Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

For a while now, the guy i like has been joking around about getting a bl0wj0b from me. But lately, i think he is actually serious. Ok, he never talks about it in the daylight, but he IM's me at night, asking for a BJ. Me and him both live in the same apartment complex, and he'd type, "Come by around 1:00, just knock on my door." I'd always type back, "Yeah, ok i'll be there...lol." As a JOKE!! But then lately he'd IM me, saying "I was waiting for you last night, where were you" etcetc. And he says he is serious. Was I wrong to joke about it in the 1st place? Does he think I "don't deliver" now? Should i give him his BJ? Cuz i really really luv/want him, but he won't have sex with me, he just wants a BJ. So should I give him one? And if I give him the best BJ of his life, will it make him like me more?? Please help....

Also, he and I have never kissed before. If I give him a BJ, can I also kiss his lips, or is that off-limits? Help me. Please!

2006-11-09 15:23:18 · 30 answers · asked by yurika 1 in Singles & Dating

No comment.

2006-11-09 15:22:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

heres the deal.
we have been seeing each other for about 3 years now and I just found out through a friend 2 weeks back that she has cheated on me multipul times. First with a close friend of mine, second "attempted" time with a guy from out of town, & a third time with a guy I know and have a deep dislike of. My friend was the worst, it hurt me more that he did this to me than her actually cheating on me. The second she came to me crying the following day and told me about, they started makeing out and would have gone further but were inturupted by his girlfriend looking for him. The third was at an event that I was not 25ft from her and she slipped off with him while I was correcting a disturbance. I found out about the 1st and 3rd from friends of mine. Apparently everone knew this but me. After I confronted her she cried alot and told me all about what had happened, prommising to never do it again & professing her love for me. My question is am I stupid to stay & what of the friend?

2006-11-09 15:22:40 · 9 answers · asked by Dez Myr 2 in Singles & Dating

The thing is my boyfriend got yell too. But i feel like since i'm 21, i should get my own freedom to go out until late hours. Don't u guys think so?

2006-11-09 15:19:56 · 17 answers · asked by rx_cinamon57 1 in Singles & Dating

Men on here say they flirt because they are interested. Can somebody tell me why an unmarried (but dating another woman) man, a bit older than me, would show interest and when I finally warm up to him he couldn't care less? Could it be that he just needed to win me over, get his ego stroked, and once I'm in he's done with the game?

Could I be attracting these type of men? Ahh, it's frustrating.

2006-11-09 15:19:56 · 17 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out tonight why my husband has been so stressed lately. It turns out that he was having a relationship with another woman who lives in town. It turns out that he got her pregnant and now she wants to break up and eventually sue for child support. I don't think this is fair because I love babies and I would be glad to take care of the child, plus my husband offered to pay her rent for her apartment if she wouldn't "leave him". He even offered for her to come stay in one of our guest bedrooms, but she said she didn't want to be in an adulterous relationship. That didn't make any sense to me because I thought adultery was only when a married woman slept with another man but not if a married man slept with an unmarried woman which she is. I was always taught that was polygamy and it was okay. Why do some women have to be so cruel sometimes? It sounds like she just wants my husband's money to spend for whatever she wants and that is really sad.

2006-11-09 15:19:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

see my boyfriend is the deperest type and i love him so much we plan to get married but were still in high school and well hes become even more deprest and now we cant talk without fighting or saying something smart ***

2006-11-09 15:18:33 · 11 answers · asked by number1lil_devil293 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife are having a divorce. The problem is, she is pregnant with my son. She hates me very much, and is spiteful and will do anything to hurt me. She knows I want a masculine son who I can play football and such with. She is trying to prevent this. She told me, and she is not bluffing (she does not think right), that when my son is born she will name him ***** McGayhomo, in an attempt to make him less manly! I need a legal way to stop her, please help me. She will do this if I can't stop her!

2006-11-09 15:17:45 · 22 answers · asked by Jar Jar Binks Molested Me! Help! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and at your last altercation called the police because you refuse to leave until he listens. Do you think he will ever call back. In two years he always called back but now I dont think he will. He was acting like he hates me.

2006-11-09 15:17:25 · 7 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf of 7 mons received a call on his cell phone from his ex gf.he would not answer it and later i asked what she wanted.he said he did not know as she did not leave a message.something was fishy with that so later when he went to bed i checked his messages and there were no new messages but there was a saved massage from her from that day.when i lisened(yes i know i was wrong) to it and his ex went on about how she has been dreaming about him,missed him,needs to have him back ect..i could not listen to the hole thing.i asked him again the next day if she had left a message and again he said no.when i told him what i did and knew he must have listened to it as it was saved on his cell phone.rather than tell me he just did not want to tell me to upset me he blowed up at me.saying how dare you listen to my messages and thru me out!i know i was wrong but i feel he totally over reacted.whats your take on it?

2006-11-09 15:17:20 · 12 answers · asked by sarseddgghhh 1 in Singles & Dating

If you don't want someone finding out? Don't all divorces usually end up in some newspaper section somewhere anyways? But, is it possible to keep it hidden just within your family and close circle of friends?

2006-11-09 15:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by funnyface 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, my parents don't think so. Thye constantly complain on what a horrible daughter I am, and how they wish they had a daughter that loves them and treats them with respect. I am completely agaisnt them. I think they should be proud to have me as their daughter. And it amkes me feel bad when they tell me these things. I always run to my room and scruch up in a little ball in my bed and cry myself to sleep. I'm not like other fifteen year old girls that are giving their parents hard times. They are having unprotected sex, dating guys that aretoo old for them, smoking, doing drugs, drinking alcohol, going to wild parties, doing bad in school. And yelling at their parents. And you ahrdly ever hear them complaining. And here I am... The complete opposite of these girls. I get pretty good grades all A's and 1 or 2 B's, I never get in trouble. I've never had a boyfriend for god's sakes! And I love my parents alot, and I try to show it to them. Yet they wish I wasn't born.

2006-11-09 15:17:14 · 12 answers · asked by ♫MizzUnderstood♫ 3 in Family

is it wrong to want to talk to your fathers childs friend..im not dating my daughters father anymore and i really like his friend..but my ex is jealous and he doesnt know..if he did he would go crazy..i dont know what to do..im scared ill get rejected by this guy..should i tell him that i like him or what??

2006-11-09 15:15:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love him very deeply but there are these things that keep happening that I don't agree with. He hasn't hit me in a long long time. Everything is good sometimes but then there are others and I have serious trust issues. He looks at a lot of porn and says he will marry me someday. but I have waited 7years. He thinks it won't change everything and when we argue he says it's good we aren't married but he won't leave. He just keeps doing his own thing and I try really hard to make up for every arguement and every way I can to keep him happy.

2006-11-09 15:15:36 · 27 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 15:14:15 · 23 answers · asked by Chichiri 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 15:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by Golden 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a problem with pushing ppl away ever since my last serious b/f. i want a serious realationship, but i cant find someone that understands me. plus i dont wanna push him away...im so confused...i am super jealous and controlling even though i try not to be. i dont know y i am that way. i try not to be. i need advice. especially since i like this guy. i am gonna go hang out with him in 3 days. im nervous ill say the wrong thing. im a very outspoken person.

2006-11-09 15:12:44 · 8 answers · asked by Raven S 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend is in a relationship with his ex well he went back with her and like i feel she hurt him because i saw a oicture of him well he had a new hair cut and he looked like he was in pain like inside and i sent him a message saying i dont want him to be hurt and that he has a friend that loves him and cares for him and i told him god and jesus love him. do you think he see me as a good person?

2006-11-09 15:12:20 · 3 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Friends

Me and my bf are getting promise rings for each other on valentines day. and i want to find the perfect one for him, But i really have no idea what guys like. can anyone help me? and maybe tell me a site to find one? PLEASE<33


Thanks

2006-11-09 15:11:57 · 6 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Singles & Dating

ok ive been going out with this guy for 2 years and i also have a best friend for 4 years and reasently every thuing between me and my friend has changed i starded to have stronger feelings 4 him even though i did like him be-4 but never paid alot of attention till now that he out of no were staeted to fluirt with me. I told him how i felt but i havent spoken to my man about the way i fell and i dont know wat to do.i also feel that my feelings 4 my man have changed

2006-11-09 15:11:57 · 9 answers · asked by shy girl 1 in Singles & Dating

it has to be against it

2006-11-09 15:11:53 · 13 answers · asked by Yeraldy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 2 years and we have an 11 month old son. While I don't feel my marriage is bad, the relationship has definitely changed. He used to be very sweet, respectful and complimentary and we used to go out and have fun. Now, he never compliments me on anything, but he's quick to roll his eyes or shake his head when I do something wrong. He's very moody also. Sometimes he's happy and "normal" and then sometimes he's just grumpy and snippy and the tone in his voice is very unfriendly but when I ask what's wrong he snaps at me. I can count on one hand the number of times we've gone out together in the past year. And then we only stayed out for an hour and he barely spoke to me, but when he goes out with his friend he stays out for hours and has a good time. He doesn't even want to go do anything with me and our son. He says he's tired, or it's too late to do anything (at 3 in the afternoon) or that sunday is his only day off. I love him and he's a good daddy

2006-11-09 15:10:56 · 22 answers · asked by luvbabysky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im baby-sitting two 11 year kids. (my cousin and my brother)
for spring break (a week). there spending the night and everything... i have to feed them and take complete care of them how much do you think i should get paid for 24/7 ???

2006-11-09 15:10:37 · 16 answers · asked by Kara 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i like a bunch of guys but it seems to me they only like me as a friend. i dont know what it is about me that they dont like. people tell me im pretty and stuff. but i just cant seem to get a boyfriend. can someone really help me out with this!

2006-11-09 15:10:23 · 6 answers · asked by lalaloser!! 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boy-friend wanted me to give him my virginity, but i always said no. It's not that i didn't love him i just got tired of my mom and sisters telling me that he was a dog, and that he wasn't going to become nothing in life. I always feel like they really didn't know him. I understood him. I really can't get over him. I broke up with him because i didn't have the energy to fight with my mom about how i loved him and she just didn't understand. When i cried i called him and he would sit there and listen to me. Everytime he call me i feel them same feelings coming back. I dont want to go through that again, but i love him to death, or i thouight i did. He lied to me and he cheated on me, but i forgave him, Sometimes i feel like a fool for even taking him back, every time he had a girl friend he would always come back to me. I dont know no more, sometimes i want to pick the phone up and call, but i want to be stronger and get over him, but i just dont know how. I dont know what to do.

2006-11-09 15:09:57 · 13 answers · asked by Fallin out of Love 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now and we are always doing things together. We're usually alone, sometimes with a couple other people but for the majority of the time it's just us. We're both very quiet, shy people and it has spilled over into our relationship. Although we tell each other a lot, niether one of us have the nerve to make a move. Not even a kiss on the cheek. As the girlfriend in the relationship how can I make him more comfortable to make a move and to make a move myself? I'm afraid if I don't kiss him soon he's going to reject me or want to break off the relationship because of it. He doesn't know it but I love him very much as I've known him for a very long time before we started dating. I don't want to jeopardize a fantastic relationship with a silly thing like this. Please help.

2006-11-09 15:08:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How could I find out the name of a waitress I have a crush on at Chili's? but I don't want to approach her just yet....I thought about asking one of her co-workers, and someone told me that the best way is to simply ask a FEMALE who workswith her about my crush, then she will go back and tell my crush, and my crush will know I like her, therefore making my approach much easier. Or - How can I get her to come on to me, I know it's rare, but any suggestions?

2006-11-09 15:08:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This one guy teases me a lot. When my friends ask him about this, he just smiles and says I'm fun to tease. He talks to me a lot and I like him a ton. He isn't seeing anyone, and my friends in other classes with him say he doesn't tease other girls. What do you think?

2006-11-09 15:07:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never had a boyfriend before, but i have been exculsively dating this guy for 2 1/2 months, but he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend. His birthday is right around the corner, and I have no idea what to get him. He doesnt like CD's or music, but i want to give him something better than just money. (or is that an appropiate gift?! and if so, how much?) I dont want the gift to be too big, because we are not boyfriend and girlfriend, but I do want to get him something.....I mean, we have been dating for almost 3 months. Does anyone have any good ideas?
PS..im only a junior in highschool, so i dont really have the biggest budget, so not something too expensive....

2006-11-09 15:06:58 · 10 answers · asked by Just Wondering.... 1 in Singles & Dating

80's music you know that it is comeing back , all the 80's music
and the style,,,,well I like all the music but , the big hair just gives me nightmares, and well I can use leg warmers when it gets cold.
what do you think?????

2006-11-09 15:06:43 · 19 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Friends