told him. Just be calm and be yourself and express your feelings to him.
2006-11-17 11:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u feel about him i think he would under stand just do it when u think is the right moment
2006-11-17 11:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Pooh Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋