why is it that guys like taking girls virginity but then they doint like th "clingy"ness?
2006-11-17 02:55:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We like taking your virginity or "pink slips" because we know you will remember that one time yoou had sex forever. Its also an ego thing I guess, its like why would we want something that a few other people have already had? It's like drinking out of someone elses glass you don't know, I'd rather have a sip first. We don't like the clingyness, because...well who does? Now if you were great in bed, which isn't likely if you just lost your virginity, then we could deal with it, but the ego has been satisfied after the 1st time, so theres really no reason to sleep with a girl you know isn't good in bed.
2006-11-17 03:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by pimpn240sx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not but guys don't like the situation anymore than you do. There are things about guys that girls will never understand because they are so deeply ingrained in our brains that we often times don't understand it ourselves. In high school my hormones were raging so far out of control that I did things to girls I'm now ashamed of. I don't even really know why I did them. The best thing is to not ask why but try to understand how guys act and base your actions on that. If you know that a guy is not going to be into your "clingyness" after having sex and you don't like that, then don't have sex with them. Things tend to get better as you get older in many ways so be patient. With all the problems associated with sex these days, dont be in a rush.
2006-11-17 11:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by True2it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess cuz boyz will be boyz... they like the "challenge" of taking a girl's virginity but don't like the responsibility afterwards... and iots true... those who like the virgins might say otherwise but they probably prefer virgins b/c they don't wanna be compared to any past lovers meaning they aint got too much to talk about as far as their sex skillz ya hurd... but it could also be they're scared of catching an STD or something as well... u know what they say yo... u sleep with someone ur sleeping with all their previous partnuhs as well...rather a nasty concept yo...now unless a doode is lookign for a virgin to like marry or something i'd say its prolly the insecurity thing... but of course not all guys are like that... i personally aint too bothered by a girl being "clingy"... i like my girls to be affectionate... and not be like "wuteva man" ... thats a turn off fo realz... but hey a virgin is a beautiful thing in this world what with all the freaks running around.... and a girl OR a guy should be proud of their virginity... and u answer me this... why is it koo when a girl is a virgin but a guy who's a virgin has to be ashamed about it? something to think about huh? society is what it is girl...f***ed up lol ;-)
2006-11-17 11:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by fuk_u_lookin_at 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are horrible beings. When you can figure out why women get all clingy when a guy takes their virginity then you will be able to figure out why men don't like it. But in all actuallity, it's a pyschological need thing.
2006-11-17 11:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by theusaloveitorleaveit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
virgins tend to be tighter, they know they'll be remembered, the girls are clean, and they don't have to worry about being as good as the guy before.
those are the reasons i've heard before.
No guy likes a clingy girl, and most girls tend to be way clingy after losing their virginity.
2006-11-17 11:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by attila 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Indovina! if that's your real pic, you are gorgeous.........OOOps!! where was i??? Oh..............
I guess guys who take a girl's virginity and cannot stand the clinginess are jerks, idiots and *&%?^£$. Be a man and face up to your responsibility. How would y'all feel if they did that to your daughters and sweetie, don't give it up to that guy who might be pressuring you because he won't end up marrying you.
2006-11-17 11:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had 3 virgins and they were all clingy.
2006-11-17 11:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not a guy but it is because they are immature...and you shouldnt give up your virginity to someone you may not marry save yourself let it be special...most guys are jerks so dont waste your time.
2006-11-17 11:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by J-Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some guys are just plain assholes. But we're not all like that dont worry :)
2006-11-17 11:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by AndrewL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love clingy girls, shows ur loved
2006-11-17 12:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by im_niceguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋