i have a fiance that is in jail and will be goin to prison for like four years i keep it very truthful with him yet i am very faithful. But when i tell him things he gets pissed he has an anger problem and it was a problem i told him it was becoming a problem in our relationship so he dealt with but now he has started to hurt himself instead of yelling at me over the phone because he knows i don't like it. i would like to know what it is called when people hurt themselves when they are mad, i want to help him because he is the guy i want to be with forever please help?
2006-11-10 13:18:29 · 15 answers · asked by imissyou_iluvyou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't help him. You can't fix him. Stick with this dude and your life will be one long string of misery. One day that wall will be your face. His anger will get him in trouble in jail as well. You need counseling. Yes, you...as to why you would put up with any person of his ilk. Oh, but he loves you, right? No, he does not and you had better learn that soon. While he is in jail is a good time to escape bondage of this sick relationship. Get help. Please.
2006-11-10 13:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the boy is doing that for attention and probably is he needs to talk to some one because even if hes not a nut he has issues even if its just for attention. and if hes doing because hes mad hes in prison i think the first thing he needs to deal with is, its only his fault hes in prison and when he deals with whats hes done wrong and gets over this attention thing he'll be fine, but i wouldnt feed into it when he says he hurt himself just say well like well how did that feel your not hurting me by hurting yourself you know things like that, play it down like its no big deal and if he doesnt stop then hang it up girl hes got alot of real problems that i hope you are equipt to deal with..
2006-11-10 13:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are talking about cutting. He needs a psychiatrist. As long as he is going to be in prison he, should get help for his problem. Talk to his lawyer about getting him the proper help.
2006-11-10 13:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry darling but he sounds either bipolar or schizophrenic, i would consider the relationship twice before marriage. He could be a threat to your health as well. Be carefull!
2006-11-10 13:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Zorro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in case you marry this guy, he will finally end up hurting or killing you. ultimate to run away and by no capability look decrease back. i'm useful an clever human being such as you sound can do one hell of lots extra effective.
2016-12-17 07:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The medical condition is called "being a psycho in prison". Have you thought about dating on the outside?
2006-11-10 13:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
This guy sounds somewhat scary. If he has anger problems and is doing things to himself becasue he knows it will bother you..that is very worrying. There is a 99.9% chance he will do something to you once he gets out. Please free yourself from him. There is something clincialy wrong with him
2006-11-10 13:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PSYCHOTIC...HONEY rethink your future plans was in prison and is going back....sounds like a winner, your life you live it but damn, wake up and smell the roses, one day he might just say F.U.C.K it and take it out on you he obviously has mental issues so RUN and oh RUN....DONT LOOK BACK
2006-11-10 14:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Justcurious81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but i would sujest getting a missionary or local preacher to talk to him. Discuss it with him.
Prayer is the heal for any need.
2006-11-10 13:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its known as a cutter.plus he is using that to get attention. just look at him and say, whos fault is it that your in prison
2006-11-10 13:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋