Ok lets say you like a shy boy/girl and you shy also...what would you do?? And if all your friends saying that he/she likes you but you both are shy and both of you arent big talkers what would you do??
2006-11-10 13:21:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a friend to introduce you two. maybe you will feel more comfortable talking to him/her with a friend around. see if that will get you to open up.
2006-11-10 13:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by cnuswte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the wonderful innocence of young love! Well, if either of you hope to get this thing up and going, then someone has to take the first step. It is hard; It is embarrassing; but it is necessary, too. If you are both two shy for words, try writing a simple note and have a friend pass it to him. You could also use your friends as "go betweens" to relay verbal messages back and forth between the two of you, but that leaves a lot of room for mistakes and confusion. Write a note. Smile everytime you pass him. Even a wink might be manageable despite your shyness. Try one, or even all, of the above. Good luck.
2006-11-10 21:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by Decadent Musings06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends set me up to be alone with this guy. We ended up dating for about 2 years.
2006-11-10 21:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by mellijenk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him and hope that you can come out of your shyness and bring him out of his as well. He will be flattered you went out and talked to him. For starters, you could take some mints/gum out of your purse and offer him some. Then you could start talking. or make a joke or something. I hope everything goes well with you two. good luck=)
2006-11-10 21:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by 77684 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only thing to do is get over your shyness. It may take some courage but if ya don't ask--or speak--ya be out in the cold.
2006-11-10 21:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think as shy as i may be i have to break the ice one way ask him he wants to chyll becuz i would have this impression in my head that if he is shy and i am shy then all im doin is holdin my breathe...so u got to breathe sometime
2006-11-10 21:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always helps when you have an experience with an outgoing person.. they usually boost your self-confidence.... i say take your chances and just talk....
if you have nothing to talk about then.... it is possible that you shouldn't be together
communication is the most important thing in a relationship
2006-11-10 21:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a friend to introduce u and suggest a double date to break the ice
2006-11-10 21:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by Elaine F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them out or write them a letter or get one of your friends to ask them 4 u, then see how things go and if it ain't working tell them u just want to be friends
2006-11-10 21:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by badboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of you shell and ask him to hang out with you and some freinds at the mall, or to watch a movie at someones house.
2006-11-10 21:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋