Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

She is in a wheelchair and use a walker in the house to get around.She is 83 years old and my problem is we are trying to adopt anther child.we have 2 children now 7 and 12 years of age .We are about to get a sibling group.My mother totaly do not want us to have more children.She do not like noise and kids running about.she is used to quite.I love kids and wait to go ahead with the adoption but see said she would move out but see is ill and has no one to look after her and I love her and wants her to stay.I also want to adopt.what should I do?

2006-11-10 12:53:03 · 14 answers · asked by jannis p 2 in Family

if he is ur best friend how do tell him or ask him out.

2006-11-10 12:52:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Was this song written about cancer??

Pray God you can cope.
I stand outside this woman's work,
This woman's world.
Ooh, it's hard on the man,
Now his part is over.
Now starts the craft of the father.

I know you have a little life in you yet.
I know you have a lot of strength left.
I know you have a little life in you yet.
I know you have a lot of strength left.

I should be crying, but I just can't let it show.
I should be hoping, but I can't stop thinking

Of all the things I should've said,
That I never said.
All the things we should've done,
That we never did.
All the things I should've given,
But I didn't.

Oh, darling, make it go,
Make it go away.

Give me these moments back.
Give them back to me.
Give me that little kiss.
Give me your hand.

(I know you have a little life in you yet.
I know you have a lot of strength left.
I know you have a little life in you yet.
I know you have a lot of strength left.)

I should be crying, but I just can't let it show.
I should be hoping, but I can't stop thinking

Of all the things we should've said,
That were never said.
All the things we should've done,
That we never did.
All the things that you needed from me.
All the things that you wanted for me.
All the things that I should've given,
But I didn't.

Oh, darling, make it go away.
Just make it go away now.

2006-11-10 12:52:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i put a condom on a guy i want to sleep with without him knowing?

2006-11-10 12:51:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this question sounds bad but in all honesty i'm lost in love and life... if your gonna leave a nasy remark don't bother... i need help on this question not something i'm going to beat myself up over!!!!!! thank you for your responce..

2006-11-10 12:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by cassey c 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

can someone help me come up with a better way of saying " i wanna break up " or " i just wanna be friends" that wont hurt the person as muchh?

2006-11-10 12:49:50 · 18 answers · asked by xPEANUTx 2 in Singles & Dating

They make me really nervous, and it seems like whenever a conversation is started it gets really awkward...

2006-11-10 12:49:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 12:49:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if u really like someone,have respect for her,always think of her and always that u think of her u smile is it love?

2006-11-10 12:47:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey,

My friends all want boyfriends, and I don't... I think it's weird. I'm 13, but is it weird that I don't want a boyfriend? I like guys and stuff, but want to wait till I'm like 15 or 16 or something, I think I'm too young, but them my friend likes this guy and she wants him to ask her out, and my other friend wants a boyfriend, and then my other friend has a boyfriend... I'm confused, like is it okay that I don't want a boyfriend?
Like everyone in my school is suddenly talking about such and such is going out with such and such, and they were going out but they broke up, and they're so cute together.. etc...

I feel like weird... I don't know.. Like I was asked out once but I said no, cuz it felt really weird... I'm kind of confused!
Karina D

2006-11-10 12:47:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife thinks it is cute to breastfeed baby tigers by sitting indian style and putting a pillow on her lap and then having the baby tigers hop on the pillow and suck on her nipples. My problem is that as they grow older these guys might think she is their real mom or they could get violent and bite her nipple off or something. Well, okay the big reason is I'm jealous and I think it borders on bestiality but I'm not sure. Well plus her breast milk isn't as sweet as most women's so it might be bad for those little guys...what do you think?

2006-11-10 12:47:40 · 20 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For anyone that has ever been in this situation I need some advice. my b/f is going to his parole hearing on wednesday. I am scared cause I dont know what kinds of things to expect when he gets out. I know there will be alot of changes and things I just really need some advice on anything anyone knows that might help?

***Please reframe from saying negative things about inmates--if you dont have anything constructive to provide to me then please dont answer.Negative and rude comments about this is the last thing that I need right now.****
thank you

2006-11-10 12:46:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do

2006-11-10 12:46:34 · 11 answers · asked by sara 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY like was staring into my eyes and i was staring into his and then he smiled then i smiled then he looked away cuz sumthing funny happened then he looked bak at me and was staring into my eyes again and then he smiled and i was staring into his eyes and i smiled bak...4 questions:
1.does he like me?
2.does he kno i like him?
3.should i ask him to the dance?
4.do u think he will say yes to the dance?
thanx!<33

2006-11-10 12:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

Say your married for twenty years and your husband gets a chance to have sex with a playboy model. could you give your husband a one time pass for payback of years of good service?

2006-11-10 12:44:16 · 14 answers · asked by steven d 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if you read my previous questions, you know my main stress reliever is sex. since i don't seem to be getting any, i want to know other great stress relievers.

2006-11-10 12:43:47 · 40 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

Have you told those you Love that you Love them recently?
sometimes we wait to late to go see those we care about or call them on the phone just to say Hi or I love you you never know when a loved one will be snatched from you. My 28 year old daughter was murdered 11 months ago and one of the things that I hold in my heart is that even though we sure had our ups and downs the day she died I'd decided to give her an early Christmas gift a new winter coat I was mad at her on Monday as we were arguing about her BF and on Tuesday i decided to go see her and give her the coat she loved it kissed me said I love you and 8 1/2 hours later her BF killed her If I hadn't decided to go see her and the last words we'd had would have been in anger I would not have been able to survive this if you love someone tell them today call your parents, your kids, your grandparents, your friends, whoever don't wait until it may be too late God Bless You All

2006-11-10 12:43:12 · 9 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Family

i need to get this started but i don't know where to start. does this have to go before a judge or can we just file paperwork and pay the fees?

2006-11-10 12:42:43 · 10 answers · asked by Ryan80 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok.... i asked this earlier... but no responses. What should i do when my best friends ditch me, no guys like me, and have nobody to turn to??

2006-11-10 12:41:41 · 29 answers · asked by limey 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are seperated with definant intent of divorce and I've been seeing someone whom I really have feelings for, however my husband is getting close to someone now and it's bothering me, like REALLY bothering me, is this normal at first? Will I get over this or does it mean it's not over for me yet? Please help if you've been through this.

2006-11-10 12:40:43 · 29 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to write to my ex husband for the holidays. I want to keep it upbeat, not begging, accusation or blaming. I'm still forgiving, in love with him. He has custody of our 3 yr. old son. We had tons of things happen that we did not address properly.
I'm hoping I can say something so he will see me in a new light. I know he is angry at me. He made the decision to divorce. It is he did not take the time to support me or understand while I was ill.

It is difficult for me to be creative with these words cuz I'm emotional about him. Some say don't want/love someone that treats you horrible, cruel, mean with lies. He was never that way to me.

Everytime I try to formulate sentences or questions, it comes across blah.
I wish we could-
All we needed to do-
You did not even try to-
Please see/try to understand that-
If you could only have given me time-
I want you to see the changes in me-

Can anyone think of better ways for me to express my desires?
Thank you-not a joke.

2006-11-10 12:40:41 · 16 answers · asked by strong1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking about a guy who once told me he liked me.. then for some reason nothing more happened between us happened.. even if we were close many times.. and now he kisses my hand. He's not at all shy so that's not the issue.

2006-11-10 12:40:19 · 9 answers · asked by irina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

get you to be with him again?

Say it was you who broke it up b/c of whatever reason and
after half a year he likes you still...he had some serious time to reflect, sincerely sorry for his part in relationship problem you had before and misses you, loves you still.

What would this guy have to DO or SAY to you in order for you to consider giving him a second chance.

2006-11-10 12:39:43 · 21 answers · asked by Kickster 1 in Singles & Dating

i've heard some guys say they do, but i swear i still see them DROOLING over women with large breasts. what gives?

dumb question, but i wanna know!! ;-P

2006-11-10 12:39:25 · 23 answers · asked by jj 2 in Singles & Dating

or both?

2006-11-10 12:38:23 · 43 answers · asked by DOLLY O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my cousin just got into 6th grade and ive noticed shes been a little bi*** not to be mean or anything but its getting on my nerves she wants a boyfriend at the age of 12 (i cant believe it ...already?) , she as an attitude, and she thinks shes better than everyone else, like i dont even say anything and she freaks out on me. she wants to be "popular" and is always gossiping about someone all the time------ what could be wrong? just the pressure of 6th grade? i was never like this and i am a freshman in h.s. now ! thanks

2006-11-10 12:38:01 · 5 answers · asked by meg 2 in Friends

I'll try to summarize best I can:

I was raised by a single mother, after she broke it off with my father (I was about 3 years old). He was irresponsible, careless, and abusive (I witnessed abuse firsthand), and an all but pathological liar. Between the age of 5 and today (I am now 21), I have seen him 4 times, and received just as few pieces of communication. When I was 13, I wrote to him, telling him that I was finished, didn't trust him, and didn't want him to try to contact me in the future (even though he hadn't in 4 years at that point). The last time I saw him was three years ago when I went to his father's funeral. It was a tense meeting, many a tear shed. I made it clear that I wanted nothing to do with him, that he had lost any and all trust I'd ever afforded him. He apologized, wanted us to try again, etc. I refused, told him he had to earn any such relationship. He called a month later, and that was it. Now... (see below)

2006-11-10 12:37:49 · 10 answers · asked by BrightEyedBlasphemer 3 in Family

There is this woman that I am interested in meeting. All I know about her besides what she looks like,( and she is beautiful ) is her first name and that she may be going through a divorce, and she lives in a large city. Any ideas as to how I might be able to locate her? I don't want to be too forward either, but I would like her to know that I am interested in meeting her.

2006-11-10 12:37:44 · 6 answers · asked by lightfootspirit 3 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex because i thought i was losing physical attraction for her and bcoz i had negtive thoughts of it not going to work out. is it normal to lose attraction for a gf? were still best friends now. what should i do?

2006-11-10 12:37:40 · 16 answers · asked by squidge187 2 in Singles & Dating

if it were to end in 3 hours- what would you do? Who would you go see? Why them?

2006-11-10 12:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating