scum sucking vapid emotional wastelands intent on vacuuming every last iota of true honest love from your soul and burning them beyond recognition and then dancing on the ashes?????
I guess I'm in a mood tonight. Anyone else?
2006-11-10 14:04:36 · 30 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you LADIES who understand my pain. It makes me feel better!! And to the guys who say "we're not all bad", you've probably got that innocent, "What did I do?" look on your face my guy gives me every time he #^@*!'s up. "OH, how should I know that ignoring everything you do for me would hurt your feelings!! Why can't I just lie here and ignore you night after night after night?? GEEZ!" Excuse me while I barf...
2006-11-10 14:22:10 · update #1
heck yeah, i'm with you on that opinion tonight....men, who needs em? Give me batteries and a toy and life will go on.
2006-11-10 14:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by kimmi_35 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Just for the record: most men are scum and so are women. People in general tend to put themselves first and/or don't think about the consequences their behavior will have on others. A lot of people, both men and women, seem to have difficulty taking responsability for their actions. If a man has made a selfish or bad decision he probably won't take responsability for it which is both frustrating and hurtful- especially when they blame the girl. You must see men for who they are, not the role you want them to play. If this man was your boyfriend you cannot view him as your boyfriend who hurt you but as a man with some serious issues. Maybe this new perspective will help you out. I know it has in situations with my friends and family. When my mom tells me things like "Your dad is lucky I decided to have you." I don't look at it like I have a mom who doesn't want me and I am worthless; I look at it like my mom happens to be a woman with some serious issues; I'm glad I don't have those issues with my daughter. You need to accept that this person has hurt you and what they did was wrong.
Another thing to keep in mind is the expectation you have of this person. I would be a fool to think that if I could just have a one night stand with a hot celebrity that he would want to date me. Now this is an extreme example but hopefully it illustrates my point. If you expect someone to behave in an unrealistic way, you are just setting yourself up for failure. Look at the person for who they are before you start to expect anything from them be it good or bad.
2006-11-10 22:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Erin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't generalize. I have been in that situation before about a women. I'm sorry you feel this way because I know it sucks a**. I know you feel this way now but don't let this feeling linger on and affect the potential of bettering your current relationship or affect the hopes of a new one. Have a great night and I hope tomorrow is the start to the greatest day of your life. Maybe tomorrow you will realize what it is that you want and what you should demand and maybe that is why it will be the greatest day of your life.
2006-11-10 22:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by the one who knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I am a guy, but i think men are definitly dogs (most of them). Many guys today dont think about women as women, but mostly as sex objects. A real man would do anything (conditionaly) for his woman. In order to take care of her needs, you must feel what she feels, and think the way she thinks. There are good guys out there, its just hard finding one that is. I know i would try my best to be there for any girl, whether shes a girlfriend or even wife. Just do yourself a favor and dont give up. its ok to vent, just dont go overboard. Goodluck!!!
2006-11-11 00:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by LovePoet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sodavsjui... j BECAUSE MEN EXIST!
i don't know why they are scum sucking vapid emotional wastelands intent on vacuuming every last iota of true honest love from your soul and burning them beyond recognition and then dancing on the ashes????? but they are.
lets shove them all on an island and see how long they last. helpless jerks can't even wipe their own arshes without detailed instructions. they are seriously lost without women to manage their lives. so why do we keep them around?
2006-11-10 22:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by annie 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Apparently you ARE in a mood...
...why not take that anger and bitterness and work on channeling it into something more productive?
...and TRY not to make blanket statements like that about large groups of people...you know all husbands and boyfriends aren't as you described...
Sorry you've had an unfortunate and upsetting experience...but know there are groovy guys out there (lots of them) that aren't wastes of oxygen...really!
Hope you cheer up soon! All that negativity will give you ulcers and grey hair. EEEKKK!
2006-11-10 22:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Me 2 but we are 2 far 2 touch.
2006-11-10 22:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by shadow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget fathers too! All the important men in my life have treated me with no respect. My Dad abused me....my husband abused me....and now my new boyfriend is cussing me and calling me names because I won't marry him right after my divorce last week. What is the deal? I thought he really loved me. He was my knight in shining armor and now this. He is mad at me for not jumping into marriage even though we love each other.
2006-11-10 22:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by lucy p 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
because if they trash someone else and harm them emotionally, than they don't have to take responsibility for their wrongs, so they trash us, and than flaunt their happiness right in front of us, after they have totally trashed our lives. just consider the source, this is who they are, and who they always were only we failed to see it, because we were so much in love. we saw what we wanted to see. so when they hurt us it does come as a big shock, and it is hurtful to have someone trash your life, than flaunt their new life to you. when they never needed to do it this way, or take it so far.
2006-11-10 22:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hurtin that bad? You're not alone, mine is home faking stomach cramps and diareah so he doesn't have to spend time. Some of them are punks, but I will have the last laugh, how about you?
2006-11-10 22:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Not In Kansas? 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
are you sure you are totaly honest? do you with hold your real emotions and are you an actress in disguise? Maybe you just choose personalities that insure the same results instead of getting real with a person who dosent lie,or have other agendas.Gee that makes all men scum? thanks but no thanks
2006-11-10 22:10:55 · answer #11 · answered by creggztr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋