me and my bf are fighting over something he said she said argument and i dont know what to do should i stay with him or not
2006-11-17 03:02:42 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one can MAKE you mad. You own your emotions and responses. You CAN choose to not be mad.
Don't blame him for your emotional responses.
He can do things you don't like.
Being mad is YOUR choice.
2006-11-17 03:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Are you in a relationship a long time? Do you love him? Can this argument be worked out? Are you hurting each other over this? There are many factors that would contribute whether a break up is necessary or not.
Think about if this argument is really worth breaking up. If not then sit him down and tell him that you think that your relationship is worth more than this fight and talk thoroughly about the situation. If you cant do this, and do not have this type of communication in your relationship, then maybe it is time to move on.
2006-11-17 11:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He-said-she-said are the worst arguments to have....but if you are arguing over something someone else said, then there is no trust there between the two of you, because other wise you would believe your bf (or he would believe you) not the person that was saying it to start drama. You need to work on your trust issues. If you can't trust him, then get out of it. You and him both will be unhappy if you can't trust one another.
2006-11-17 11:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is ultimately your choice. The best thing to do is to sit down with him and figure out the problem. the honest problem, why did you take what he said the way you did? Why did he say what he said? No, he's a jerk isn't the answer. If you think that way the problem gets worse. if he can't have this conversation with you like an adult then moving on might be the way to go.
2006-11-17 11:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Gray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF the he said she said argument is about cheating I would believe him over another girl because girls will make up stuff to get with your man. . .I think breaking up would be the easy way out if you are togeher and you love him you still stick by his side through the hardest times. . .That's what I did I still got hurt because he wanted a h* he knew that I didn't wanna do anything like that with him for a while he'll be back and he'll get his heart broken but he broke it himself. . . But yeah I think you shouldn't break up with him until you know for a fact what is being said is true. . .
2006-11-17 11:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U both sound like some immature couple.Its nothing to panic.
Just play it cool,take a break on a weekend with your friends and family and keep away from ur bf till ur mind is cool off and ur ready to move on and talk on better subjects.Fools argue Wise don't.
Forgive and forget wins the virtue.
Good Luck!!!
2006-11-17 11:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking of breaking up with him over a fight, the relationship must obviously not mean that much to you. You should probably end it now because this will not be your last fight.
2006-11-17 11:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wanna break up w/ him over that? no. stay 2gether. if u think u r ready 2 break up w/ him go ahead but i wouldnt over a stupid arugument. just tell him u dont wanna fight over that ne more cuz u dont wanna hurt ur relationship. hope that helps!!
2006-11-17 11:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by Muhh-liss-Uhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both could start by acting like ADULTS and stop acting like CHILDREN. He said she said argument how childish is that?
2006-11-17 11:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok before answering more details are needed - Who Said What?
2006-11-17 11:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Mad Marvin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋