Hey,
My friends all want boyfriends, and I don't... I think it's weird. I'm 13, but is it weird that I don't want a boyfriend? I like guys and stuff, but want to wait till I'm like 15 or 16 or something, I think I'm too young, but them my friend likes this guy and she wants him to ask her out, and my other friend wants a boyfriend, and then my other friend has a boyfriend... I'm confused, like is it okay that I don't want a boyfriend?
Like everyone in my school is suddenly talking about such and such is going out with such and such, and they were going out but they broke up, and they're so cute together.. etc...
I feel like weird... I don't know.. Like I was asked out once but I said no, cuz it felt really weird... I'm kind of confused!
Karina D
2006-11-10 12:47:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really like a guy and it's not like I'm not into guys it's just I don't want the weird cuddly stuff, and I do like this guy and have liked other guys.
2006-11-10 13:04:25 · update #1
I am glad that there are still girls like you.You are right, you have all the time in the world,you are so young so use this 3 or 4 years for other things, for your friends, family and school.You don't need a bf yet, it's too early.You will understand this words later in life:)
2006-11-10 12:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me guess u just got into middle school. I went thru the same thing and I felt the same as u the trick is be supportive of your friends but dont let them pressure u into something your not into. You should want you first boyfriend to be special. Do what you want not what your friends want.
2006-11-10 12:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by igrl88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok. i'm also 13. it's just that some people are ready to date. i want a bf and almost have a bf. my friend kinda likes some guys but desn't want to date. its all good. dont pressure yourself
2006-11-10 12:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone matures at different rates. right now you aren't into guys in that way. and that is fine. you will get there. don't let anyone pressure you into something that you aren't sure about. you will end up regretting it in the end
2006-11-10 12:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is different, not everyone wants to go out on dates at your age. so you are not weird or anything, just different and people should respect that
2006-11-10 12:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's exactly how i am and i'm 13 too. i just think i'm to young and i dont think its weird at all
2006-11-10 12:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your OK , just take your time , your just smarter then the rest , just use your head and not your heart to find where you want to be and you will have a good life........
2006-11-10 12:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋