well i have this girl thats talking to one of my guy friends but he wants to hook up with me and she dont get the hint about what hes trying to tell her and me and him live not even 5secs down the road from each other and we talk basicley every day what do i do with her i mean hes tried to tell her and i have to she jst dont get the F U C K ing hint
2006-11-17 01:47:28 · 20 answers · asked by lickmedry6917 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE needs to speak with her and be honest and upfront. He needs to tell her that he is not interested in her in that way and that she should look somewhere else for a boyfriend etc. He needs to tell her that he likes someone else. But HE needs to do it not you.
2006-11-17 01:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK to the girl. You have to be completely honest with her. Tell her your feelings for the guy and that you would prefer if she just backed off. Tell it to her straight, some people just don't understand subtleness. Maybe it would be a good idea for the girl to see you and the guy together... then maybe she would finally get it.
Good luck!
2006-11-17 01:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hemp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it neither of you have flat out said, "We're together go away"? Why does he "want" to hook up with you? Why haven't you just started dating each other? Why does she need a hint, why haven't you just told her straight out?
Seems like there are more issues here then you think.
2006-11-17 01:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes hints don't work and you have to be blunt but subtle about it - tell her exactually what's up but in a way that won't offend her - sure she is possibly going to get p-oed, but it's better than getting frustrated over her not getting the point
2006-11-17 01:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mad Marvin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight up----It ya'll don't have a "label" then how the hell is she suppost to know???? You can try to do a lot of things just tell her that you and him have something going on...If she's a gal pal....If she isn't then what are you worried about....?? A little competition??
2006-11-17 01:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by RobbinATL 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing bascially you can do just let it run it's course,you and him just keep going on walks but if she follows just talk to her but you and him can keep doing your own thing.you don't have to be mean what if she is doing that because she doesn't have alot of friends or she just wants the attention like all girls want or she want to see how far she can push you guys.
2006-11-17 01:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Charles U F 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it seems like he is the one that would need to say something and maybe be more clear or forward about it. no need to get involved. maybe your gettting the wrong info. if he really dont want nothing to do with her why cant he just be straignt with her.
2006-11-17 01:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by justincase119 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk about bad karma. geez, try seeing it from her point of view. what if you were that girl and it was them insulting you behind your back. if this is your friend then stop with the hints and be real. she can't be that stupid.
2006-11-17 01:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, since u know that he wants to hook up with u, then ask him urself, and he'll say yes and then that girl will get the message.
2006-11-17 01:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hammer to the head maybe..
Nice nickname lickmedry..lol
2006-11-17 01:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋