me and my ex broke up acouple days ago and ended up getting back together two weeks later. Everything was going great and then one day he call me and tells me he is breaking up with me and wont tell me why. well he just called me today and told me that the reason he broke up with me was because when we had our two week break upp he ended up slleping with his ex and getting her pregnant and she said the only way she was going to keep the baby was if he broke up with me and went back out with her. she turned around and got an abortion and now he wants me back what do i do????
2006-11-17 04:44:12 · 26 answers · asked by crystalsbabigirl4eva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not go back!!! its obvious that he wants to play these childish little games and he is till going to be messing with her. You are too smart for that you deserve someone that is not going to cheat on you and respect you the way you suppose to be. he donest deserve a another chance you let him back in once and he played with your feelings and let you and now he wants you back again. You are not a yo-yo. he cant keep with this back and forth mess. If he cared for you he would have not had sex with her in the first place.She was suppose to be old news to him and you were suppose to be the leading lady in his life. But i can only give you advice most people will try to tell you what to do. I suggest that you dont give him another chance. But if in your heart being with him is something you want to do then you go for it. But you have to be careful and make sure that you are really ready for this because you can end up getting hurt again, and this time who knows how bad it will be.
I say to you that you have to learn to love and let love go, there is someone out there for you. Somethings that we think are right are not. Somethings are just not meant to be. And true love and happiness is out there waiting for you maybe its in him who knows, maybe not. That you will have to find out. But dont let any man run over you, because he could have brought you hime some type of std or something. He put your life at high risk and any man that does that doesnt deserve another chance. Follow your heat sweetie.
2006-11-17 04:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN RUN RUN! This guy is nothing but heartache and trouble. If he's so imature and irresponsible to get another girl pregnant durring a 2 week break you don't want to have anything to do with a guy like that. And after all this crap, my advice to you is to just be single for a while, just enjoy being you without some loser dragging you down. And I promise the best men in the world come by when you're not hunting one!
2006-11-17 12:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by auequine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just drop the guy, seriously. First of all it may not feel like it now but you will find someone else who is a much better person and who will treat you with respect. Secondly, you don't need to be with someone who the minute you break up runs to his ex and sleeps with her. This is not normal or healthy behavior. Finally, this is way too much drama for any relationship. It's not good for you to be in a situation like this one. Walk away and find a normal guy. They're out there!!
2006-11-17 12:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rayslittlegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why let him play his game with you.. Tell him to get lost and be with his ex already. He is only going to run back to her again anyways no matter what! You on the other hand are only there when he has nobody else. Stop this loser from running around between you and his ex. Smile at your self and dont let this dude take advantage of you. He will only keep doing it cause he did it once before and he will sure do it again if either of you women let him. SO YOU STOP HIM! good luck your too good for him.. tell your self that! and its his lose!
2006-11-17 12:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Damzel in distrust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear, he doesn't deserve you.. I realize you broke up for two weeks, so he didn't cheat on you... but it was a rebound, and he lied by not telling you right away, when you got back together... its called a break up because its broken, and in life there are sometimes things that we can never fix.... if you are ready for a struggle then go ahead and get back together, but don't do it unless you are sure you are strong enough to get past that...
2006-11-17 12:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though yous broke up thats still messed up that he went back to her... i would not take him back because he was willing to be with her and chose her over you before she got an abortion so thats really messed up..
don't take him back do your self a favor.
2006-11-17 13:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get back together, even if he truly wants to. It is his responsibilty for getting the other girl pregnant, according to her its probably his responsibility for her abortion, and now its his responsibilty to make sure shes alright, abortion is a horrible thing and eventually she will feel bad or will even feel horrible and depressed and he needs to be there. they dont have to get together or anything, but you two should wait before you get back together. Tell him this!
2006-11-17 12:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that y'all should go back out together because he was forced upon to break up wit you the second time around
2006-11-17 13:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lil' Foot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it sounds like the guy is loyal if stupid (stupid to not use protection, loyal by doing something he really did not want to prevent an abortion)
at least he is honest with you --- its how you feel about him --- will he care for and respect you
it is a worry that he went out and slept with someone else right away
2006-11-17 12:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. you shouldnt even have to think twice about this. GET OUT!!! Why put yourself through crap?? I truly think girls do that to themselves. He's FULL of **** and he's playing games. he basically cheated you guys were on break..you two werent broken up... BE SMART
2006-11-17 12:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋