We have been together for two years. He cheated with a girl that lives in our town . I didn't know because he did it on myspace . Know that i found out. He's trying to tell me how all this confusion started.
2006-11-17 01:00:22 · 21 answers · asked by Honesty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if it was a one time deal and you have been with him for two years then I would try to find out why he did it in the first place. Mayne your relationship needs some working on but don't let him think that he can get away with it because then he won't stop. You need to seriously sit down and talk to him bout the situation and ask why he did it. If it was because he isn't happy with your relationship anymore then get rid of him because he doesn't deserve you. If he is willing to work on things and talk things out then try it because a one night stand is not worth 2 years. Also make him earn your trust back. You should be allowed to question him and everything because he has lied. If you really want to be with him then try to work it out but if it doesn't work out get lost. Also DO NOT go out and have a one night stand to get back at him, it doesn't make him mad, and it makes you feel even worse!
2006-11-17 01:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for you to split. Once a cheater, always a cheater. It starts with myspace. then what? Her place. If he really loved and cared for you he would not be "shopping" on myspace. period. I have been with my girl for 2 years. I have a myspace account. It has nothing more then bands on it. She even knows my pass code. If it's just a confusion then he would have no prob with giving you his pass code so you can see all his msg. Unless he something to hide in that case he wont give it to you. Simple as that. Should not be hiding anything in a 2 year relationship.
2006-11-17 01:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by highrange101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated...he cheated. You don't have to put up with being treated like that. I think Myspace is simply a glorified dating site, and just plain stupid. I think it is more respectful to two people in a relationship not to have not to have myspace pages advertising themselves. Good luck, I hope you find the answer you are looking for.
2006-11-17 01:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it doesn't matter how he did it - the fact is, he cheated on you. Even if he's truly sorry, would you be able to trust him again? Whatever excuse he has for it, it's not good enough - if there were problems then he should have talked to you about them, not gone with someone else behind your back. It doesn't sound like he's trustworthy - break up with him.
2006-11-17 01:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jeroboam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated...that's the bottom line and only you can decide if the relationship is worth continuing. You need to have trust to make a relationship work so if you think you can get over it then continue on.
2006-11-17 01:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Elbow Time!
Get on With Your Life!
You're Worth Much More!!
2006-11-17 01:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating. We can't make excuses just because it is online, it is the thought that counts. And if your trust is gone out of the door, so must he.
2006-11-17 01:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Never. NOPE.
Cyber love is never real. Gosh. Anyone could put a hot pic and make guys drool.
Confront him and tell him that if he truly loves you, he won't give it up for some cyber girl.
2006-11-17 01:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by Bl00die 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-11-17 01:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by JASNJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you cheat on myspace...did they hook up in person, or just chat on the pc ?
2006-11-17 01:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋