i got married last december and im now getting a divorce well me and my husband was having to many problems and one night i went out with a friend of mine well i asked my husband to go and he didnt well me and my friend was going to a club with some people we worked with, well i got drunk before i made it to the club well this one guy i was with kept me with him because i couldnt go in the club well my friend and her date gave the guy i was with his key to go back to his place well i went well the thing about it is i had feelings for that guy and one thing led to another and i cheated on my husband i told my husband the truth and i left him well im still seeing that guy i cheated on my husband with. and now we are trying to have a baby but the thing is im in love with him and the big thing is he has been married for 20 years well he comes all of the way from he lives to see me and spend the night with me well i went up to where he lives and spent the 2 nights with him what do u think
2006-11-17 01:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by faithsalyers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What happened to grammar? slow down and catch your breath.
You should think of going to church. The pastor can counsel you and pray for you. It is free.
Jesus loves you and is waiting for you to turn to Him.
John 3:16
16"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son,[a] that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
One more
Jer 29:11-13
11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.
I pray the best for you.
God Bless!
2006-11-17 06:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AGH!!! Sweetheart, too much drama.
Why don't you get on your feet on your own. Go through the divorce, I don't think your husband will want to reconcile with you. But get a place on your own and be independent for a while. STOP DRINKING - it apparently encourages you to make very bad decisions. Forget the guy (he's been married for 20 years? Why would you want to be with a married guy?)
Get on your feet, take a break from dating anyone, and seriously look into your issues with alcohol. I think you need to focus on building your own life, building your self-esteem and then maybe you will be ready to meet the right man and make a life long committment to one person.
2006-11-17 10:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on his current wife, then what will stop him from cheating on you? His promise that he loves you. His complaints that she is a total B-witch?
Like you can believe any of that.
Bail out now, stay off the booze and chems and take a year off learning who YOU are, and what love and marriage are really about.
Then, when you are finally ready to be the one, then see if you can find the one for you. One who is not currently attached and is emotionally, spiritually, financially and physically healthy, just like you should be before you seek to share your life with another.
2006-11-17 10:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First.....we suggest you get an education.
Second......If you cheated on your husband with a guy who is cheating on his wife, then all you had was a one night stand.
Third.....If you are still seeing him, now you are engaged in a relationship that will destroy two marriages, instead of just one and you are basing your relationship on a lie.
Reality Check, honey. He's not leaving his wife. You are on your own. I hope it was worth it.
2006-11-19 17:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by army girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love this new guy, I say go for it. But is he going to leave his wife? If he doesn't then I'd be upset about that. If he loves you then he is not going to want to spend even another year or two with this woman, unless he has things to still iron out.
You can't help who you fall in love with.
2006-11-17 10:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you sound insane
2006-11-17 10:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by apriljm76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not fully committed to you til he gets divorced.
2006-11-17 10:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you re crazy
2006-11-17 10:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by shirleypowers1953 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋