would you move to another state so your daughter could live closer to her dad. i am thinking about it but not sure what to do he want to see her and to be a dad to her.
~~~~~~~i am hoping that we hit it off like we did back then~~~~~~
THE INFO :
ok she is almost 8,
has not seen him in 7 yrs,
and he has not paid child support *($11,000 behind),
we live in Texas and he lives in Oregon,
he just came back into her life so this is still a long time away, also thinking about he moving here, cost less to live and she is doing well in school.
2006-11-10 13:13:13 · 10 answers · asked by jlw78418 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sorry ~ it cost less here in texas, and there are more jobs
2006-11-10 13:31:03 · update #1
why is he so far behind in child support? it seems to me like he doesn't really care about you or your daughter...
if he really wants to be in ur daughter's life, he has to prove that he is serious about it...otherwise, i don't think u should move.
2006-11-10 13:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi JLW, You are kidding aren't you!! Why would you want to move close to her dad?? He's what you call a dead beat dad. He doesn't care about your daughter or you. He's up to something and i wouldn't trust him as far as you can throw him. Your wrong about oregon being cheaper.My daughter lives in springfield oregon and the living has sky rocket since alot of California people purchased alot of homes and land there. The only different is they don't have to pay sales tax on anything. But they get you on property tax.I would rethink things before moving. He's your X for a reason.
Clowmy
2006-11-10 21:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't move let him move to your daughter. She is doing good where she is at leave her there. It is hard on a child to move. Make him pay child support. He wants to be a part of your daughters life he needs to help support her
2006-11-10 21:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by mommys_girl1234 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide what is better for your daughter. You don't want to move her around to much. She needs a stable life. I think it would be better if her father moved closer to you. If he really wants to be a good father and be in her life then he needs to show it, by doing this for her.
2006-11-10 21:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by rach 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yuck, why would you go backwards???? You would want to get involved with the same man who left you and your baby, and hasn't given a fvck about the two of you for the past seven years? He'll do the same thing again, except this time he will leave you with four or five kids.
2006-11-10 21:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you pack up everything and where your daughter grew up and is comfortalbe to move to man who hasnt done a dam thing for her??? If he wants to see her then he should move!!!!! No way would i take my kid from everything and everyone he knows for a dead beat father.
2006-11-10 21:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT MOVE!!!!!!!!!
Relocating is so hard...it's hard for you and your child....I'm not saying it isn't possibe because it is but you should move for you, not for him to be closer to your daughter. I think you should let him take that iniciative...
2006-11-11 01:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by me myself and I 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO make him move near u
2006-11-10 21:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by badboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him come to you. He wants to start a relationship with her, he needs to prove how badly he wants to play daddy.
2006-11-10 21:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by mellijenk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't go up there.Let him drive up there.
2006-11-10 21:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Star 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋