My boyfriend likes to look at other girls around me and make comments about how hot they are or how big their butts are. I am okay with it and I don't get mad. He still tells me I am the best looking girl in his life. Should I let him keep looking at other girls? I trust him 100%.
2006-11-10 13:09:39 · 20 answers · asked by butterflychick531 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i suppose its okay, i mean he obviously doesnt feel like he has anything to hide so he probably hasnt done anything wrong...
hmm, just think of it this way -- how else is he gunna compare you to the competion and believe me theres a reason hes going out with you and not one of those other girls, and at the end of the day hes always gunna be ur man.
2006-11-10 14:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're okay with that you need to rexamine why. even if you do trust him 100%, that is no reason for him to even say how hot other girls are. if you've asked him to stop and told him how it makes you feel when he does that, and he hasn't stopped or even cared enough to change, show him how it feels. comment on how cute some other guy's butt is, or tell him you got a call from a cutie in history and you were thinking about calling him back. if this results in a breakup, I'm sorry but he wasnt worth it. if this also fails, give him a choice: you can keep looking at other girls and watch me walk away, or you can pay attention to me and forget about those other girls.
2006-11-10 13:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by Babs' Flags 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking is okay. Ogling is not. Your boyfriend should not be commenting on other girls to you. Do you comment on other guys around him? Do you say to him "look hon that guys has a big d**k print? To look at others of the opposite sex is only human. Going into details about others butts or anything else is not. Period.
2006-11-10 13:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by NAINALUVS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked the same question a day or two ago... It's only okay if he still makes you feel beautiful, special, etc. If he disregards complimenting you and whatnot and then goes and gives a, "Damn that girl is hot!" then it's still okay, but he doesn't know how to treat a girl and might not be worth your time, including the time you spend thinking about if it's okay for him to look at other girls.
2006-11-10 13:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha...! What a healthy boy!
Well he is good that he is honest to you. He like that girl or this girl. I think it's ok to do that as long as he keep on open about that. That's how the male gender is built.
However if you don't like it you can tell him and he should regard your wish. But its just in him, and if he stop doing it when you ask, its just to make you happy, but he still is.
I do that also sometimes! My girl don't like it sometimes, but she is actually doing it also sometimes. We always tell each other of interesting people we meet with. So we're good :D
However I have not commented on big this and that... well... not explicitly :D
2006-11-10 13:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by Whatta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby is also like that,,but not so much as talking about them too much. He likes looking at girls online and when we are together he will ask me what i think of this one or that one. I have no problem with it either most of the time....sometimes it does bother me though,,,,but i trust him completly and he has never done me wrong. If you trust him then i wouldnt worry about it. You know men are very visual and they cant help but look. Same goes for us females too....just because we are in relationships doesnt mean we cant look. We are only human,
2006-11-10 13:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea he can look just dont touch!!! But the whole WOW DAMN GIRL shes hot is a big no no!! I would feel so uncomfortable and small if i was on ym mans arm and he said that about some bird walking past!
2006-11-10 13:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Butterfly,
It sounds like your boy friend is a normal red blooded male. It's normal and don't make a big deal out of it. You should be happy he's not looking at other guy's if you get my drift.
TDCWH
2006-11-10 13:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by TDCWH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have a problem with it then don't worry about it. Your boyfriend does seem very immature to comment on other girls in front of you.
2006-11-10 13:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a rule, that I don't quite agree with, but the rest of the world seems fine with it.
"Look, but don't touch."
I guess if it doesn't bother you than you shouldn't stop him. If it starts to trouble you than let him know, but otherwise, just let it be.
2006-11-10 13:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋