2006-11-10 13:59:35 · 58 answers · asked by Bronski 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
TELL HIM TO EAT SHITT AND DIE
2006-11-10 14:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
Oh I wanna cry if a size 10 is fat, lol. I am a size 12! Firstly, 10 isn't fat! Physical appearance has nothing to do with love by the way. Physical appearance has to do with hard ons, and hopefully you're not helping him get any cause I surely would NOT be pleasuring my fiance in ANY way if he said anything remotely close to that! He needs a reality check. Tell him to go find some anorexic chick and love her. You deserve better than that. You want someone to love you just for you. Your physical appearance, and everything else that comes along with that. :)
I once had a boyfriend who was about 60-70lbs overweight tell me that I was overweight!!! I was even smaller then. The bastard! lol..... he was gone! Be good to yourself, you don't need to have someone like THAT around!
2006-11-11 14:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kass 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Screw him. And not in the good way. He thinks he can say something like that and still be your fiance? That's pathetic. A size 10 is NOT fat, it's practically a nice size. What's so wrong about being big? Absolutely nothing. I would dump his ass if i was you because he really don't love you if he has the gut to criticize your weight AFTER he propose to you. Find a better man who'll love you the way you are!
2006-11-10 16:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Iileen 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I agree with east coast---i to am 5'9''----i used to be a size 8 at my skinniest and i felt miserabel---i was playing soccer and basketball and had boobs (36C) and also have a big booty, so i was starving myself down to a size 6 and was totally miserable, i have gone up and down in my weights over the years, and smoking and drinking in high school kept my weight down, and once i started college and stopped smoking, i gained 100 pounds-up to 230 right now, and i actually do not look too bad, because i have some shape and hips and round cheeks and stuff like that, and i am engaged to a wonderful man who loves me whether i am a size 6 or a 16, but i would like to get down maybe to a 10 for the wedding, kind of keep the boobs and butt, but let your fiance know that he has no right to talk to you that way and he is hurting your feelings---we women are insecure enough about our weight without our men telling us how fat/unattractive we are----if you are always a size 10, then he is probably just telling you that to be mean or to make you hate him because he wants out of the relationship---men are a$$es when they do this, and that type gives men a bad name, but just know that the problem is him, not you--and do you know how many women would kill to be a size 10, and also remember, the new skinny is chunky, booty, boobs, and women are supposed to be round and healthy looking, i mean all the guys i know say they would rather have a girl who will sit down and eat a big burger and fries with them then a girl who watches them eat and sits there and says shes fat and only drinks an ice water-----only someone superficial would say something about your weight--it is none of their damn business, last time i checked, it is YOUR body, not theirs, even if he is your future husband, he has no right to hurt you like that! Good luck girl!
2006-11-10 15:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Real love does not matter what size you are...it comes from the heart...He should love you no matter if your size 2 or size 20
..Real love is blind...
Some men find a couple extra pounds sexy on a woman..
It sound like your fiance is going by looks and not by whats in the heart.. or I should say the waist line. And whats to say in a few yrs he what find something else wrong and complaine about that to. My wife is size 10 -12 depending on the clothes..and she is about 5'10...I find her very sexy...and I am very much in love with her.....now more than ever..we've been together for 15 yrs and I Love waking up next to her every day..Thats real love.....what does he have for you?..it's not real love...I think You could do alot better....
2006-11-10 14:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Cancel the wedding....when I was a size 8, I was going out with a guy who told me I was fat. I starved myself down to a 4. I am 5"9"...every day I want to kick myself in the a$$ for that, and no I did not stay a size 4.
2006-11-10 14:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by eastcoastdebra 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What the Go?.... He is! Your man is suppose to complement you, tell you, you are beautiful, boost your self- esteem. Obviously he is playing on your self-esteem, which I take needs some help b/c yu are still there with him and he is adding unneeded stess. A 10 is NOT fat I am a 10. Tell him yes you are F.A.T. as the acronym Mo'Nique uses ( Fablous And Thick) If he thinks you are fat now, what until you get pregnant with his kid and your body starts to develop more. He will really demean you. Let him go and let someone else get a hold of your F(ablous) .A(nd).T(hick) A*$, he'll regret he ever said something as such!
2006-11-11 17:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by lovelife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he finds it hard to love cause you are 'fat' then he's not the right one for you and why are you getting married. By the way size 10 is not at all fat.
2006-11-10 15:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by lil 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband should love you for the way you are unconditionally. You are not fat. I am size 10 - 12 and I think I look great and I am comfortable with who I am. I used to think the same way but I have learned we all come in different shapes and sizes. Were you always a size 10? Maybe he is just not used to you being a larger size. Anyways what I really want to say is talk to him about it and please don't try to change yourself for him do it for yourself to.
2006-11-10 14:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by carrie h 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he can't accept you for "who" you are, get rid of him. Obviously he loved you at one point to ask you to marry him. Reguardless whether you gained weight after you 1st got together, is no excuse to say he can't love you because of your weight. If he truely loves you, he'll find a way to say to you that hes concerned about your weight and maybe the both of you can work together with some exercise routines (if you both have the time), along with eating habits you both can agree on. Or maybe the whole issue about your weight has nothing to do with your weight. Maybe its something else that hes scared of. Possibility the wedding? Talk to him. If he can't sit down and talk and get down to the real issue, then leave. No woman should have to be abused "mentally" by any man. Be strong and stand your ground.
2006-11-10 14:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, if he thinks a size 10 is fat he'll never stop complaining about your figure, including if you get pregnant. I would seriously look at the situation and decide whether or not you want to put up with that kind of BS for the rest of your life. Aside from the fact that his statement makes him incredibly immature, he won't help your self esteem at all.
2006-11-10 14:07:51 · answer #11 · answered by Patricia D 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋