Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

Ok. So my husband has this bestfriend that he has had since they were 14. Here is the problem. About once or twice a month he goes to his house. When he goes he ends up being gone hours longer than he said and sometimes doesn't come home at all. He never calls to let me know he will be late or isn't coming home. He won't answer his cell phone if I try to call him. He also gets completley drunk everytime he goes. There was also an incident earlier this year. My husband rented out a bar for my birthday and threw me a surprise birthday party. His best friend and several others of his friends came. They hung just long enough for him to get wasted and then said they were leaving (around 10pm) and he left with them without even saying goodbye to me! I dont blame his friends because he is a grown man and makes his own choices, but I don't know what to do. He compains that I just don't want him to go out with out me. I don't mind him going out its jsut the choices he makes when he does.HELP ME

2006-11-17 01:02:13 · 28 answers · asked by priss879 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Comung home from iraq, wondering if is there any sexy lil thing to marry

2006-11-17 01:02:02 · 10 answers · asked by vovotinho 1 in Weddings

2006-11-17 01:00:45 · 13 answers · asked by mhed 1 in Family

2006-11-17 01:00:45 · 29 answers · asked by dhavaldon2007 1 in Singles & Dating

answers on a postcard!

2006-11-17 01:00:32 · 40 answers · asked by Mizzy 3 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for two years. He cheated with a girl that lives in our town . I didn't know because he did it on myspace . Know that i found out. He's trying to tell me how all this confusion started.

2006-11-17 01:00:22 · 21 answers · asked by Honesty 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance has invited me over to his family's dinner to eat his newborn cousins umbilical and placenta. It is a tradition in his family to eat umbilical cords and placentas to bring you good luck. I have never eaten umbilical cord or placenta before and do not wish to try it now. He asured me not to worry because it will taste like chicken. I really love him but don't exactly know if I should go and deal with it or just find an excuse. Help please, what would you do if you were in my situation??

2006-11-17 00:59:59 · 19 answers · asked by mamabag06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hate people who lie just for attention .

2006-11-17 00:59:28 · 8 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you've been hurt and file for disability, you get approved and recieve a lump sum payment, is your husband entitled to spend that money? What if he tells you that you haven't contributed in x amount of years and you owe him? Do you feel that this is a sort of blackmail? Please, serious responses only.

2006-11-17 00:59:04 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 00:58:50 · 20 answers · asked by JASNJ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-17 00:58:34 · 22 answers · asked by random_task555 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-17 00:58:22 · 13 answers · asked by sweetsmile 2 in Singles & Dating

Am in my early 20s and feel my life is over.Am in a foriegn country but have no luck in finding a part-time job because i cant speak their language.Am living at home as i have nothing to do,so i feel like am useless.

2006-11-17 00:58:20 · 4 answers · asked by Joreen M 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanted your opinion. I like 1 woman of all my heart one we be together during 1year and 4 months it represents all has my eyes. she let me. For 8 months I cried I tested to pardon me but no result and for 8 months it has been with another man. she's everythink 4 me. I would have had to let the tps make the things I was impatient. During this period she my known as I does not want to put to me with you for fear Ca breaks and that one recovers never again together I veu to leave time, but 3 days after her says to me I thought it at the time I think it more. she said full with things like that and reconsidered these words .je like it I can more what make. She changed such and my known as you me degoute by have to insist you is insane A your opinion it is foutu? ! I miss her terribly I dream to have one 2 chance, which must make. the guy be - bo that me but more caracter has

2006-11-17 00:57:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 00:57:18 · 37 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

We've only been married for a year (first time living together) but we've dated 6 1/2 years 1st. You the saying you never know someone until you live with them well it's kinda like that. Things we thought were just minor problems became huge problems once we moved in together from jealousy, laziness, insecurity, finance everything and now it's like I want to work on things and he's not sure if he does. We're both pretty young and have never been on our own BUT that has never been a real issue with us. Now he's saying that he doesn't know what to do about anything anymore including our marriage and that he needs space. My thing is I don't mind respecting that he needs space but how long should I give him? or what should I be doing while he needs this time? we'll still be living together, same bed and all. It'll just be like we're together but we're not and that doesn't make sense to me. I thought maybe if I showed him things that he'll miss that whould work but I don't know what to do.

2006-11-17 00:57:08 · 10 answers · asked by bettyspagettii 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Many times I watch movies or read stories and really want the Bad Guy to win....I really do wish they would make a movie and actually let the Bad Guy win.

Its getting to the point were I dont even want to watch Good Guy vs. Bad Guy movies anymore because they will make the whole thing so unbelieveable that the whole thing just becomes stupid.

We need an advocate for Villains....a truely Evil Person to set the stories straight.

Do You Agree????



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2006-11-17 00:56:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So we've been divorced for about ten months now, and yes we do have two children together. But often times when he calls here it's not to talk to the children, it's to "chit-chat" with me. I've no idea how to handle this at all. My boyfriend gets upset, and while I know I should tell the ex... if it's not about the kids then don't call, I am worried that if I say that he will stop seeing his kids. He does have a habit of being very inconsistent with them and taking it out on them when he is mad at me. So on the one hand, I don't want to tell him to leave me alone for fear of pissing him off and interrupting his relationship with his kids, but on the other hand I really have nothing to say to him and don't want him calling here like that to talk to me about things and I really hate that my boyfriend is being upset by this, but I don't blame him, I'd be upset as well.

2006-11-17 00:56:19 · 7 answers · asked by p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I lent him quite a large sum of money. Things are not looking good between us. Should I hold off ending it until I get my cash back?

2006-11-17 00:55:16 · 41 answers · asked by Dreame0 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 00:54:45 · 18 answers · asked by bisexualmale s 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 4 yrs. My husband and I each have a seperate account and a joint account , we also have seperate credit cards. I am a spender , my husband is a saver. He took my personal credit cards as well as personal debit card because he said I was spending too much money. We both work full time and are by no means hurting for money. I feel he is treating me like a child. Do I have the right to be mad??????

2006-11-17 00:54:16 · 11 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If you bf was Very jealous and always accused you of cheating and looking at other guys when you dont, what does this mean?? and what if he doesnt let you go through his phone but he can go through your phone whenever he wants???
Im very suspicious right now, i dont even know where he works and we have been together for a year! :-(

2006-11-17 00:52:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have crazy cozens and they like to make jokes and pick on me. most of the boys pick on me because i am the shortest forth oldest. can anyone help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-17 00:52:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 00:50:44 · 10 answers · asked by L.A. Scene 3 in Family

I'm British, but have been asked to be a be someone's best man at a French wedding. What are my duties?

2006-11-17 00:49:45 · 2 answers · asked by ocky 1 in Weddings

My bf and I have been dating 8 months...it started great, but now things are going downhill...we argue ALL the time, we've almost broke up like a million times, he's cheated on me with 3 or 4 different girls....he's 19 and I'm 17....we live 2 1/2 hours away from each other b/c he's in college. I don't want to leave him because I love him, but is that what's best for me?

2006-11-17 00:48:45 · 29 answers · asked by sheand24 1 in Singles & Dating

Coming home from iraq and looking fhr someone to marry

2006-11-17 00:48:01 · 13 answers · asked by vovotinho 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend, she doesnt have a green card. so im thinking about marrying her so she can get a green card and stay in the USA. the problem is that we went out before in the past.dated ,messed around and stuff. i now have a girlfriend and she hates my friend. What do you think I should do?

2006-11-17 00:47:04 · 13 answers · asked by CuriousJorge07 3 in Singles & Dating

and tells you about his new place, invites you to visit him (he's moved 3 hours away) and then tells you he'll be in your area for the holidays, does that mean he's interested?

2006-11-17 00:46:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend, she doesnt have a green card. so im thinking about marrying her so she can get a green card and stay in the USA. the problem is that we went out before in the past.dated ,messed around and stuff. i now have a girlfriend and she hates my friend. What do you think I should do?

2006-11-17 00:43:41 · 30 answers · asked by CuriousJorge07 3 in Other - Family & Relationships