I have been married 1year and my husbands friend has a girlfriend
that keeps wanting to have sex with my husband and we have talked to her and her boyfriend but they think i am just naging it has been a problem for 4or5 months now she told me this in my owne home.what should i do?
2006-11-10 13:13:16 · 14 answers · asked by April E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Beat the life right out of that dirty b*tch!!! Ok Im getting a little crazy there, but this is messed up! Dont put up with her crap. Dont let her in your home or near your hubby. She is trying to cause problems and she is succeeding. If the others dont believe you try to secretly record her saying this and then play it back for them. If the believe you but dont care it may be time to get away from these wacky people. Ill tell you what, if some girl said something like that to about my hubby I'd be in jail!
2006-11-10 13:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separate yourself from this couple completely. If your husband still wants to maintain the friendship with the guy, he can do so as long as he (your husband) respects your feelings. He needs to tell his friend that his girlfriend is no longer welcome in your home and that you're not going to do "couple" things with the two of them. This girl clearly has no respect for you and she needs to know that you and your husband will not stand for it. If your husband won't back you up on this, it's time for a serious talk with him.
2006-11-10 21:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by rosecitylady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is Just wierd. Are you the only one who had a problem with this? Doesn't your husbands friend have a problem with this too? I hope he just leaves her, and you won't have this problem anymore. And i hope your husband has a problem with this too, i hope they haven't done anything yet. You need to put your foot down. This can not happen, and she is being VERY disrespectful to everyone involved. You need to kick her out, or move out, or whatever to get away from her. She is just trouble. I hope you find a way to solve your problem...
2006-11-10 21:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, very tough situation. The best advice I can give you is to tell your husband to stop hanging with his friend so often, or not at all. The more he sees him, the more she sees your husband.
Make your husband choose, either you or his friend.
2006-11-10 21:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT!!!!! You tell her that your marriage is a sacred bond between you husband and God! That is your 3 some, dont get me wrong I'm not against it but in a marriage ? You do what your heart tells you to do, if you feel its wrong stand up and shout it out girl!
2006-11-10 21:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by that girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you into that kind of thing? If so, then what is holding you back. If not, I wouldn't allow her or your husband to disrespect you! There is only one way to solve that- A good *** whooping!
2006-11-10 21:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by jme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is still doing this, you need to tell her straight up that she is no longer allowed in your home and that you do not appreciate her thinking about or wanting your man in this way. talk to your husband about it and get him to back you up on it too.
2006-11-10 21:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's creepy! Keep her out of your house and away from your husband.
2006-11-10 21:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by Xander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let a women come in my home and tell me she wants to have sex with my husband. i promise she would look different going out then when she came in................why would you ever have this women back in you home..............its simple...FIND NEW FRIENDS........
2006-11-10 21:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's that bold, then they probably have already done something dear...Tell her not to disrespect you, your hubby, and your house anymore.
2006-11-10 21:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋