ok. long story short. my ex & i broke up about 6 mos ago. but on good terrms. so we still talk for the most part. hes comming to visit in december, but i told him we wernt gonna get back together, i stood my ground and he said he understands..when i mived here i met the kid and we hit it off great. we hung out al the time and had a great time, but i was upfront telling him i didnt want anything. he was cool w/ it- but im afriad he started liking me ...so lastnight i approached him in person and explain to him how i liked haning out w/ him and thought he was a great person but i only saw him as a friend; i think he was crushed- but he said hed love tohave me as a friend then nothing at all. did that go well ? but! now theres this other guy. iv just recnelty met him & wev hung out once- hit it off great. i honestly have a little cruch on him- but i dunno where thatll go- did i handle my siuation well ? the new guy i have in intererested- but how do i keep him :]
2006-11-17 01:54:50 · 4 answers · asked by marissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A love triangle, no, sounds more like life.
There is always someone that likes you more then you like them, and someone you like that does not like you equally. This is life. It sounds like this other guy is satisfied knowing that you are his friend. Who knows, maybe he feels in time you will have feelings for him.
2006-11-17 02:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by The Colonel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marissa, what exactly do you want - just a relationship anyhow? I don't think you consider the importance of committment when starting a new relationship. Well, if you continue like this, guys will just have fun with you briskly and dump you just almost immediately. My advice now's to be patient and look for a guy that'll really love you and you'll love. Make sure you build your relationship on love, but NOT on any other criterion. You may contact me through my profile for further discussion. But note that despite the fact that I'm a guy and single, this invitation is by NO MEANS a way to have a relationship with you but to discuss some sensitive issues, of course we may be friends afterwards. cya.
2006-11-17 10:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is stop being so hard on yourself. at least you're being honest and up front with this guys. unless you are leading them on, you've done nothing wrong. it's called "dating". just have fun. you'll know when the time is right to settle down.
2006-11-17 10:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great person but he was crushed
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2006-11-17 10:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋