This girl acts like she likes me everyway. She pretty touchy with me as in holds hands sometimes and stuff like that, eye contact is a delibrate thing which happens for a while between us. When she talks to other people shes says we are just friends so she basically says were friends and not going out, even though we might look like it sometimes. She doesnt seem to take it seriously but im really lost and I dont know if she likes me for real or not. And we are real goood friends. Could it be shes just touchy and stuff but doesnt like me like that. And because of the way she acts I think im falling for her i cant get her oof my mind. It feels like shes the one. I want to know if shes playing with me or likes me. And believe me she makes it clear we are only friends but acts the total opposite way. Should i wait it out and see whats happnening for real, or im not even sure what else to do. And if she doesnt like me why does she act like it but tell everyone we are friends. Im so confused
2006-11-10 13:16:29 · 11 answers · asked by mathis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out.
2006-11-10 13:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? How old are you?
Have you ever thought that she might be just as confused as you seem to be?
You write: "because of the way she acts I think im falling for her i cant get her oof my mind." You fear that what she does is not genuine, or authentic. Are we not talking about trust here?
I think it's time you and she had an honest talk. Actions can disguise intentions. You'll have to listen to what she says, and then see if what she does matches properly. Time will tell.
Sure, you could imagine things should go easier than this. But where would you be without the adventure of this quest, this adventure?
2006-11-10 13:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she may like you, but she wants to keep her options open. When she tells other people that your just friends.. she's not ready to do any type of settling down. I'd play it cool for a while and see how things develope. I wouldn't wait for her to come around either. Stay friends... but date other people... if she likes you, she may get jealous if she finds out someone else may be interested in you.
2006-11-10 13:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be misleading. The only way to be certain is to ask. Ask one of your friend to ask her if you are shy. If she doesn't, you can always say that you're friend was lying and is just trying to play hook-up.
2006-11-10 13:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Peter Griffin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you havent asked her out maybe she feels you are just friends why dont you try asking her out and then you'll know if she like you that way or not. the only way to tell is to ask and then you'll know. giveit a try i think you'll like the out come.
2006-11-10 13:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just get her to hang out with you on the weekend or something...flirt a lot, charm her to death. If she reacts well to this, ask her out!
2006-11-10 13:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i think she likes u alright,,i think mabey she is wondering where u stand in this,,do u want her?? if u buy her a freindship ring then she cant deniy you anymore,,if u prove the way you feel,,then she will prove it buy wearing it
2006-11-10 13:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by native,pride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants a little plaything.
2006-11-10 13:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by mellijenk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok now i am a girl and when i do that it means i like this guy if she smiles alot when she around you in a weird way (not wat i do just sayin) then most likely she is in luv wit you
2006-11-10 13:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kirsten B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she into you. so ask her out
2006-11-10 13:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by jes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋