I want to know do you guys think its wierd that my bf's brother likes my sister what if my bf and i plan on getting married and there still together i told her to think about going out with him my bf and i have been going out for almost 9 months now do u think they should start dating?
2006-11-17 01:53:15 · 26 answers · asked by Pooh Bear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend is your bf. His brother is an independent personality, and so is your sister. If God, fortune, luck, chance or whatever you call it decide, that the two fall in love with each other, what should be weird about that?
2006-11-17 02:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by corleone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no offence but 9 monthss is far tooooo early to be thinking of marriage. Im almost 3 years with my boyfriend and we talk about it now but not planning yet.....plenty of time. however, you are right with regards your sister no she should keep clear!! Think 2 cases if you break up with your bf(not that im saying you wil) wont it be very awkward for her at his house or him at yours, then again if it works out it would be so wierd if not off putting if you do decide/end up marrying
hope this helped but no she should NOT go there its an un spoken rule
2006-11-17 02:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a tough one...But maybe it could be a good thing. When you spend time with your boyfriends family she would be there too... And a lot of times brothers are a lot a like so she could also help you when y'all are having problems because she's gone through the same thing with her boyfriend. Also if you and your boyfriend got married and your sister married the brother your kids would be what they call double cousins, they would look more alike than brothers and sisters. But that's just my opinion, good luck!
2006-11-17 02:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Blah:Blah:Blah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's up to them, and it really shouldn't matter.
If your sister and your bf's brother really Don't like each other, and the only reason they are considering going out is because you and your bf a couple. Then yes they shouldn't date.
2006-11-17 02:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the adventure that your mom and pa are brother and sister, then i think of the possibilities are incredibly stable that ya'll are kin-human beings. you're a lovable couple none the less and look greater like bf and gf.
2016-10-15 16:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not really weird. but it could create complications esp if they dated and broke up or if you and your bf broke up not that that would happen but its possible and then if one of you guys were still together the family functions would be all kinds of awkward not to mention just regular occasions so i would be wary of it. its complicated enough when two people get together when you throw in your sister and his brother its a volcano waiting to explode. so just tell her your concerns and tell your bf the situation and that youre worried about it and make sure everyone knows the consquences before they go into it.
2006-11-17 02:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is that weird? Follow the train of thought ... even if you and your boyfriend get married .... they are not related. So why is it weird?
Just as a point of interest .. my aunts married brothers. Kept things less confusing with still having the same last names, lol.
2006-11-17 02:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jaded 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really it's none of your buisness who your sister dates even if it is the brother of your bf. chances are if they started dating then their relationship could outlast yours. what are you more afraid of the fact that your sister might date your bf brother or that if they do start dating it might show up cracks that are in your current relationship and they might end up with a stronger and closer relationship than you have. my advice keep out of it
2006-11-17 02:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell you what-i think if they really like e/other and want to start dating then they should do that-it isn't about you and ur bf or that sis' like bro's.....it's about 2 people loving e/other-if they want to go out they should go out with no pressure of u and ur bf and nothing making them do things or not do things-getting to know somone better takes time-and somtimes loving them dose too....there r times when a person falls in love in 2 minutes or two years -----so they need to go by their own rate i think maby u should try not to worry about it so much n jus let them do things when they want and handle it on their own---try to keep a hold on your own relationships and don't play with others
i hope this works out for them
take care
~Ally
2006-11-17 02:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is very common and I personally know sisters married to brothers. They might be perfect for one another.
2006-11-17 02:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋