Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

after my divorce i contacted him.he was married(not happy)but left his wife for me.been dating for 6 mons.he tells everyone(family,freinds,work)i'm his gf and whenever i meet any of them they tell me how he brags about me all the time.we will spend hours just talking about old times and he will say things like"i can't believe its you",'i love you so much you make me complete" i could go on forever with the one liners.he even gets teary eyed when write him a love letter telling him what he means to me.he also spends tons of money on me.sounds perfect right?well just found out hes been cheating on me with a coworker for 2 mons(like 10 times)and shows no signs of stopping.after i leave at night she comes over.when i asked him if something was going on he looked at me like a was crazy and said hell no and i just droped it(i know he is to long to expain how i know)i know he told her that he would never leave me for her.how can a man say he loves you but cheat on you even if its just for sex

2006-11-17 02:00:20 · 6 answers · asked by kellywoods0909 1 in Singles & Dating

You'll have to trust me when I say that I think she really believes herself when she tells me (and I've heard it a few times) that I am"too good for her". Anyone else ever been in something like this? If I try harder, I think she thinks I'm "lying". If I try less, I think she thinks to herself, "I was right". If anybody's willing to admit having this problem, and hopefully overcame it, could you suggest what may have instigated the change?

2006-11-17 01:59:58 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I need help... My marriage is ending fast! My son was born just over 8 months ago. While I was pregnant my husband was turned off by the whole thing, We had sex once. Since my son was born we had sex twice... once in August and once in September! I have tryed wear something sexy while just running around the house... Even walking around in nothing! NOTHING WORKS! I just don't know what to do. I'm feeling very bad about myself now and I don't know how to approach him about this! I'm not even sure if there is any hope of fixing our relationship... I feel like it's been too long! Please help... I'll take any advice I can!

2006-11-17 01:59:48 · 13 answers · asked by Help_Me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-11-17 01:59:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

has very small problem with mother didn't study for test what should I do i cant fail it
and cheating is no option

2006-11-17 01:58:47 · 2 answers · asked by PP 1 in Friends

ok, its true that we are not at all compatible with each other...n i don't want him as a boyfriend, but on our date i said some things that i suppose had offended him. he is actually a friend. before we went out, he always called me or wrote me emails. but now he has stopped doing all this. i sent him a text message saying that i left something in his car..n i wanted it back...he never sent its reply. i am quite sure he is very angry with me. n i am feeling bad for what i said...how can i ask him for forgiveness? please help me.

2006-11-17 01:57:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy at work is just so mean to me, he talks to me like hes crazy then i guess when he relizes that he has been wrong he will say sorry but he always does the same thing and he keeps saying that hes sorry hes crazy, do i keep accepting his apoligies or what. The only time hes nice to me is when he asking for my number

2006-11-17 01:57:16 · 5 answers · asked by darkcutie 1 in Singles & Dating

it's not a bad thing but it's a g.k quesion , when it's simple quesion

2006-11-17 01:57:08 · 12 answers · asked by sarath 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-17 01:56:57 · 6 answers · asked by zozatky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Young boyfriend already has a great career, financially independant and has his own place. So he doesn't rely on his parents for anything. He also is a great cook. He treats me well and he loves me to death. He makes me feel young and I'm so happy when I'm with him.
Any of you women dating or married to a younger man too?

2006-11-17 01:56:31 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently with a girl.. she's too quiet so i doesnt know how to ask her whether she likes me or not..
how do i put in my words nicely and ask her whether she likes me or not?? when shud i ask?? how do i ask if she already likes other guy??
Can anyone experinced tell me how?

2006-11-17 01:55:44 · 3 answers · asked by WM 2 in Singles & Dating

ok. long story short. my ex & i broke up about 6 mos ago. but on good terrms. so we still talk for the most part. hes comming to visit in december, but i told him we wernt gonna get back together, i stood my ground and he said he understands..when i mived here i met the kid and we hit it off great. we hung out al the time and had a great time, but i was upfront telling him i didnt want anything. he was cool w/ it- but im afriad he started liking me ...so lastnight i approached him in person and explain to him how i liked haning out w/ him and thought he was a great person but i only saw him as a friend; i think he was crushed- but he said hed love tohave me as a friend then nothing at all. did that go well ? but! now theres this other guy. iv just recnelty met him & wev hung out once- hit it off great. i honestly have a little cruch on him- but i dunno where thatll go- did i handle my siuation well ? the new guy i have in intererested- but how do i keep him :]

2006-11-17 01:54:50 · 4 answers · asked by marissa 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so my [ex] boyfriend still really likes me we dated all last summer and half of last year. He still tells me that he thinks about being with me and that he still likes me and all this but i have gotton over him and had about 3 boyfriends sence him well actually 3. i just dont feel the same way anymore and things have changed sence we havent been together if he wanted to be friends i am fine with that but i dont wanna be anything more. how do i till him ...i mean i understand that i could just be like " HEY I DONT LIKE YOU ANYMORE" but i dont wanna say it like that he can be very emotional and if he gets really upset i dont want it to all fall back on me and then him play a guilt trip on me. and try and make me feel bad but thats normally what a peron does when you break up with them they guilt trip you into feeling bad so that something good can come out of it.

2006-11-17 01:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by *[Hanna]* 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to know do you guys think its wierd that my bf's brother likes my sister what if my bf and i plan on getting married and there still together i told her to think about going out with him my bf and i have been going out for almost 9 months now do u think they should start dating?

2006-11-17 01:53:15 · 26 answers · asked by Pooh Bear 2 in Singles & Dating

I got a violation notice that my content was deleted for BODILY HARM. Has anyone else ever received one for this? Or is Yahoo getting really fancy with their violations? What other weird violations are out there that I don't know about?

Deleted Question: How Can I Detach My Boyfriend's Tongue?????????

Question Details: What is the most humane way to do this? I need to get a really good pic of it for my Ebay ad. I don't want it to look all jagged and bloody....and I don't want to hurt him if possible. I mean, just cuz he sucks at using his tongue doesn't mean he isn't a pretty good guy.... So what's the best way? And please don't answer with WTF??? That really doesn't help me at all....Thank you.

Reason of Violation:Bodily Harm


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2006-11-17 01:52:55 · 16 answers · asked by DoubleD 2 in Singles & Dating

they have split up and my brother has the kids here withme, 2 little girl's, the mum said se didn't want them, my problem is, that my brother an his wife, well soon 2 be ex wife, always fight andbring the kids in on t, along with me. i'm getting sick an tired of it, but they won't stop, i tell them im not interested in their fight, as long as thy learn to keep the kid's out of it. kid'have been through enoug as it is, along with counceling, cant spell i no lol. can you give me any advice on what i can do. the really stress me out, but it;s the kids i worrie aout, 1 is 4 an the other is 6,they try tellin eacher tha they r seeing someone elce, an tell the kids to an they then cry.

2006-11-17 01:52:25 · 5 answers · asked by louise 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i got married last december and im now getting a divorce well me and my husband was having to many problems and one night i went out with a friend of mine well i asked my husband to go and he didnt well me and my friend was going to a club with some people we worked with, well i got drunk before i made it to the club well this one guy i was with kept me with him because i couldnt go in the club well my friend and her date gave the guy i was with his key to go back to his place well i went well the thing about it is i had feelings for that guy and one thing led to another and i cheated on my husband i told my husband the truth and i left him well im still seeing that guy i cheated on my husband with. and now we are trying to have a baby but the thing is im in love with him and the big thing is he has been married for 20 years well he comes all of the way from he lives to see me and spend the night with me well i went up to where he lives and spent the 2 nights with him what do u think

2006-11-17 01:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by faithsalyers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok! I would like to know everyones opinion.......
Do you believe in Soulmates? Do you believe that if something is meant to be, than they will come back no matter what?

2006-11-17 01:51:50 · 35 answers · asked by marcela r 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my guy have been living together for 2yrs now he is cool when it is just me and him but whenever we go out to hang with friends he doesnt talk. He doesnt say a word!
Even if its his friends, my friends or friends we both had before getting together. He just doesnt talk.
I used to be crazy out-going talk to anyone and be all cool with that ya know? But whenever me and my guy go out and he doesnt say anything it makes me really uncomfortable and then I dont talk either! so its just the two of us sittin there not talkin to anyone.
But me being me sometimes I get over it and talk but that makes me uncomfortable too cuz its just me and his friend talking and My guy says i have a too flirty personality.
So what the h ell am I supposed to do when we hang out with people?
Is it me? we arent going to have any friends soon if this keeps up! I like hanging out with people but not when I feel uncomfortable talking because my man who i am there with wont say a word!!!!

2006-11-17 01:51:32 · 17 answers · asked by The Weed Fairy 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend both applied for the same job and it looks like we're gonna get the jobs. Will working together ruine our relationship? We'll have the same kind of job and probley be around each other alot durring the day. We don't live with each other yet, but when we do move in with each other will seeing each other 24 hours a day ruine our relationship? Both of our parents worked together and they said they were fine, but that was almost 20 years ago.

Thanks in advance.

2006-11-17 01:50:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 01:49:56 · 19 answers · asked by TT 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 01:49:52 · 14 answers · asked by sk8er_girl 1 in Friends

My 13 yo daughter is lovely, respectful, get good grades, a sweetheart and a bit crazy. She gave in to peer pressure and went to a mall with some friends in the car of a 19 yo boy we havent heard of. She knew she couldnt do that, but..I got to know cause she called me and asked me to get her at the mall. She told the truth, apologized, said she acted without thinking and promised not to do that again, But as a mom I have to correct her, which is hard after her sincere sorry mom, didnt mean to hurt you. But for a week she'll do some chores in the kitchen, thing she hates. She'll exchange swimming and hanging out with friends for a sweet kitchen pinafore, lol, 2hours a day. Of course I heard that Oh mom, please, but I just said, sorry hun, I love ya, youre a wonderful girl but needs a lesson. Thats how its gonna be. I wont forbid email, TV, etc, just want to give her a motherly lesson. She agreed she needed a lesson and isn't resentful, though a bit embarrassed with her sweet pinafore

2006-11-17 01:49:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anabela 1 in Family

So my ex borrowed quite a bit of money from both me and then my daughter's college account, promising that he would pay back every penny of it...( I know I was naive to believe this one)...but of course never did. This part happened during our separation and I did it out of good faith bc I didn't think that he would go as far as not paying her back. In the divorce, I let him have everything and only asked for full custody of our daughter (which is the only thing that mattered to me). However, we had a truck that I had co-signed and to which the title was in my name and I allowed him to keep that too bc I didn't want it but he changed the plates on it and I don't see how he did it without forging my name. Now obviously I want the plates to be changed but I only agreed to sign the title over if I got a notarized letter saying that once he sold it he would give back $1,000.00 to our daughter's account (hes borrowed far more then that combined from both me and her)...and he didn't like tha

2006-11-17 01:49:43 · 8 answers · asked by sicofitall325 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 01:48:19 · 18 answers · asked by mad mummy 1 in Friends

2006-11-17 01:48:15 · 8 answers · asked by so bored at work 1 in Singles & Dating

IMO

Best looking women=Latin

Best personality=Asian

2006-11-17 01:48:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have this girl thats talking to one of my guy friends but he wants to hook up with me and she dont get the hint about what hes trying to tell her and me and him live not even 5secs down the road from each other and we talk basicley every day what do i do with her i mean hes tried to tell her and i have to she jst dont get the F U C K ing hint

2006-11-17 01:47:28 · 20 answers · asked by lickmedry6917 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been together a long time nearly 9 years, he has been talking about marriage, the thought terrifies me i dont know whether i should, i need advice. We argue quite abit. Do you think i should marry him?

2006-11-17 01:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by susie ooozzz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I first met him I thought that he was the most perfect man that ive ever seen but i still dont understand why he treats me like he does i used to give it to him but now i see the truth! Oh no i dont wanna here it Im through I know ill be missing him!!

Why are boys so nice to there girls in the begining then begin to treat them like crap after 6 months

2006-11-17 01:45:53 · 29 answers · asked by Shelly Belly 1 in Singles & Dating