ladies would you like to see man fight for your honour?

Question

i had to be fair after the duelling one...i dont do men or women only questions as a rule,lol...;0)

Canadian...eh?...lol...no im English, Rio ;0)

cybercomm...firstly...how do you know what ive fought for?...secondly...are you a lady?...lol ;0)

hmmm.people are taking this q quite seriously...funny...the one i asked to men about duelling seemed to be taken much more lightheartedly...this is more interesting than i first thought...hmmmm...;0)

as an example...i had a weird experience in the pub a couple of weeks ago...a guy got really nasty after i refused a drink from him...i dealt with the situation but he was a bit psycho...after a couple of guys came up, they had noticed what happened and was i ok they said not to worry if they saw him come back they would intervene and tell the bar staff...even tho the situation was over i felt glad that someone had noticed and was looking out for me... made me feel just a tadge better...;0)

i also think there is a difference between verbal insults and physical...i punched a man twice ever in someone elses defense......once was when my step sisters ex started shouting her down and threatening her when we were all out and she was crying and he suddenly grabbed her and pulled her up by the hair...i didnt even think i just smacked him one and actually knocked him down to the ground...this was years ago and the other time again years ago was when my other younger sister got smacked in the face by some guy who was really drunk...i smacked him back too...both times it was an automatice reaction...i dont like violence...actually i loathe violence but there is a time and a place when unfortunately it can be neccessary...its easy to defend someone else because your automatic reaction to defend someone you love but sometimes its harder to defend yourself as your own fear and emotions and shock even can get the better of you...

Answer 1

I guess it depends on the situation...If I really needed defending, then absolutely. But, if some man was to look at me and my b/f beat the crap out of him, I think that is ridiculous.

Answer 2

It all depends on what was said or done.

I wouldnt let anyone touch you, I would defend you but mostly it is women being catty to each other and guys dont like to get involved. As we cant hit women .
Unfortunatly If it came to blows I would have two options

( 1 ) step in and separate the two of you.
or
( 2 ) Start beating the cr*ap out of her fella!!!

Any way the sort of women that gets into a drunken fight is not the sort of women that I would go out with in the first place.
Some women diliberatly try to cause situations to start a fight!!

Very unattractive . a class of women that the americans would call white trash!!

Answer 3

I agree on the subject of the spell-checker! Honour has a 'u' in Canada, why would not my spell-verify enable me spell it wisely? Neighbour. Harbour. Flavour. coloration. No, no, no, spell-checker. The 'u' is meant to be there. yet besides, to respond to your question- no, in all possibility not. Why? nicely, there may well be no factor pondering the reality that i'm a weakling and might final in a combat for greater or less 5 seconds earlier being annihilated. except we are speaking a verbal combat here. Then i'm concentrated on it. Edit: I see now that we at the instant are not speaking a pair of actual combat. i alter my answer. of direction i might! no person gets away with insulting the human beings i admire.

Answer 4

hi. here is a short story about my intervention regarding figting for woman. i was walking home after a night out. i only lived two miles away from were i was drinking. it was about 12.30. streets were quite and the stars were out. and not to mention. it was cold. then the silence was broken by a scream. now i'm not the kind of guy that turns a blind eye on any injustice. so i check out the scream. now remember i'm on my own and nobody else around. apart from the scream that i have just heard. now i'm trying to locate were this scream has come from. i no i'm getting closer. as there is now some more scream with added yelling. now i'm telling my self. do i realy want to get involved with what ever is going on. and i keep coming up with the same answer. some1 is in trouble. and i may be able to help. i turn a corner into a dark walk way. and i have now found the location of the screaming and the shouting. i find myself looking at a stoky guy laying into a slim built young woman. i pause for a second. this second is long enough to see him hit her twice in the mouth. i walk over. i pull him of . he starts shouting and swearing at me. i tell him to leave the girl alone. he goes to hit me. i duck. i hit him. he hits the floor. now by this time the police are called. i end up getting detained. and a witness see's me hitting him. i go to court. i get charged with A.B.H. and i'm a kickboxing instructor. no justice. thats me fighting for a woman. and i would do it again. the end

Answer 5

Depends in what context ...

Gitsliveo.... has a point ... over the years many men have died this way ... 'honour' is insulted on yahoo answers on a daily basis, its just words not actions ... now that would be different.

but insults?? ... its not worth getting hurt or dying over ... I have had a few ex's that... had I defended they're honour to the point of violence... and got hurt, or hurt someone else ... I would surely regret it now.

I will defend my woman (to a certain point)... but I am not brainless enough to think that I have to prove anything to her by doing this...

... any woman that thinks that I have to ... would be a waste of my time... it may sound romantic ... but its not a game that i play.


Dr BAd
(Not easily toyed with)

Answer 6

14 years ago I was insulted by a guy at a bar and my boyfriend at the time did NOTHING. His best friend got on his case about not defending my honor, but still he was a wimp. He's LONG gone! Yes, if my honor is ever in need of defending again, I want to see hubby go at it. And I know he would.

Answer 7

Hello,

It depends how may honor was damaged. I would always want my guy to stand up for me, but I'd want him to stand up for me using his words not his fists.

But I'm not so unrealistic to think that there is never a time or place that fists should be used. I know that things can get so bad and there truly is no other option but to fight. And in that situation I would have to say that in order for me to have respect for a guy, he'd have to take a stand and defend me.

I hope this helps, and good luck!

Answer 8

Have already had someone fight for my honour, and it was done in the right way; which is with words and actions, not by the physical act of violence. Fighting never came to any good. To have someone stand up for you and your rights is wonderful. It humbles you, makes you feel special and empowers you.

Answer 9

No, I'm not into violence, and I don't belive in "honour".
I can stand up for myself. And better still, I can choose to walk away and ignore things. That's what makes us human.
I would want him to fight to protect our son, or to protect himself, as I would myself. But only from direct and immeadiate danger.

Answer 10

No, I would never fight over a man & I don't think a woman who wants a man to fight for her is really worth it. How would she feel if he got hurt over her?