I have this friend, she doesnt have a green card. so im thinking about marrying her so she can get a green card and stay in the USA. the problem is that we went out before in the past.dated ,messed around and stuff. i now have a girlfriend and she hates my friend. What do you think I should do?
2006-11-17 00:47:04 · 13 answers · asked by CuriousJorge07 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on who is more important to you, the girlfriend or the friend. If I were you, I won't marry her, as much as I want to help, it could potentially ruin your current relationship and you could face criminal charges. It isn't as simple anymore. Now the government actually observes and even examines the relationship, how well you know eah other, its a thorough investigation now. The best way you can help her is to assist her in getting a green card legally.
2006-11-17 01:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT a good idea plus being married does not mean she will not get deported. My cousin just divorced someone who was using him to stay in the country. He found out that they would have had to be married for 3 yrs for her to stay. HE GOT HER DEPORTED.
Its no wonder your gf does not like her.
2006-11-17 01:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by anita_reel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this girl, then dump your girlfriend. Say you found another girl. Then tell the girl you love her and see what happenes. Maybe wait a month if she can stay that long and after that. Ask her to marry you.
2006-11-17 00:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Allie loves Nick J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has balls putting right down to his knees approximately now at a protracted distance relationship. The tank must be lightenend and then he might have replace of thought. while a guy loves a girl, he will ravish each and every thing there is to ravish and pass away no rock unturned , keep in mind he will love you till finally he's fullfilled. while he's completed and has tasted you thoroughly then he will calculate in his head what's next. What am i able to try this i haven't executed along with her yet. So the subsequent time you sleep with him the situation has replaced and so on and so on till all rocks have been became over. Now that he has finished crammed his desires and made you experience stable probably in line with threat little or much less extremely relies upon on you, he's left status there thinking...hm, what do I do now? in line with threat that's the time he might desire to start exhibiting he loves you at the instant that he has already confirmed you he could make love, yet something occurs alongside the way and his technique of modern-day love has left him putting for greater flavor while there is none to be tasted. that's while he travels much less generic to the mattress with you and could become distorted and actual preyed upon by different females donning a clean flavor and that they might nicely be your so observed as lady friends desirous to get in on your action. as quickly as he's biten by the affection trojan horse there is not any therapy, yet you will possibly desire to chew him and infect him with your love with the intention to make it final and that takes a extremely hassle-free answer to end. that's observed as "recognize." Make him recognize you completely otherwise your marriage will fail in any respect expenditures. adult men tend to disrespect a girl in mattress even nonetheless he thinks he's doing the the main appropriate element. in line with threat you do no longer prefer to do this or that. might you do no longer prefer to be taken care of like trash contained in the mattress off the line. you are the dream, your the golden flower and the chicken of paradise that opens her physique to the mate she so chooses, so do never enable a guy disrespect that in the time of mattress with you or you will lose all that glory and your flower will wither till now his eyes and you will grow to be a daisy closed extremely of a rose blooming.
2016-10-04 01:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any relationship, which arises out of Green Card is doomed from Day1.
2006-11-17 00:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i understand where you are coming from...but u have a girl-friend you can not marry (even tho yall don't have to act like yall really married) her and as a friend she should respect that, unless u like your friend more than your girl friend. what you can do is find a boy that is your friend that you know will respect her and wouldn't mind going through this process...sit and discuss this with them.
2006-11-20 09:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by SwEeTs!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for all the wrong reasons my friend. find her someone else to date. i cant blame your current girlfriend. is the other girl paying you to marry her? honestly i hear about this all the time 5k to 10k to marry them establish citizenship and then divorce. this is so wrong and it will be on your track record so to speak.you asked what you should do?? tell her your dating and kiss her goodbye. thanks Kat
2006-11-17 01:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ONLY marry someone who you truly love and will commit yourself fully to. Marrying someone to get her a greencard isn't right.
2006-11-17 00:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only marry her if you really love her. You might be helping her out now, but you might regret it later.
2006-11-17 00:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude it's not that simple.. even without the girlfriend involved. LMAO.. you're also diggin a big hole for your sex life there fella.
2006-11-17 00:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋