Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

My nineteen year old sister wrecked a car today and is in a lot of trouble for not having insurance. Someone told her that if she gets insurance on another car and brings it to court with her when she goes that the judge may not revoke her license, but will only give her a fine. She can't afford to buy a car. I'm getting a car in January, and my husband has a car of his own. My mom is very ill and upset about my sister being in so much trouble, and my OTHER sister mentioned to me that maybe I could sign my van over to my sister so she can get it insured and share my husband's car with him until January. I don't want to do this. I feel like my sister needs to learn from her mistakes just like I had to do and if I put my neck out to help her, I'll wind up with a broken neck and a still immature sister? Am I wrong for thinking this? Would I be a better sister and daughter to give up my van??

2006-11-10 13:38:41 · 8 answers · asked by Jennifer F 6 in Family

2006-11-10 13:38:41 · 33 answers · asked by LMAO! 4 in Friends

2006-11-10 13:37:48 · 29 answers · asked by 2sweeet 1 in Singles & Dating

just curious!!!

2006-11-10 13:37:20 · 11 answers · asked by hotpinkchica 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 13:36:46 · 2 answers · asked by Amber skie (22/f/ca) 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 13:36:13 · 11 answers · asked by 2sweeet 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 13:35:10 · 14 answers · asked by Duc Toan 1 in Singles & Dating

Some one close to me says that he and a friend use to play with each other, even oraley, when they were children. I asked if it was embaressing at the time and he says no which is hard for me to understand. Is it normal, be hones guys, for this to happen? Put any input that you would like.

2006-11-10 13:35:09 · 14 answers · asked by flesh_of_daisy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together now for 3 years. He is 26 and I am 20. I moved in with him 2 years ago. We had a long distance relationship for about a year and then I moved in with him. I moved away from all my family and friends to be with him. He lived right near his family. I havnt seen anyone in my family for almost a year and I didnt get to spend the holidays with them last year because he didnt want to drive up there. I dont have a car right now so I have to rely on him for his car. I asked him if we could go up there and spend a few days with my family before xmas who live 2 1/2 hours away. He flipped out and said that he wasnt going to put any miles on his car just so I could see them for a few days. When I said I got upset he said oh well stop talking about it cause its not going to happen. I dont get it normaly he treats me very well. We spend almost every day with his family! Do I have a right to be upset or do I just have to deal with it becuase its not my car?

2006-11-10 13:35:08 · 14 answers · asked by angel l 3 in Singles & Dating

We have talked a lot. He's always finding a reason to phone me. When I go to his office we talk about US and finally He asked me out. I think he's the nicest man I've met, I had a c-section with him, he loves my baby, and I met him when I was pregnant. I like him but I thought he would be just a doctor to me and I thought he was just being nice to me until I realize that he was very interested about ME and finally he asked me out. I really like him. I'm 22 and he's a lot older than I, he's very nice, but what do you think about me dating my gynecologist, I sometimes think it would be weird, now he wants me to be more than only his patient

Additional Details

25 minutes ago
my baby's dad, or better said, the one that got me pregnant, left me for a woman that has got loads of money

18 minutes ago
He's not a creeper. And the first thing he told me before ask me out, "you should get a new doctor" and asked why and he said "cause I want to ask you togo out with me"

2006-11-10 13:33:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-10 13:32:54 · 18 answers · asked by 2sweeet 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 13:32:38 · 21 answers · asked by Troy T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so lately whenever my mom comes home from work she is really angry and says extremely nasty things to my dad and I. I always just kind of left it alone buts its gotten a lot worst. I wanted her to start to be nice so for the last week I have completoly ignored/not answered her. And TRUST ME sitting down or whatever and talking things out wont help, tried it before.

If your daughter/son was ignoring you would it help you open up your eyes?

2006-11-10 13:32:29 · 17 answers · asked by amber k 2 in Family

OK....I INVIT3D MY BOYFRI3ND TO 4 F4MILY BBQ BUT H3 WONT COM3 BCUZ H3'S TOO SHY....I TRI3D TLKING TO HIM BOUT IT BUT H3 S4ID I W4Z G3TTIN HIM M4D...HOW DO I H3LP HIM BCOM3 "UNSHY"?? I M34N.....ITS JUST GOIN WITH M3 ND MY F4MILY....NOT SUM W3IRDOS.

2006-11-10 13:32:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She was like Hey don't take my brochure... I was like what?! She was like were friend. I was like shutup...she said what..i dont know you ...then she was like I just wanted to make you laugh..were going to the field studies trip(which was the brochure i picked up) there giving out free cake in school get it...Whats ur name? i then said and asked what was hers'..I didnt know what to say since she came off so strange...and so random...then she was like it was nice meeting you...
should I have asked her out or something? i thought girls dont want to be approached my random guys especially around schoo with no connection to her...?!?!she was pretty but with her style its too loose kinda like tomboyish but if she was like preppy she would be hott she had a pretty face though...What should I have done??!

2006-11-10 13:32:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like smells , or your looks .
like what do they prefer ?

2006-11-10 13:32:11 · 16 answers · asked by cant fight the feeling 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm thirteen but my mom hasn't even told me a word about sex...nothing...except it is something that adults do. Whatver I know about sex is from health class and friends...what do I do? I don't want to bring it up though....so what do I do? Do I just sit here and let it go by? I know it is a talk I should dread, which I kind of do in a way, but shouldn't she at least tell me a little about it? What do you think is the right age to talk about it? Do you think my mom is making the right decision of letting me learn it in school and from friends? I'm just confused! I can't tell her anything, though, because she goes around and tells everybody. Is she just trying to protect me or something? What is she doing?

2006-11-10 13:31:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

punishment do you give your teenager? Say ages 16 and 17

2006-11-10 13:30:44 · 19 answers · asked by Lea 4 in Family

I want to look b-e-a- utiful for my boyfriend and feel beautiful again because all my life i felt UGLY. If you want you could say how your dream girl would look. Please help me feel beautiful

2006-11-10 13:30:42 · 12 answers · asked by chicagoxisxsoxtwoxyearsxago 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 13:30:29 · 12 answers · asked by edith m 1 in Singles & Dating

Its always gotta be about him him him....is he crazy? I have told him millions of times that he is being selfish and he hasn't stopped. He is selfish with the lil ones too....especially when he is eating ice cream...he won't give them any....they keep asking and he just keeps on eating...lol...its true.

So how do you make a selfish person selfless?? (is that possible)

2006-11-10 13:30:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he lives on buttcrack lane. he went missing last saturday. many believe he went to see his hooker, which he is having an affair with against his 3 wives. none know that he has another wife. they found out yesterday. we believe he is in grave danger. they r hunting him down with sticks of doom. this is very serious. sticks of doom r more dangerous than Mass Weapons of destruction. if u have any infromation, please contact the muffin man's bf, Michael Jackson. he lives in my closet with 241 clowns (which obey my every command because they r my minions of doom.) BEWARE!!!!

2006-11-10 13:30:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 13:28:24 · 44 answers · asked by ChillinForrealin 2 in Weddings

2006-11-10 13:27:51 · 18 answers · asked by ChillinForrealin 2 in Weddings

Okay here's the story, my husband makes twice as much money as I do, he pays all of the bills, the only thing I am responsible for is my car note , insurance and groceries. I am contemplating a legal separation for the following reasons (keep in mind we have discussed these issues over and over with no resolution):
- He continues to make independent decisions (like buying a 30 yr old car for $700 against my wishes and without having a mechanic look at it) but when things go wrong, it becomes "our" problem

- He plays sexual power trips, (only wants it when he wants it)

- When I don't give in to his way especially when it comes to
transportation (he procrastinates and refuses to get his car repaired, he wants to drive my car (its new- I also purchased before we got back together -premarriage) He'll say things like, "Well since I don't have a way to get to work, I'll just quit my job", After he pays bills he has a few hundred dollars left, and spend all. I feel I can do better.

2006-11-10 13:27:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm studying abroad all alone... I feel really depressed coz I'm the only student from my country here.... I just can't bear 3 months again here until term 1 finishes. I wanna go home NOW!!!!!!! i'm 14 and I don't know why should I be here!!!! aNy suggestion to fight this problem? I'm depressed to hold on for another 3 months!! Seems like years.. Don't tell me to go home. thx.

2006-11-10 13:26:40 · 8 answers · asked by wonder why 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I often hear a woman say
" The first time I saw him, I knew in my heart that I was going to be married to him, and here we are married for 10 years"
Or
"As soon as I saw him , I told my friend/sister that I am going to marry him, And we are engaged now."
I mean Ladies please, how do you know that?
please tell your experiences too,
Guys have you ever said like that ?

2006-11-10 13:26:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 13:25:36 · 28 answers · asked by Epidemic 2 in Singles & Dating

Although I have asked him for as long as we've been married to be more affectionate and attentive it hasn't happened. Deep down I know he doesn't love me deeply. This bothers me. I have tried everything. We have two children (6 and 4). Should I forego my happiness for their sake? Oh.. I am 31 years old.

2006-11-10 13:24:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After Five years and a child together, I had an affair. Where as we are still together a year later, there is still no trust. How can we regain that?

2006-11-10 13:23:02 · 11 answers · asked by reece 1 in Marriage & Divorce