Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

I dont know what to do nomore. At one time it was easy to be a virgin. But now its not. The boys i like dont like me. The boys that like me i dont like. Some of the boys who i think like me only want sex. Sometimes i just dont know what to do . I dont want to loose my virginity but its not easy staying one. Im so afraid that they would take it and leave me. My ex almost had it but i said no because i didn't want to regret losing it. I want a relationship, where we could talk but we didn't have to have sex. Boys like me because of my body. They dont see the real me, and sometimes that hurt alot knowing that they dont want me, they just want me to have sex with them. Im just so confused.

2006-11-09 14:52:59 · 5 answers · asked by Fallin out of Love 2 in Singles & Dating

is it really true....that what goes around comes around?

2006-11-09 14:52:28 · 27 answers · asked by awall71688 1 in Friends

okay most of you will laugh at me im laughing at myself but i really really like this guy and we know eachother really well and everything and we're about to go out but he spells my name wrong...like its a weird-ish name and everyone spells it like that but i dont know how to tell him...i cant just come out and say it we would both be soo embarrassed and its even in my msn namee gahh what do i do!

2006-11-09 14:51:35 · 7 answers · asked by xxooxxloulouxxooxx 1 in Singles & Dating

What is it with this sexual compatibility thing? Everyone was a virgin at one time. It took practice and experimentation to get where they are. Now I do understand compatibility when dealing with impotence, infertility, and mix-matched libidos.

I just think it's rather disgusting to go through as many partners a prostitute just to find someone who instantly has all the right moves. If there aren't any physical defects I don't understand why you just can't experiment with your significant other.

Can anyone validate the test drive theory?

2006-11-09 14:51:26 · 4 answers · asked by Bu Tran 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an military husband and he was deployed to arizona for two months. when he got home i found a name and address on a sheet of paper girls hand writing. he said that it was a buddy of his address. should i have believed him?

2006-11-09 14:51:22 · 18 answers · asked by thumperprice26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i had to be fair after the duelling one...i dont do men or women only questions as a rule,lol...;0)

2006-11-09 14:49:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know if the guy i like really likes me because my friend had asked him if he liked me she said no but he said yea

2006-11-09 14:48:06 · 9 answers · asked by Maddie D 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i had moved recently and me n my boyrfriend had been telling eachother we love eachother, cause we do, and were always talking to eachother and when he plays basketball he plays with a group of friends and this girl he talks to and at work he went on "break" to talk to her. IN FRONT OF ME!!! that pissed me off but we still tell eachother we love eachother because we do and he still talks to her because my old friend form where i used to live tells me he does. it hurts because i really love him. but if thats the way its gonna be then im done.

2006-11-09 14:47:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me plz/

1.Go out with my x bf whos 3 yrs older then us.

2.Forget about him

3. get him back evenly

4.otherr



PLEASE HELP ME!

2006-11-09 14:47:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister got a blender for christmas one year from her bf at the time.( her hubby now). she made a big stink about getting this blender from him. i thought it was nice, cause they had just bought a new house and needed new things for it. she told him that guys arent surpose to buy things like that. i would have been happy with it.lol.....a gift is from the heart no matter what it is. was he wrong to buy that, or was she wrong to get mad?

2006-11-09 14:47:23 · 7 answers · asked by twisted 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There was this girl and her friends begged me to go to homecoming with her so i did. Shortly after she started to talk **** about me for no reason. All ive ever done is be nice and sweet to her. Today i bitched her out real bad and i know it was really horrible, but it sure did let off a whole bunch of steam. I mean, i never really liked her, but i still did the best i could to make sure we both had an awesome time but she blew me off. I kinda think this was a mistake but it made me feel so much better. Shud i have done that? Yeah, i did it very personally criticizing her weight because she is fat and her stupidity cuz she is really dumb.

2006-11-09 14:46:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he just wont only once every 2 weeks,what do i do!!!

2006-11-09 14:46:55 · 10 answers · asked by Brown_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 14:45:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How long did it take you to get into a house and get settled?

2006-11-09 14:44:42 · 20 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Along my 25 years I have dated several guys, I really don´t know why but after a while they loose interest. Finally I meet thid guy 2 months ago and every seemed to go well but now I have the feeling he´s not interested, why can this be ? I´m kind of shy and I have a really hard time opening up, I´m not easy and I´m not ugly . What can I do I really like this guy his different from anyother guy I have dated he´s nice a gentleman but lately he´s been calling less and almost not asking me out and I know for sure he´s not dating anyone else. I don´t know why when I go out with them I shut myself so badly that no chemestry is in the air. What can I do? I´m sad and frustrated.

2006-11-09 14:44:18 · 18 answers · asked by crisy m 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents don't even let me go to the mall with a couple of my friends (just because one of them is a boy) and I have no feelings for him in that way. He is more like a brother to me, he is one of my really good friends. My parents know him. He's a good kid. I am 16, but I was 15 when I wanted to go to the mall with two of my friends. I haven't even bothered to ask anymore because I bet they will say no.

Oh also another reason besides him being a boy, he is black. And my parents claim they are not, but I think they are racist. They got mad when he use to call me a lot. We have no interest in each other other than just being friends. He has a girlfriend also. My parents don't listen to me.

On top of that they didn't let me go to my friends revial at his church because it is a black church. And before you try to tell me that wasn't the reason, my mom came right out and said that.

Do you think my parents are racist and over protective?
I already know my views on the matter but

2006-11-09 14:43:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When you're ready to settle down and find "the one", what are the best qualities in your oppinion (and please don't just say good in bed- I already know I have that quality).

2006-11-09 14:43:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My old next door neighbor whom I lived by all throughout our childhood keeps staring at me at the college we go to(she is in her first semester freshman semester, one year younger than me. I'm almost positive she is interested in me. I havn't seen the girl in over two years when I moved right my 18th birthday. I used to always play with her little brothers all the time and was always very good at football and street hockey, and loved playing the guitar, but I'm guessing it's how I was a role model to her little brothers.

I havn't talked to her yet, even though she has been staring at me, my penis has a mind of its own, it takes over me. It has level 99 mind control :( Even though I think this girl is really interested in me, and we have known each other for years, if I treat her nice is it alright if I hit it?

2006-11-09 14:43:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They're both 27, both weigh 125 lbs, and both have long hair.

One has brown hair and brown eyes, the other has blonde hair and blue eyes.

Which woman would you prefer?

2006-11-09 14:43:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know if i did anything wrong,but she starts ignoring me and she starts teasing me!

2006-11-09 14:42:29 · 7 answers · asked by HELLO I'M AWESOME. 4 in Friends

There is this girl in my class that asked me to dance with her and I turned down. I told her that I wasn't in the mood. At the time she asked me for a dance, she was in a relationship. It seems that she likes me.I might add that she recently told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. I am perplexed. What should I do? Should I make the move. Mind you I'm afraid of rejection

2006-11-09 14:42:13 · 12 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 14:41:45 · 15 answers · asked by Gemini Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 5'1 and like 90lbs. Keep in mind I am a gymnast and dancer. Am I too thin?? I eat and don't look thin. People always call me fat.
they say I am too fat to be a gymnast. I am all muscle due to the fact I train 8 hours a day and run on my days off. I also do tons of stomach toming exercises too. I mean the only people who don't call me fat are my bf and best friend. I am In high school.

Please answer. Thanx soooo much.

BTW: I am in high school. I am pretty sure I am done growing.

Are they jealous?? Or are they serious?? Guys ask us out all the time but girls call us fat.

2006-11-09 14:41:29 · 13 answers · asked by Hott Gymnast 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, and it seems like he likes me too. When we pass each other in the halls we always have eye contact and he gives me a little smile. He's always around or near me at lunch, and in the class we have together his sometimes looking at me. He also seems to flirt with me a lot. So does he like me or not?

2006-11-09 14:40:59 · 6 answers · asked by lil miss country gurl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my parents has no respect for me, or the fact that I'm an adult. He hurts me verbally, puts me down, makes unfair conclusions about me. He basically doesn't interact with me the way a loving, caring parent does. One day he even told me he doesn't care that his words hurt me, and that I needed to be hurt. What is his problem? Any advice for me?

2006-11-09 14:40:35 · 32 answers · asked by oneladyice1 3 in Family

what is important in yr life.. family, friends, career, or money

2006-11-09 14:40:26 · 25 answers · asked by pinks 3 in Friends

There was this girl and her friends begged me to go to homecoming with her so i did. Shortly after she started to talk **** about me for no reason. All ive ever done is be nice and sweet to her. Today i bitched her out real bad and i know it was really horrible, but it sure did let off a whole bunch of steam. I mean, i never really liked her, but i still did the best i could to make sure we both had an awesome time but she blew me off. I kinda think this was a mistake but it made me feel so much better. Shud i have done that?

2006-11-09 14:39:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want hear nasty jokes because I want to shear them with my guy friends. They always seen to beat me in nasty jokes. So can you help me?

2006-11-09 14:38:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that goes to my college & we've been talking the past few days online. When we first started talking, he seemed so friendly to me and wanted to get to know me and things. He's single like me. He said he wanted to meet me on campus and visit me in my room or in his room. Recently he's been asking me questions like...what I'd do if we had sex and what I'd do if I was sleeping in the same bed as him and I woke up and found him inside of me...and what would I do if the condom broke...and what I would do if I ended up pregnant...if I shave or not and where...where he could touch and kiss me (on my body)...and other sexual questions and scenarios. Since I didn't want to hurt his feelings, I tried to answer them honestly. Today, I noticed that he's not online and deleted me off of his friend list on Facebook. I wrote him an e-mail and asked why he deleted me all the sudden and he hasn't responded. What kind of person does he sound like??

2006-11-09 14:38:13 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 14:38:04 · 19 answers · asked by rominasarubbi 1 in Marriage & Divorce