Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

i am a 20 year old girl .my boyfriend is 23 and we dont have the same cast.we have been going out for 8 months.at first i didnt know about it.he told me that he is from my cast.he always tried to tell me somethin.when i ask him what is it.he couldn't reply.one day i got to know it from one of my friend. when i asked him he told me he did all this to get me.he knew if i know his real cast i would have rejectd him as its a sin in my religion to marry or go out with another religion person.we really love each other.and he dont want to loose me.but i am confused and afraid about our future.what it will be like if i marry him?will it be a sin?i am totally confused.plz help!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-17 05:25:24 · 14 answers · asked by sapphire 1 in Friends

I am dating a guy and we seem 90% compatiable. I know that he smokes pot. I don't know how often, but he has told me that he does. I don't want to be with someone who does this because I think it is self-destructive and it is illegal. I feel like if I ask him about it he will not tell me the truth and will only hide it from me if we enter a serious relationship. I don't want to be demanding with him and tell him that it has to stop. I really like him but this pot habit of his seems to be the one bad thing about him that keeps popping up in my mind. Is it worth it to ask him about it? Is it worth it to offer an ultamatum..he has to choose the pot or me?

2006-11-17 05:24:01 · 15 answers · asked by R_H_P 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, what are the problem(s) in your relationship? Give a list if you have to.

2006-11-17 05:23:58 · 5 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 05:23:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

our relationship has changed, and I am not happy with it, I didnt leave my husband because of him I left because my husband abused me emotionally and physically,

2006-11-17 05:23:19 · 27 answers · asked by Tianna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here is the deal i was going out with my boyfriend well now ex for 4 years until we broke up i still have feelings 4 him but he has a new girlfriend now but theres a problem i cant stop seeing him wen i dont i miss him very much so we still keep seeing each other but i kind of feel bad cuz hes cheating on his new girlfriend with me wat do i do Do do i stop seeing him or just get it out of the way so he could be happy with his girlfriend Help .... I need advise

2006-11-17 05:22:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 05:21:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would i know if my man is going out and having sex with someone else and i know he doing coca but he say when he on that he just dont care about anything

2006-11-17 05:21:09 · 10 answers · asked by ManImSadINeedAHug 1 in Singles & Dating

ladies if you had one fantasy tonight ,anything goes, what would it be and you would it include?,I'm trying to give my girl a good fantasie come true.so answer honestly ,remeber anything and anyone goes, so dont hold back your answers.....

2006-11-17 05:21:02 · 17 answers · asked by tknallurchps 1 in Singles & Dating

He doesn't look his age, I would have bet he was in his early thirties. I've always been told that I was mature for my age. I'm young but I'm a college graduate with a professional career and a young child. He's attractive and also a professional, but I still haven't asked why he's single. Any thoughts?

2006-11-17 05:20:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 05:20:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 22 and I live in Arkansas. I'm curently dating this guy (Donney)for about 1 year and a half. We seem to be in love but we're both unfaithful to each other. He's sleeping with my best friend Sarah and I'm sleeping witrh Sarah's brother Jim. Also I like my sister's fiance named Chris, and we've had a few nights "together." I've missed my period by 2 and a half weeks and I still haven't seen a doctor because I'm scared I might be pregnant and I don't know who the dad might be. I'm studying Pre-med at my college and I don't want to throw away my future on this crazy mess. I'm very confused and need help fast before anything happens that may make matters worse.

WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!

2006-11-17 05:20:13 · 7 answers · asked by Hydie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 05:20:05 · 3 answers · asked by Sheeth 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 05:18:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I feel really sleepy when I'm around someone I find someone attractive and they are talking to me. Does this happen to anyone else ?

2006-11-17 05:18:58 · 22 answers · asked by lisalau 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 05:18:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-17 05:18:42 · 7 answers · asked by luvtupac 1 in Family

2006-11-17 05:18:22 · 8 answers · asked by Steve-O 2 in Singles & Dating

Are u at odds with any family that u usually r with them on Thanksgiving...but this year ur not??? I want be with my family this year a lot of drama, just want to have a peaceful holiday with my husband,son and mom.

2006-11-17 05:17:43 · 11 answers · asked by butterfly 2 in Family

Our emails are simple and friendly, every few months to just check in and see how life is going. They are not a threat to my current boyfriend. He says he trusts me, but he doesn't trust guys and no boyfriend would be okay with it. I would be okay with him emailing an ex. Getting together is something entirely different, but I think email is pretty harmless.

2006-11-17 05:17:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sure you are...I wasn't talking about that....

I was asking if you were going to get something to eat.....no your mind is still in the gutter.....

I am talking about food......really...LMAO

2006-11-17 05:17:24 · 17 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and my wife is 19. We have 3 kids. A 2 year old son, a 1 year old son, and a daughter on the way. Yes we are young parents but we are good parents. We have our own place and provide our kids with everything they need. We really are a happy family. Yet when we go out places and people see how young we are with kids they stare at us and give us dirty looks. Like they're looking down on us or something. Why is that?

2006-11-17 05:17:07 · 14 answers · asked by george k 1 in Family

About how long does it normally take to move on from an ex girl friends? We were together on and off for four year and we broke up officially last Saturday. What type of things should I do to keep her off my mind and how long should I wait before I start dating again because right now I don't feel ready to date.

2006-11-17 05:16:48 · 7 answers · asked by HHH 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I had a great sex life till we moved!!!I dont know if its the stress from the wedding planning or the new place? Whenever we start having sex...either i go completely dry or he stops performing....its really weird...I dont know what to do??What happened to out great sex life?????????Please tell me what i can do to make it better?? or doesn anyone getting married have the same problem??

2006-11-17 05:16:48 · 10 answers · asked by Babe 2 in Weddings

I used to do all the laundry. I especially enjoyed laundering my wifes undies because I would sniff them. Some days it smelled good, other days it smelled better. Now we are divorced and I can no longer do this. Is it wrong for me to miss her because of my olfactory obsession?

2006-11-17 05:16:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when you woke up this morning,can you truely say you were happy and appreciate life,and gave thanks for all you do have and not dwell on what you do not have?

2006-11-17 05:15:42 · 14 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i made a rude video with my ex and when we split she moved into a bed and breakfast with another guy...he decided to make prank calls to me so i posed as motorcycle courier and delivered a quantity of the videos the neighbouring rooms and a letter telling them that the neighbours had the video plus her mum and dad......whats yours

2006-11-17 05:15:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While browsing through our pictures folder, I accidentally discovered old pornographic photos of my husband and his old girlfriend. The pictures are from before my husband and I got together, so this is not an indication of infidelity. I am not opposed to porn, so the porn is not the issue. It's one thing to see some attractive strangers have sex. It is another to see images of your husband having sex with another woman. I feel hurt and betrayed because he had five years to get rid of those pictures.

I confronted him as soon as he came home from work. He took responsibility for his actions and apologized. He is genuinely sorry to have hurt me. But I still feel unattractive and insecure about our relationship. Is there a non-religious book or website that might be able to help? Most of the readily available advice is religious in nature, but that does not apply to me because I am not religious. I am looking for a secular approach to dealing with porn-related issues within marriage.

2006-11-17 05:15:25 · 8 answers · asked by ConfusedWife 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How soon after meeting a girl do you decide whether she is girl friend material?
Thanks in advance for your answers.
xx

2006-11-17 05:15:18 · 14 answers · asked by vpg121 1 in Singles & Dating

I am suffering due to an awful marriage, all my (old) friends, and even my family are two faced. A stay at home mom, I have no job skills(yes, I'm adamently trying to get back in school, even though I'm pregnant) I don't have time to make new friends, I'm in marriage counseling to no avail so far. Help, help. I need inspiration to even go on!! I love my two girls, the only reason I wake up in the morning!!

2006-11-17 05:15:12 · 17 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce