Young boyfriend already has a great career, financially independant and has his own place. So he doesn't rely on his parents for anything. He also is a great cook. He treats me well and he loves me to death. He makes me feel young and I'm so happy when I'm with him.
Any of you women dating or married to a younger man too?
2006-11-17 01:56:31 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as long as you are happy together,age should not matter.
2006-11-17 02:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by oldjr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds so wonderful. There is nothing wrong with that. I'm not sure how long you have been dating, but give him some time before deciding how great he is. I have dated a younger guy and it wasn't anything like your experience. He was way too young and immature. As far as him making you feel young, you are only 28. Wait until you are 40 and date a younger man, then come and ask us how we feel about that. I can answer for you right now, I would feel jealous. You go girl and get your freak on. Good luck.
2006-11-17 02:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've gotten yourself in a situation that will never work. He may be successful in his carreer and have great qualities, but mentally, he's way too young for you. This man is just coming out of childhood (18). He hasn't really experienced life or women. His goals, desires, taste in women, etc, etc, etc. are bound to change and believe me, you will no longer be the apple of his eye. And what are you doing with such a young person. You should be dealing with men more your age who have more in common with you. I'm talking about "life" experiences and common sense and wisdom. These things come about through growth and aging. The young man is just starting life. You know yourself that you change as you get older. And what makes you think he doesn't have a "younger" woman on the side. Get real. If you just using him as a "boy toy" and he's just using you as a "?", eventually the "s----" is going to hit the fan and all hell is going to break loose. Neithe one of you are in this relationship for the right reason and it will not work.
2006-11-17 03:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to wonder if he's a very mature 18 and you're a very immature 28. Because I can't imagine that you would have the same goals and asprations with that age difference. I would wonder what you have in common at all to talk about.
If I were you I'd explore why you feel the need to feel young? What's wrong with feeling 28? That's not anywhere near being old.
2006-11-17 02:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think if it turned around the other way say with an older man and younger woman the man is a "pervert" but since its women that run the world now it is now socially acceptable for this kind of practice. I'm an older man looking for someone. If she happens to be 10 years younger than me I'm not going to care what other people think. If he makes you happy THATS what counts. Not the opinion of society.
2006-11-17 02:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by Stupid White Bastard 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am married to someone 7 years younger- its been 20 years now and he was barely 21 years when we met- also a new citizen. Hes my best friend and lover and though people do go through changes- esp between 17-25 or so) you sound like your smart enough to realize this- and so is he-good luck! Besides- I always kid my husband that since guys don't live as long as women- we'll die in bed together! ;0)
2006-11-17 02:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a 28 year old guy was with a 18 year old girl what would be said? Should be the same right?
I went out with a younger guy one time , never after that.....What is good for one is not good for another.
Hope everything works out for a long time.....
2006-11-17 02:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my man when I was 31 and he was just turned 22. we are still together after nearly 8 years and have a beautiful baby boy and plan to get married next year.
2006-11-17 02:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by jerseydoris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i met my husband i was 16 and he was 23,now i'm 31,we have 3 kids and been together for almost 16yrs and been married for 5 and a half.it CAN work,trust me,do what feels right no matter what anyone else says.no-one thought my husband and me would last but we're as much in love now as we were 16 yrs ago-probly more.enjoy what you have and good luck to both of you
2006-11-17 02:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are happy then you should not worry for anybody else opinion. But if I were you I will try to keep me more physically fit. Just think what will happen after 15-20 years.
This time things looks good
2006-11-17 02:07:38 · answer #10 · answered by baniban2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but i dont think t here is anything wrong with it guys do it all the time as long as you make each other happy and I would be happy to because it goes to show that you still have it.
2006-11-17 02:06:22 · answer #11 · answered by sar sar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋