can someone help me come up with a better way of saying " i wanna break up " or " i just wanna be friends" that wont hurt the person as muchh?
2006-11-10 12:49:50 · 18 answers · asked by xPEANUTx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a tough situation and no matter how you do it, its rough. It depends on how you two are getting along and trust your feelings. He may be feeling the same way and having a hard time trying to think of a way as well. To make it the best, be honest with him and explain why you feel that way. It will show him as well that it may be better to just be friends. Good Luck and take a deep breathe.
2006-11-10 13:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him/her that you got some issues in your life that you really
can't talk about now. Tell him/her you are going through too
many memories to keep up with and that you really hope she
doesn't have any hard feelings about it. Say to him/her that it just
doesn't work out for you and explain that you have to go on
with your life. Just try to explain that you guys will still see
eachother and that you can still be good friends.
2006-11-10 21:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by xoxkittenkatxox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way of breaking up with someone without hurting them.
2006-11-10 20:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a great person, I've loved our time together, but i know,i am not giving you all you deserve. You deserve to have that. If she says that you do give her all she needs, smile, and touch her hand..saying..no..I know I'm not..and its not Fair to you..and its not fair to me either.
hold your ground..just keep repeating this isn't working between the 2 of you.
2006-11-10 20:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how you say it the fact is someone is being rejected and it hurts. just be honest with the reasons you want to let them go. in the end it won't hurt as bad
2006-11-10 20:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO MATTER HOW YOU SAY IT, UNLESS THE OTHER PERSON IS STARTING TO FEEL THE SAME WAY, IT'S GOING TO HURT. BUT THAT'S LIFE AND WE LEARN FROM OUT DATES, SO JUST SAY IT AND GET IT OVER WITH. IT'LL BE BEST FOR THE BOTH OF YOU.
2006-11-10 20:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you, you're a great person, and I truly hope that one day you will find the perfect person for yourself, but I don't think that person is going to be me.
2006-11-10 20:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by AbsolutePower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that things are not going in the right direction and that she is not what your looking for.... thank her for all the good times you had and for her care and support and that you will remember her. Wish he luck in finding somebody that will never be able to let her go
2006-11-10 20:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I think you could do better" "Its me not you, but i am lost" " i dont want to hurt you but we need a break" " School is getting to me, so lets take a break and see what happens"
2006-11-10 20:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is going to hurt no matter what you say. Just say my feeling have changed and it not fair for me to lie to you anymore.
2006-11-10 20:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by traci s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋