Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

Ok lets say you like a shy boy/girl and you shy also...what would you do?? And if all your friends saying that he/she likes you but you both are shy and both of you arent big talkers what would you do??

2006-11-10 13:21:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 13:20:53 · 8 answers · asked by ni m 1 in Singles & Dating

I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read this. Ever since I was a little girl my relationship with my dad has been awful. When I was a little girl age (3-7) I would try so hard to get my father's attention but he would always act uninterested or busy. From age 10-15 I received treatment for leukemia and my father was rarely involved with my situation, my mother took care of me while he went to work. Now that I'm cured (age 17) my father has been trying to build a better relationship with me but I can't (and pretty much don't want to) get closer to him. I can't help but feel constant resentment over him and we often get into fights. I usually say something rude or he gets mad at something of very small detail. My mother always tells me that my father just wants to become closer to me and that I should at least be thankful for the all hard work he does to bring income into the family. But I can't help it, I hate him! I'd really like some opinions on anything I've said, thank you.

2006-11-10 13:20:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-10 13:20:15 · 5 answers · asked by willi5cc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

also to improve my confidence with him..?

2006-11-10 13:19:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having a scool dance soon how do i ask the guy i like to go wit me?

2006-11-10 13:19:25 · 9 answers · asked by Kirsten B 1 in Singles & Dating

well you see i just meat this girl and she rides my bus..
i think that she is really cute...
i really don't know her that well we just started talking like on monday.
and she doesn't speack much English. she colombian.
and i really want to get to know her.
i want to know more about her.
i want to talk to her but i don't know where to start.
if i asked her how was her day she just say's fine and still keeps in looking out the window.
so i really don't know what to say...
i need some help.

2006-11-10 13:19:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a fiance that is in jail and will be goin to prison for like four years i keep it very truthful with him yet i am very faithful. But when i tell him things he gets pissed he has an anger problem and it was a problem i told him it was becoming a problem in our relationship so he dealt with but now he has started to hurt himself instead of yelling at me over the phone because he knows i don't like it. i would like to know what it is called when people hurt themselves when they are mad, i want to help him because he is the guy i want to be with forever please help?

2006-11-10 13:18:29 · 15 answers · asked by imissyou_iluvyou 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i already asked this but everyone gave me different answers...so can someone please give me the real ones this time..

thx

2006-11-10 13:18:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom went into the hospital the other day and she called me in school and I say my guy friend(that iv known since 6th grade) and I told him and all he had to say was I have to go back to class ya know im like i no bye. and then he didn’t get I was mad at him for 2 days then he asked me if I was mad and im like for the last 2 days and he didnt know why and i told him he was insensitive then he didn’t get why so we went out side and talked but im still mad at him and I cant believe he didn’t say anything am I being weird? And were good friends to

2006-11-10 13:17:16 · 21 answers · asked by nodaybuttoday 3 in Singles & Dating

there is a 15 year age gap between me and my girlfriend shes 24 and well im in my 30's.she recently moved out of our place because we have quite a tempestus relationship.we were together for ten months and it was the best in everyway. i miss her so much and truly love her and want her to come back but when i try to contact her through txt or phone call i never get an answer.why do women do that and what purpose does it serve but to piss a man off.i dont want to make matters worse by going to her place of work or to her new diggs so what should i do

2006-11-10 13:17:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl acts like she likes me everyway. She pretty touchy with me as in holds hands sometimes and stuff like that, eye contact is a delibrate thing which happens for a while between us. When she talks to other people shes says we are just friends so she basically says were friends and not going out, even though we might look like it sometimes. She doesnt seem to take it seriously but im really lost and I dont know if she likes me for real or not. And we are real goood friends. Could it be shes just touchy and stuff but doesnt like me like that. And because of the way she acts I think im falling for her i cant get her oof my mind. It feels like shes the one. I want to know if shes playing with me or likes me. And believe me she makes it clear we are only friends but acts the total opposite way. Should i wait it out and see whats happnening for real, or im not even sure what else to do. And if she doesnt like me why does she act like it but tell everyone we are friends. Im so confused

2006-11-10 13:16:29 · 11 answers · asked by mathis 1 in Singles & Dating

you see i have this best friend and she chooses me over her other best friend. my best friend told me that i keep her secrets and im am a better friend than her other best friend. but i dont really understand what she means as a "better friend". so what do you think??? i think she means like im there for when she needs me and care about her.

2006-11-10 13:15:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my last g/f i found her in bed with another man.. she came back pleading for me to take her back told me it would never happen again..i said no and stood my ground..i rather be alone then to be cheated on again...i just wonder how many agree with this ??

2006-11-10 13:15:18 · 12 answers · asked by stevil342001 1 in Singles & Dating

I've really pretended for the past few years because we have two beautiful children. They never even see us fuss and would be devasted if we split up. I would not be able to handle it if they resented me. I am so unhappy and have been for years. there is noone else in my life -I'm sure not too many guys would want a 37 y/o w/ 2kids- but I just have so much anxiety, can't sleep, worry all the time. I'm not in love with him anymore, but I've really tried. He's a great dad, but hasn't always been a great spouse. He's better now, but can you ever fall back in love? I've prayed about this and have really been struggling. I don't want to hurt anyone,but I guess I'll have to remain to keep my kids happy. Is anyone else in a similar situation?

2006-11-10 13:14:29 · 28 answers · asked by gabby5 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married 1year and my husbands friend has a girlfriend
that keeps wanting to have sex with my husband and we have talked to her and her boyfriend but they think i am just naging it has been a problem for 4or5 months now she told me this in my owne home.what should i do?

2006-11-10 13:13:16 · 14 answers · asked by April E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you move to another state so your daughter could live closer to her dad. i am thinking about it but not sure what to do he want to see her and to be a dad to her.
~~~~~~~i am hoping that we hit it off like we did back then~~~~~~

THE INFO :
ok she is almost 8,
has not seen him in 7 yrs,
and he has not paid child support *($11,000 behind),
we live in Texas and he lives in Oregon,
he just came back into her life so this is still a long time away, also thinking about he moving here, cost less to live and she is doing well in school.

2006-11-10 13:13:13 · 10 answers · asked by jlw78418 2 in Family

My huby would not answer his phone when he is with me. He would turn doen his phone as soon as he comes home, and he would make all his calls when he is out alone. Is it ok that your husband be talking to his friend ( a buddy), a girl friend, that he has known for more than 15 years. But he would call her only when he is alone. he would tell me that he spoke with her once in a while, but apparently he calls her almost every day. sometimes as soon as he weaks up. is this normale for a husband to have a secret phone calls from her, and it seems that they talk only when i am at work. do i have the right to spy and start checking his phone record. tell me what do u think?

2006-11-10 13:12:47 · 16 answers · asked by lou b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have have you?

2006-11-10 13:12:23 · 14 answers · asked by Luis 4 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months he said he was stuck and wanted a break and that when he come back not if he come back but when that he wanted me to be waiting that he needed a month at the most to figure out what made us want each other so bad what is he thinking should i expect him to come back and should I wait please help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-10 13:12:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tommorrow i am planning on going to the movies with a girl i like very much. we dont go out, but ive decided that i am going to(at least attempt) to hold her hand. what is the best way to do this? should i simply just grab her hand? or should i ask first or what? please help me. thank you

2006-11-10 13:11:51 · 3 answers · asked by djmistaspot 3 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend dumped me on tuesday,, and she had dumped me once before because she asked me to not be intimate with her, she wanted to not be like everyone else, but i told her that i wouldnt do it anymore and she took me back because i said that i wouldnt do the stuff but i did do it and she had enough and she dumped me. But now i regret not listening to her and i still love her a lot, and i asked her for one more chance and she said no. what should i do or say to make her give me a chance to go back out with her and show her that i will change and not do the stuff that she doesnt like anymore and make her happy?????

2006-11-10 13:11:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ex is acting crazy!!!?
Help! My ex plays games with visitation like no call no show, visiting abt one time monthly and then calls making demands and posturing like i am keeping him from his kids. He emailed and told me he would not be here tonight but would be by tomorrow at 8. i replied that we will be at church at 8pm, and he can either come after we get home - 9pm, or sunday am. he called abt 6am yelling at me. I told him that if he can not be polite i would hang up on him and did. later he called back and left a msg that he expected me not to be home for visit time - 6pm, and that he was bringing "a police escort" to have me arrested for interferance with his "rights!" this man is nuts! I will be back at the lawyer soon, but any advice? I can not afford this!

2006-11-10 13:10:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i dont have a gf rite now and my life hasnt been going very well but i have had girlfriends and my life was pretty great

2006-11-10 13:10:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm turning 21 next month, I've only dated a few times in my life. I'm just wondering where is a good place to meet mature girls my age or maybe in the 19-20 range. I know there's not many who don't like to party or drink but I'm just not into that stuff at all.

2006-11-10 13:10:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend likes to look at other girls around me and make comments about how hot they are or how big their butts are. I am okay with it and I don't get mad. He still tells me I am the best looking girl in his life. Should I let him keep looking at other girls? I trust him 100%.

2006-11-10 13:09:39 · 20 answers · asked by butterflychick531 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfrend just recently told me that she still has feelins for her ex, and that she still loves him...and i cant be wit her if she still got these feelins 4him, but i love her so much, but its not rite 4 me to be wit her if she say she love him, wat am i supposed to do??

2006-11-10 13:09:05 · 3 answers · asked by toros stud 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you look for in a woman? Does she have to be a certain type? I mean I can cook, I don't mind cleaning, I love doing yard work. I like poetry, playing tennis, and drawing. Are physical features important? I look young for my age and I guess I'm attractive. I mean I could be sitting with friends and the guy will come to me first and when I get up and walk away, he'll stare at my butt. Yes it is kind of out there. I really want to know why someone would leave if this is what they say they want. I'm nice and quiet. I don't understand. I want to find someone to love and take care of and vice versa. So what's the deal, what more is missing for me to keep or even attract someone like this?

2006-11-10 13:08:09 · 10 answers · asked by Ladybug 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-10 13:07:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was the first to leave based on a mutual decision. In this time, we did every thing married couples do including the intimacy. He moved to a different city quite a distance from me, but we met every chance we got which was quite often. He asked me to move there. I said no because I was not sure of the surroundings. I did decide to go, but now he says that he's not sure if he loves me. He has admitted to sleeping with someone else, and says that he does not want me anymore. does anyone think that that is his true feelings or is he just fascinated with the idea of something new? We have a child together, and he has not made an attempt to visit in awhile. At first, he said he did not want a divorce, but now I don't know. He hasn't talked to me in about a week. He was kinda mean to me the last time we talked in a way he has never been. Is that the other woman talking for him or what? Is it guilt because he got caught or is it really over?

2006-11-10 13:07:04 · 9 answers · asked by sp376 1 in Marriage & Divorce