Hey guys, this girl i really like, who likes me back has recently started to get to me, she's always adding my friend (saying hes cuter than me)into the conversation,and im now to a point where im losing it, shes obviously trying to make me jeoulous, why?i dont know, but it hurts. Weve been to many lunches movies,and shes always touchy with me.share laughs all the time. im really annoyed she keeps adding my friend into convo, so i was thinking of giving the girl the silent treatment for a day or so, so 1 day without txt etc....will this make her realise i am hurt from what shes saying?....is it a good idea. I have been really close to her the past 3 weeks now.
2006-11-17 04:56:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just a quick note: The guy shes trying to make me jelous with is already take, she knows that to, umm she speakes to him quite a bit (as its part of her role), but has never asked him out to lunches/movies like she does to me. Also, she doesnt play the touchy games with him, so i doubt shes really interested....more a hint for me?
2006-11-17 08:21:51 · update #1
Sounds like she's purposely distancing herself from you! She only wants to be friends or worse she just wants to plain dump you.
Making you jealous... usually that may come into play when just starting a relationship, or suspicious of you cheating on her... more likely get one of her gf to hit on you to see if you take the bait. I don't really see her getting closer to you but she's trying to distance your relationship with her.
I recommend looking for someone else get a new gf that appreciates you... possibly get rid of your "cute" buds, they'er making you look bad.
2006-11-17 05:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being immature. Either she likes you and is trying to make you jealous, or she is using you because she likes your friend more and wants to get to know him better through you.
The best way to diffuse her immaturity is to be more mature. Deal with her behavior directly and calmly confront her. Next time she goes on about your friend, don't act jealous. Say, "Why do you keep bringing up SoAndSo when you are here with me? Are you trying to make me jealous, or do you really like him more?"
If she sputters and beats around the bush without giving you a straight answer, tell her she needs to stop doing it and make up her mind if she wants to continue spending time with you.
On the other hand, maybe she is trying to make you jealous because you haven't been direct in letting her know how you feel about her.
2006-11-17 05:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by BeenThereDoneThat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This will "make her realize? I think not. It may cause her to realize that perhaps you don't like her anymore. Is that the outcome you are prepared to deal with?
TELL HER how you feel. Don't play some sort of game where only you know the rules. The only sure way to get a point across is to SAY it.
2006-11-17 05:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Vince M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might want to actual counter, Why do adult adult males provide the silent therapy? It applies to both genders. yet except you probably did something especially to set off a passive aggressive or avoidant habit, then that is rather conceivable she is honestly not that into you. Do you communicate over consisting of her friends? How did you recognize that she is responding to them and by no potential you? because if you're friends consisting of her friends, i wager you may want to casually attempt to ask them in the journey that they recognize if something is up. yet in my adventure, how you may manage someone who's ignoring you, is to easily ignore them decrease back. because if that is because they attempt to get a reaction out of you, then do not provide them what they favor and advantages their passive aggressive habit, and if that is because they are not in touch, then i wager that is time to take the hint and flow on. both way, do not provide her an ego improve and do not make your self flow loopy no matter if that is through her lack of ability to manage conflict right away. both way, in the journey that they received't grant you with the time of day, why provide them the time of day?
2016-11-29 05:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely not play games with her. Let her know that you like her and what she's doing is hurting you. Also, it seems to me that the only reason this girl is spending time with you is because she likes your friend. You should confront her about it.
2006-11-17 04:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you to ask her out
it sounds like shes dieing waiting for you
she'll quit if you just ask her out and kiss her
dont be afraid she will not leave you in the cold
I used to do what she is doing to you
2006-11-17 04:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried telling her how you feel? these little silent treatments, making you jealous.. are all games. stop playing games and just talk it out.
2006-11-17 04:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that i bothers you and then ask her what she wants out of you two honesty and being up front will solve alot of confusion
2006-11-17 04:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
silent treatments don't solve anything. keep her as a friend but find a new girlfriend
2006-11-17 04:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just tell her that it makes you jealous or uncomfortable when she does that and ask her not to do it. Peace.
2006-11-17 05:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋