Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

When I was a single mom i worked two jobs but always had time to see my kids, I never felt as though I didn;t see them enough. Now that I am married I have had to get a different job, now I have to work mostly evenings and I never get to see my kids, but if i don;t work we will not have a home. My husband works as well, so its not like I am supporting the whole family. For along time after getting married i stayed home and only worked a part time job, this is a shock to everyones system, and I am feeling so guilty that i just want to cry, have been crying actually. I am at work now and do not sit on the computer while home with the kids.

Does anybody have any suggestions for me on how I can "get the most" so to speak out of the time i do get to see my kids?

2006-11-10 14:09:40 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

currently lost n confused..pls advise ...tried to beg to regain gf but humilated.
family & wife wants to forgive & forget.she not mad just glad if i could turn to a new leave. damn confused, spoke to people all different views n answers.. told me to sort n tell myself to move on with my own decisions... cant help thinking bout gf all the time.. hates me for leaving her in the first place . love her lots n wanna make it up to her. family came into the picture n told me to go home n be with my wife n kids.. feel sorry for them too..i know i am a jerk. pls advise

2006-11-10 14:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by milo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like my boyfriend is always yelling at me and im not the type of girl that takes it...but i tell him about it n stuff and he always says that hes not...and he keeps doing it...he is always raising his voice at me...i cant just leave him because i just know its something thats never going to happen...how can i make him stop? how can i get him to believe that i DONT have an attitude. please help. thank you

2006-11-10 14:09:18 · 12 answers · asked by mommy911 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have 5 children between us, 3 his, 1 mine, and 1 together. The oldest of his is 15, lives with mom by choice. The other 2 are 12 and 4, mine is 11 and ours is 9 months. Things have gone pretty smooth for 2 years that we have been married. Since the 12 yr old started 7th grade she has been a total a**. Okay hormones, I know. But my issue is last night we had a big family meeting about the half a***d job the girls (his and mine) were doing on their chores. My daughter took her punishment and his blew up and told me how much she disliked me and how she hated her life and we could all die for all she cared. Most of the hate was directed toward me. For 2 years she and I had a good relationship, but since she started 7th grade it has deteriorated. My problem is that tonight he came home late after golfing and was supposed to be home early to tend to his daughter and let her know her consequences. Am I wrong to be mad, he works 60 hours a week to support us.

2006-11-10 14:08:40 · 25 answers · asked by peach 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my sister in third grade sees me online all the time. She plays with my avatar, fools around with websites and stuff. THing is she wants an account here. Normally i'd tell her to bug off but my parents have a new rule: I cannot say "no" unless it is absolotely neccesary to my little sis. If i tell her "no" now she'll tell my parents and they'll say yes becuz they have no idea what this website is. If I say yes then she might get into the pregnancy section and learn about sex and all that and if she started talking about THAT i'd be in huge trouble. How i can i tell her no while convincing her to not tell my parents? Take in mind she's only eight.

2006-11-10 14:08:16 · 17 answers · asked by Penguin 2 in Family

Ok .I really like this boy named Darnell. Hes really sweet and smart and he always makes me laugh. I want to talk to him but i think he has a girlfriend.We flirt a lot and in class and he always calls me boo or baby.he kisses my hand every day like i am a queen .He flirts with other this other girl named Jasmine and sometimes i get intimadated by her.Like sometimes i think she looks better than me and he would never want to be with me. But Im the only girl he ever kisses on the hand.Do you think he likes me ? Should i try to talk to him?

2006-11-10 14:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by Bree Lynne 1 in Singles & Dating

then he puts his hands on my bak and pushes me and scares me really bad. does he like me? also when a boy steals your blanket and looks at me whn he iz wrestling with his lil sister and looks at me and smiles sometimes. wut does that mean? i think he likes me. can u please give some tips on how if a boy likes u. like if u can tell if a boy likes u or not. please give me advice. i really need it.

2006-11-10 14:06:37 · 16 answers · asked by I love him! 3 in Friends

my mom gets pissed from everything! rite now, she called "alex" then half a second later she screams "ALEX!" so i went to her and she says " why didn't you answerme the first time?!" i said " you yelled my name twice at the same time" she says "SHUT UP! U DON'T SAY WHAT I DID AND DIDN'T DO! NOW PUT THIS IN THE FREEZER!" so i went to put the freezer pack in the freezer and I accidently dropped it on the sink full of dirty water. i saw her behind me and said " look wut u did! can u do anything right? no wonder you don't have any friends!" i don't want to tell the rest, so what should i do? i try to ignore her, but i can't.

2006-11-10 14:05:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like 2 guys.one in sec 4.one in sec 3.i like the sec 3 guy more than the sec 4 guy.but the sec 4 guy thinks i like him alot.then he likes me now.and he keeps saying i love you and all that stuff and i feel weird.the sec 3 guy knows i like him but he doesnt like me.give me a solution?

2006-11-10 14:05:31 · 16 answers · asked by ♣valentine melons♣ 4 in Singles & Dating

scum sucking vapid emotional wastelands intent on vacuuming every last iota of true honest love from your soul and burning them beyond recognition and then dancing on the ashes?????

I guess I'm in a mood tonight. Anyone else?

2006-11-10 14:04:36 · 30 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

At school, when we walk in the hallways we look at each other but we don't talk to each other. Sometimes he look at me, but it seems he don't notice me and i really like him.Do think he like me?

2006-11-10 14:04:31 · 17 answers · asked by sexyblackgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

WHow many of you Men would go on a date with a woman and lead her on, to not hurt her feelings? (Some1 told me he's shy)
We went on a date. He hugged me super tight at the end and complemented me on my shoes, etc... But he still hasn't contacted me. It's been a week. He told a mutual friend it was a good date, but he didn't expand and tell her details... p.s. we didn't kiss

2006-11-10 14:04:29 · 5 answers · asked by optimistic 1 in Singles & Dating

is he coimg to get me?

2006-11-10 14:03:46 · 12 answers · asked by mixedbaby_69 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 14:03:42 · 24 answers · asked by S88 1 in Singles & Dating

makes you laugh, makes you feel comfortable around them, flirts with you, enjoys your company, lays the pipe 110% great, and takes you places and always has fun with you??

2006-11-10 14:03:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 14:03:14 · 5 answers · asked by a mom with 2 kids 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-10 14:02:29 · 18 answers · asked by kitty 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom is going off tomorrow with her friends for her birthday!!They have planned this out for 9 weeks!!I wanted to go to my bestfriends house instead of staying with my dad for 24 hours.I have been picking on my little brother for 9 weeks and being told to stop I didn't listen.Tonight I got in big trouble for picking on him and and they said I couldn't go to her house!!I want her to stay here with me but don't know what to say to my dad to convince him to let hert stay!!What do I say???

2006-11-10 14:01:55 · 3 answers · asked by babygirl:) 2 in Family

well i like this gay at school and he like me too,but he is scared to ask me out and i am too. so what do you think i should do about it?

2006-11-10 14:01:36 · 9 answers · asked by BABY GIRL 1 in Singles & Dating

i knew this women who regretted circumcising her son. she said she did it with good intentions. How the hell do you amputate part of a babies dick with good intentions???? I mean seriously, there is not a single medical organization in the US that recomends the procedure and your gonna sit there and tell me you did it with good intentions. WTF is that???

2006-11-10 14:01:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we just broke up a 4 month relationship 3 days ago and I keep on looking at his account to know what's happening with his life. I just can't help it because i still miss him.

thanks for the time and answers:)

2006-11-10 13:59:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 13:59:35 · 58 answers · asked by Bronski 1 in Weddings

and i dont know who to be,but **** it ill get druk and do druks.

2006-11-10 13:59:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you and why would you go out with small "assets (b**bs)" *cough*...*cough*.... girl? Does it or doesn't it matter to you?

2006-11-10 13:58:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I love my husband, and sometimes I don't. We have been together almost five years, been married for almost 3. We have a child together and he's the first man I've been with physically, but sometimes I think I married too young. For those of you who haven't read my previous questions, he has not worked the whole time I've known him. I do almost everything around the house including the shopping, paying bills, errands, working, etc. He is more concerned with buying a video game than food sometimes. We are constantly short or late on rent and I am so sick of it. He claims he doesn't work because of "panic attacks," but sometimes I feel like it's an excuse to not work. Then he says I have a good job now anyways so what is the point of working just to pay for childcare? Still, I feel like a man should support his family no matter what. He is a big jerk when he drinks too much too. When we were first going out, I loved him no matter what, now I see his true colors...

2006-11-10 13:58:20 · 19 answers · asked by Torturedsoul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please don't lie to me and say you know them if you don't. I am their Aunt and I have not seen them in about 12 years and I want to get into contact with them. They are from West Babylon or Lindenhurst New York. Thank you

2006-11-10 13:57:41 · 3 answers · asked by jewel111g 1 in Family

2006-11-10 13:57:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have braces and I don't like them, at all.

2006-11-10 13:56:39 · 20 answers · asked by JackkOfDiamonds@yahoo.com 2 in Friends

a) e-mail
b) letter
c) instant messaging like msn
d) in person

2006-11-10 13:56:12 · 10 answers · asked by sugar n' spice 5 in Singles & Dating

so far in your life

2006-11-10 13:56:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends