get you to be with him again?
Say it was you who broke it up b/c of whatever reason and
after half a year he likes you still...he had some serious time to reflect, sincerely sorry for his part in relationship problem you had before and misses you, loves you still.
What would this guy have to DO or SAY to you in order for you to consider giving him a second chance.
2006-11-10 12:39:43 · 21 answers · asked by Kickster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that all depends on the circumstances of the break up. you would need to prove to her that you have changed in some way. show her that you have gotten wiser with time and that you are a better person for knowing her and having been in a relationship with her. let her know how much you have missed her. most of all be honest with her about your feelings.
2006-11-10 12:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what the reason was i broke up with him,how did he treat me,what was so special about him if in all the above situations he has acted in manner that was average or that pleased me then then a simple sentence like can we get together sometime is the best for me with a card that says sorry and flowers and a big smile and also saying it like he means it
2006-11-10 20:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by devil_diva2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my ex that breaking up was the best thing that ever happened to me. I would tell him that my husband has spoiled me for other men and i'd never be able to date someone like him again. God blessed my broken road for sure. There wouldn't be a chance even if I wasn't married.
2006-11-10 20:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'd have to show me that he hasnt changed,that he's still the same guy i met and not the mean asshole i broke up with.he'd have to learn how to say sorry for the mean things he said to me even when i didnt deserve any of them,just like i always said sorry whenever i did something wrong.he'd have to show me somehow that he still loves me the same as before,that his feelings for me hasnt changed neither.
(that would be too much for him though)
2006-11-10 21:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would have to show up on my door step and tell me he was sorry and that he still love's me.
That's pretty much all I would need. If he told me he wanted to give us a chance then I would have to say yes to that.
2006-11-10 20:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're a scum bag or lied to her, forget it.
if she broke up because there was a problem with you (ex. you were a prude) let her know you changed.
if it was her problem (ex. she liked another guy) then slowly come back into her life with a little bit of flirting and mystery.
if it was something you both did wrong, just get over it, assume it was your fault and see number 2
2006-11-10 20:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by kt! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... again all depends on her reasons.... but if he dumped you because she lost interest in you, then i would suggest you to think back of your convos together... and just think about what was she not satisfyed with... was it your life style.. how you dress. how you act.. how you treat her.... find the main reasona and problem......then try to imporve or fix it.. or chnage if you are willing to do that for her............. If you don't know the reasonw hy she dumped you then it's much more difficult.... For me personally i lose interest in guys that are losers and that don't want anything in life.... i dump them beacuse they don't try to build anything in their lives and don't have and goals... dreams... or any plans for the future....... if this is the case for her than you should maybe try to impress her with your success.... hope this helps
2006-11-10 20:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would have to prove to me that he was really sry for whatever happened and that it would never happen and make me feel loved and special again apoligize and be as sincere as possible and if its meant to happen u 2 will be back together in no time at all !
2006-11-10 20:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by duncan_sparkl3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i see his actions changed..i might give him anther chance..but only if i still have feelings for him because i could of moved on to find someone who was ready and didnt need so much time to reflect upon his mistakes..
2006-11-10 20:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..all my ex would have to do is tell me he wants to be wid me again. I broke up wid him...and started datin someone else...and now i've realized i still love him. We talked the other day...and he told me he still loves me too..but he has a gf.
2006-11-10 20:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by Cassie1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋