When I first met him I thought that he was the most perfect man that ive ever seen but i still dont understand why he treats me like he does i used to give it to him but now i see the truth! Oh no i dont wanna here it Im through I know ill be missing him!!
Why are boys so nice to there girls in the begining then begin to treat them like crap after 6 months
2006-11-17 01:45:53 · 29 answers · asked by Shelly Belly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just like any newly-wed couple you have the honeymoon period where everything is great. No relationship is completely perfect. Most relationships start out that way, so don't compare you relationship to beginning when it was perfect. If you want that feeling again, find a new boyfriend, start all over again. Dump the ******.
2006-11-17 01:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by lupering 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all boys are like this but some of them can be. However as you already know what you have to do then do it and don't put up with his rubbish. Actually will you miss someone that has treated you so badly, no I know think you will. Move on to the next guy that will hopefully treat you better
2006-11-17 10:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear unappreciated,
Women that get treated like this means that you let him. I had many many years ago a boyfriend that I was madly in love but since he was a little bit rough I had to put my foot down and make him respect me!!!!!!
In the beginning, everything is so romantic but when the stardust starts falling down you need to show the boy or man who you are!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If he mistreats you in front of people(it is the worst thing that one can do) you put an end to it immediately and so on.
don't let things just go on and say to yourself he will change. WRONG, especailly today that there is so much violence you need to make yourself loud and clear that you will take only kindness , love and anything else besides that will not be acceptable. Be strong don't let anyone put you down and when explaining something to your partner please be kind. Nowadays, people approach each other with volgarity and a woman loses all her magic and beauty. I wish you most of all Love, Kindness and a beautiful life with a wonderful man. PS Don't be in a hurry to get married young. Enjoy life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-17 10:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by marque1717 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are going to treat you like that because you didn't take long enough to get to know them. Six months isn't long enough to get to know someone. The first six months is always the time when both people are on their best behavior. It's after that period that you start to see things for what they really are. All boys want sex and when they get it, they tend to treat you like crap. It's not until they grow up and realize what type of girl they really want. My advice to you is to stop wasting your time on the boys right now and get a good education. When you are older you will see that not all guys are jerks and they will even treat you like a princess. Give them time to grow up. Thank you and good luck.
2006-11-17 09:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess some people just like 2 b the one to have controll over the other 1, i no its not fair but im sure their is better out their for you,most boys will treat the girls great at first, then crap, but i say have a go at them , talk to them, tell them what they do is not a good feeling 4 the girl, an if tey love them, treat them nice or they will lose it all. i dont no why man do it for, but girls do it to, i guess its cause they all think, naaa he or she wont leave me now.you no what i mean
2006-11-17 09:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of competetion........ I date several men, and I tell them at the beginning of our relationship they are not the only guy in my life, so don't get too comfortable or expect me to be there at a moments notice. Because I have OPTIONS and other offers that may be better than what they may be offering at present!!!! That usually makes them decide to treat me with more respect and courtesy if they want what I got, or they can leave and never come back!!!!! Either way I don't care, there are plenty of fish in the sea and I'm going fishing everyday!!!!
2006-11-17 10:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They certainly are not going to lure any girl in treating them like crap to begin with. The ones who really know how to manipulate don't start full blown at 6 months, it's usually something like this:
One- start with the little comments to see a reaction
Two- make the comments a little harsher and toss in some light belittling.
Three- they now know they can get away with it and start calling you really hurtful names to make you feel insecure
Four- Isolation begins, they slowly stop you from talking to your friends and family
Five- with isolation complete and with you now completely dependent on them things can get physical because you now feel you have nowhere to turn for help
Six- I promise to give you a nice eulogy
2006-11-17 10:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are that way. Although many seem to be that way. If the guy is treating you that way he basicly just wanted one thing from you.
Many people fake who they are in the beginning so that you will like. Both men and women do this, but in the end you will see their true side. Its a rare gem to find the person that is truthful and themselves from the beginning. All you can do is be more cautious
2006-11-17 09:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by imrtl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's because the thrill of the case is over. When you are dating in the beginning stages, you wonder what they are doing where you are, etc. He's does his own thing, you do yours, you don't hang out much. But when guys seem to be spending more time with you they cool off, act less interested. This is one thing I truly hate about relationships, so many guys do this. Guys can't be honest because their afraid we are going to throw something at them. Now it's time for you to move on, he's not being good to you and he will break your heart if you stay in this.
2006-11-17 09:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because you had sex to early in the relationship. he, was after onething in the begining, which was sex.he played his role which was to be nice to get what he wanted once he did that he moved on to the next girl.so this is what you are seeing he has gotten what he wanted from you he dont have to be nice any more iam sorry he treat you, this way but remember what goes around comes around. he, will meet his match one day and he will feel what you feel. good luck
2006-11-17 09:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋