lost a very special person in my life recently. she was my very best friend, my confident, my inspiration, my teacher, mentor, someone i could call in the middle of the night just to sit on the phone and not say a word. she knew i was troubled before i said or did anything. she always had the right words for any problems or worries i had.
she loved me for me and i loved her more then life itself. i wish she
hadn't died so i could hug her neck and tell her how much i love her.
She is my grandma. My special Lady and I miss her very much!
2006-11-17 02:47:45 · 19 answers · asked by mgcsrep112706 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My Grandma was all of those things to me too and it was so hard losing her 8 years ago. I wish she was here every day but I know she is smiling down from heaven. It will always hurt, there will always be an empty space because no love is like that of a Grandmas, but in time you will make peace with it. You cherish the memories and use the example she set for you as the way to raise your children and conduct your life. I wish I had my Mema write down all of her recipes for me, that I could still be a little girl and not care about anything more than laying with my head on her lap, but I thank GOD every day that she was mine for 24 years! I miss her, but I pray to her at night and ask her to watch over my children like she did me. In time it stops hurting so much, and she will give you signs that she is ok and still with you. Take care!
2006-11-17 03:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by SR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry to hear about your grandma, I lost my mother 4 years ago and still think about her alot. You never really get over it, and you don't want to. Just think about her in a good way and remember all the help she gave you. She will always be with you in what ever you do. As long as you remember her she really isn't gone. We all loose people that are close to us but we keep on doing our thing and I think that's what they would want. The hurt does get a little less with time.
2006-11-17 03:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by fr2fish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over time it will get better, but you will always miss her.
You can pass on all her quality's through you by helping others the way she helped you.
I am so glad that she was in your life as long as she was, she has given you something that most only wish for now you need to pass it on so that this world can become better.
She was their for you no matter what, so now when you have a family of your own you can be their for them, cause you know how important she made you feel.
2006-11-17 03:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never get over the loss of such a close friend and relative. But I can surely say that you will move on, you will have happy times, in time, and you will recall your days with her and think of all the memories you have collected. I am so sorry for your loss. Take care dear man! :-)
2006-11-17 02:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never completely get over it. Believe me. I lost my brother when he was 17 and my dad last year (54). Places, songs or anything will remind you of them. It takes time to grieve and don't listen to people that tell you to get over it because they don't know until they've walked in your shoes. Just keep yourself busy with things and people and just let yourself know that your grandmother is in a much better place where there are no problems or worries.
2006-11-17 02:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do to get over some loved one dying. though it is very sad, life goes on and only time will help you heal. You just have to know that she is in a better place.
2006-11-17 02:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"m so sorry for your loss. If you want some professional help with this, (it's nothing to be ashamed of, I needed it), write to SeleneVampress@aol.com. She's a psychologist who helps people over the net, and a very nice person. She helped me.
2006-11-17 03:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by mxzptlk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is always the best healer, I know that no one can fill that space in life but what we can do is to pray the GOD for her forgiveness and to have her in the heaven at a best place. My sympathies are always with you. i join you in the prayers for the departed soul so that she may get an eternal peace.
2006-11-17 02:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Paassion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of my grandmas have passed away and eventually I just healed and stopped crying cause I know that I'm gonna see them one day when I'm in heaven when I pass away too! I'm so sorry!
2006-11-17 13:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋