My ex and I split up for about two months but we stay in touch. Everytime we talk he questions me about having a new BF and accuses me of sleeping around, he says he is joking but lately he has been saying it alot. What really bothers me is he cheated on me twice and left me for someone else and gets an attitude with me if he thinks im with someone else. I am trying to be a friend to him but is it worth it?
2006-11-17 03:58:05 · 13 answers · asked by mrclas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No...and chances are things will get worse. You cannot help but think he cares when he expresses interest in your love life or resent and mistrust his words because of what he did. He is trying to hold on to you for backup hun. Either stop the calls or stop that as a conversation topic if you cannot just put an end to the relationship entirely. Honestly, you are the one who is going to be hurt here in the long run.
2006-11-17 04:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why? Why are you trying to be a friend? Do you like people to treat you in a way that is demeaning? Sit back and think...when it's over...what do you think is on his mind? Unless that is what you want, then hey..why bother complaining or asking about it..it's what you want! Your too easy! Slam the door....no come on....SLAM THE DOOR!!!!
Trust me. When you open it...there might be a little swollen feeling of emptiness....but look around ...there is a whole wide world of opportunity! Take a deep breath!
2006-11-17 12:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Win 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he's worth it. Sounds like he's controlling and manipulative, and why the heck do you want that around? Forget him and enjoy your new boyfriend. Your ex is just mean! Joking around about you sleeping around is just not funny. What a jerk!
2006-11-17 12:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by lovebluenfluff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he is not worth it.. if he is your "friend" he wouldnt accuse u of sleeping around or having a boyfriend. if he keeps hurting you and getting u upset or whatever when he asks u these questions, its so not worth it
2006-11-17 12:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by gacountrygirly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no no no , no guy is worth it if he doesnt see he is being a jerk to you then why are you there taking it from him your not his girlfriend anymore and he is no one to judge you a guy like that you shouldnt even want to be friends with but i always say people are always going to say what they have to say just know this follow your heart and be about you but honestly thats what i think if you dont agree and you heart tells you other wise well so be it
2006-11-17 12:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by bridget m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes not worth being friends with if hes still giving you **** when he was that one that hurt you first. Move on and dont even talk to him anymore.
2006-11-17 12:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the reason he acts like that is because he obiously still has feelings for you. But if you guys are not together and just friends, then you need to make it clear to him that thats just wat you guys are "FRIENDS" Let him know wat you feel about the whole situation, let him know that he has no right to get upset or tell you who you can or cant date because thats a decision you guys made when you broke up. Good luck.
2006-11-17 12:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HONESTLY I DON'T THINK THAT FRIENDSHIP IS WORTH IT AT ALL. IF HE HAS A PROBLEM WITH U HAVING A NEW BF THEN THAT MEANS HE FEELS GUILTY FOR WAT HE DID TO U IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
2006-11-17 12:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by tmacbaby80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your time, going backwards, he is YOUR EX for a reason....
2006-11-17 12:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i think that it worth it
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2006-11-17 12:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋