how do i get my girlfriend back?

Question

there is a 15 year age gap between me and my girlfriend shes 24 and well im in my 30's.she recently moved out of our place because we have quite a tempestus relationship.we were together for ten months and it was the best in everyway. i miss her so much and truly love her and want her to come back but when i try to contact her through txt or phone call i never get an answer.why do women do that and what purpose does it serve but to piss a man off.i dont want to make matters worse by going to her place of work or to her new diggs so what should i do

Answer 1

Oh Mate, find another. I have found I can stop loving frailly easily by thinking about the pain I have had in my ar*se for so long.
Let's face it, if you have been arguing with her, etc, it isn't worth it for a piece of.... and toast in the morning, if she gives you either.
Unless you are uglier than a hank of rope and softer than an over warm knob of butter, you can find a better bed mate. And one that won't ar*se you.
So, though you may think I a right foul git for saying it, move on. My mum would say "women are like buses another will be along soon enough.'
Besides, if she has moved out, has her own digs, she is not planning to come back. I really think it would be a waste of your time. Sorry to say it, but it is probably more likely that Spain will win the world cup, playing under water, with no snorkel than she coming back to your life or bed.

Answer 2

"Well I'm in my 30s" Man you are practically in your forties. Get on with your life. Get stuck into work. Look up old friends. Don't get involved with other women at the moment as you are in a rebound situation so have a look at the situation and so some serious thinking as you do not want the same thing to happen if you get involved in another relationship. A twenty four year old wants some freedom and does not need to be tied down so leave her to make the next move. You don't say whether she took all her belongings with her. If she didn't then she may come back sometime.

Good Luck. I hope things work out for you.

Answer 3

First thing, Do not over text her. She will get annoyed and if you keep telling her "TAKE ME BACK I LOVE YOU." Learn here https://tr.im/Qlwgj

She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.

She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.

Answer 4

Okay whatever you did to make her mad must have been pretty bad. It sounds to me like mabe you should move on...if she isent even ansrewing your phone calls thats pretty bad. THere is also a huge age gap she is still at a party age and your hitting 40. She may have thought she wanted a committment but realized she didnt. Try to find someone closer to your age cause honestly you'lll have more in common and probably be looking for the same thing.

Answer 5

Gavin 1. Don't know if that's right , But sometimes it works some times no way. At first yes its magic. Then it can prove to be a pain, because of the age. So now is the time to put your self into, I Will get over this and have yourself a goodlfe.
Cheers.

Answer 6

Well, I know where she's coming from, there's 18 years between me and my ex, I met him when I was 22 and he was getting ready to turn 40. Leaving him was good just because he was not my father. Let her go, she needs to grow some more. And you need to embrace 39 or 40, with someone in her 30s. Its nice to have the unconditional pure love with someone so young but it's very selfish especially knowing that you have some serious problem that could affect her unecessarily early in her life. You will find a 30something that can embrace you and you'll appreciate, but not that girl, just let her go. Chances are you'll be better off without her naivety also. Got me?

Answer 7

You are trying too hard. The more you will try to contact her, the more she will run away from you. Give her some time, do not contact her for some time. Move on in your life. Show her that your life is not going to end just because she is not responding to you.
Once you have pulled back, there is a good chance that she will contact you.

Answer 8

Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/yJuWL

Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 9

Its not a 'women' thing - its you. You need to chill. You are coming across as some old pervert stalker! Why did she really move out? What did you do? Once you can address what you did wrong, only then could you maybe approach her. She really may not be the one for you though dude. Good luck, sounds like you need it.

Answer 10

At least you know how not to make things worse, the age difference shouldn't matter, but if she was interested in getting back with you, she would do it, and since she hasn't, then that should be a hint to you to move on. Good luck!!