It seems like my boyfriend is always yelling at me and im not the type of girl that takes it...but i tell him about it n stuff and he always says that hes not...and he keeps doing it...he is always raising his voice at me...i cant just leave him because i just know its something thats never going to happen...how can i make him stop? how can i get him to believe that i DONT have an attitude. please help. thank you
2006-11-10 14:09:18 · 12 answers · asked by mommy911 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe his voice is loud. or maybe he's mad at you for something you did. some people talk loud cause they cant hear themselves well. so he's not really yelling at you, he's talking, but loudly. LOL
2006-11-10 14:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have an attitude an opinion!!
Don't let this boy run your life if he is yelling at you all the time and he is saying he is not, what is in store for you when he is mad?? And YES, you can leave him! It's possible and there is a lot of help if you need it out there.
You can NOT change him.
You can NOT make him stop.
You can NOT let anyone treat you like that!!
2006-11-10 14:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my family psychology class I learned that some families commincate by "yelling". Have you been around his family enough to see if this is the case with his? Perhaps he does not even know that he is "yelling".
However, if by "yelling" you are talking about saying cruel or unkind things, that is another story entirely. You should not take that from anyone.
Either way, talk to him about how it makes you feel. If he really loves you he will make an effort to change.
2006-11-10 14:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex did the same things. People like this guy don't even know they're yelling. You need to seriously evaluate things because this is not going to change. Is this really what you want for your life? If you stay with him you are making a choice to stay in a situation with a guy like this. Honestly think it over. I left my ex because I realized I wanted more from my life, and I deserved someone who didn't treat me like this. Be strong.
2006-11-10 14:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by lilgiggle33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, and he never takes his frustration out on me. Maybe you should find a man who will have more respect for you as a person.
2016-05-22 04:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he also yell at other people? ie. his family, friends,etc?
If the answer is yes, then you can't stop him from yelling at you.It's just him. You'll have to either live with it or just leave him if you can't take it.
2006-11-10 14:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by hhfe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys need counseling.
2006-11-10 16:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by queens06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u can't hear him unless he lowers his voice
2006-11-10 14:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-11-10 14:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know you can't change him.
ease leave alone.
2006-11-10 14:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by Redskin boy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋