Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

2006-11-09 14:08:05 · 1 answers · asked by jav 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a question about a situation I'm in with my sister and my niece. My niece is 3 1/2 years old; she is living with my sister, her boyfriend, and his son. My niece is a really good child, but sometimes she can be a handful. Whenever that happens she usually has to stand in the corner or go to bed at an earlier hour. A few times I have seen my sister give her a spanking, and sometimes I've seen my sister's boyfriend spank her. However, HE does it REALLY HARD...so hard that I have to leave the room whenever it happens because I can't bear to hear her cry, and because he does it to a point of excess. I know the difference between spanking and abuse, and this is definitely abuse...everyone who has seen it in my family (except for my sister) agrees with me on that. I think she knows it's wrong, because she's talked to him about it before, but she tells me I'm overreacting. I love both my sister and my niece; I want to stay loyal to both. What can I do in this situation?

2006-11-09 14:07:50 · 10 answers · asked by Persephone 6 in Family

Please dont just turn your nose up to this i seriously need some help....badly. ok dont flip but im 15 and my bf is 18. we really love eachother and my parents love him too. We had sex w.o a rubber like a wk ago or maybe a few days and now im worried i might be preg.? i kno i shouldnt woryr yet bc its not even time for me to start but if i am how should i or we tell my parents?? plz dont be cocky with me i really dont need it and im flipping out.

2006-11-09 14:07:07 · 4 answers · asked by eye_candy130 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what it is, but women tend to go FAST with me.. we go out on a date twice, and shes in my room making love to me... I dont know, I guess there's nothing left to talk about the next day. I guess I get bored then, I feel like She's a sluTt and too easy, i lose respect for her..... what should I do? These women I date are decent, not some whore on the street. I mean I french kiss the first date, and maybe have some petting... am I right here? I just thought that would be a good start in the dating process.. Anyway, if you can tell me the best dating process I would appreciate it. My friends tell me that I treat women as Trophies.. I dont think so, i want a relationship... I just am very picky...

2006-11-09 14:06:20 · 23 answers · asked by dustin m 1 in Singles & Dating

up my skirt on purpose? I find it really exciting to do it in the middle of a test when he is just sitting there. He seems to enjoy it. u can im me 2 if u want

2006-11-09 14:06:13 · 25 answers · asked by Kelli T 1 in Singles & Dating

by brothe coppies every thing i do but my mom and dad always yell at me for it am i right or are they right?

2006-11-09 14:06:10 · 4 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Family

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would you date an asian guy?

2006-11-09 14:05:12 · 19 answers · asked by cool nerd 4 in Friends

i have been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now and i have been able to give her nice gifts, the last gift i gave her was a coach purse, christmas is comming up and we are going to hawaii for the new year, i want to give her a nice christmas gift, the trip to hawaii is not a gift, we both paid for that, but now i dont know what to give her, any ideas for a really nice and thoughtful gift?

2006-11-09 14:03:44 · 11 answers · asked by marco 1 in Singles & Dating

ever since my bf broke up with me i havent been my self latly and ya and plus on top of that every ones giving me **** and i just cant take it no more i just want to get out of my life

2006-11-09 14:03:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i walked past and smiled at a new co-worker today. then he went up to our female co-worker and asked her "where are the girls at?" (we work outdoors so we see people walking by) my coworker said "there's a girl right here" referring to me but he said ".. girls who i don't work with." it made me wonder if he at least thought i was somewhat attractive but realize he didnt want to get with a co-worker.

2006-11-09 14:03:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 me and my girlfreind hav been going out for 5 months. this week me and my girlfriend got into kinda a fight she sayd she wanted some time cas there was alot of bad habits i had not big ones tho. i knida woud act like a baby not in a weerd way but like if she kissed me or sayd she loved me 2 i woud go yay in a baby voice or somtimes tak in a baby voice jus 2 make her laf she also sayd was cocky but she didnt kno that i only do that 2 make peeple laf im not reelly cocky i only do it 2 be funny but she thawt i was serius i asked 1 of my frends 2 tell her but she got mad cas i brawt a friend into it. she also sayd i need 2 think before i tak or do something and i need 2 be more mature
ive had the last 5 days to work on theese things n she sayd i coud hav a 2nd chanse then evry time i call her 2 tell her i changed she dosnt beleeve me, 5 days seems short but working on theese things was all i did so for like 19 hours a day she wont beleeve me how can i get her back (cont next ?

2006-11-09 14:02:57 · 12 answers · asked by scott_groen 2 in Singles & Dating

when i IM some one or they IM me the display name is my E-mail...i want to change this but i dont know how is driving me NUTS!

2006-11-09 14:02:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

"Please, call me back. I'm so lonely. Tears on my pillow cases at night. Wishing you would hold me tight! Please oh, please. I e-mail and text message you more than a dozen times in a day. I'm running out of things to say. I know I'm a clingy wimpy nice guy whose getting on your nerves. However, I'm obsessed with your beautiful face and curves! I buy you roses, buy you candy, and say all the right things so much... that they're the wrongs and such. You tell me to hush. I keep on calling you, you keep ignoring me. I'm going to cry like a baby, because you won't talk to me. My forehead says welcome so that you can walk on me. I'm just a wimp far from a pimp. Will you have sympathy and be my girl. I will hustle my a** off to give you the world. Want to be your man...just hoping. I walked into your house, and you're screwing someone else when the door opened! I'm so hurt, you treated me like dirt. Now I have to go to the bathroom and squirt squirt...because a hot stud already had dessert.

2006-11-09 14:00:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do she is very hot and she waits for an answear

2006-11-09 14:00:15 · 21 answers · asked by king 1 in Singles & Dating

i recently moved to a new state for my company. idont have any family here but a really sweet co-worker is putting together a baby shower for me at her house. she organized the event, bought the food, and took care of everything. i want to get her something really nice for doing all of this for me. what can i get for her to say thank you?

2006-11-09 14:00:03 · 6 answers · asked by lil_ny_sweetie 1 in Friends

thank you every one who read my first poem...
this is my next one...

to feel,to hold,to touch,
the feelings i have,
are too much,
what are these emotions i feel,
is this love?is this real?
i cant sleep,
my mind wont rest,
this feeling is amazing,
it is the best,
to hold you in my arms,
this very night,
is all i ask,
you are my light.

thank you for taking time to read this one too x

2006-11-09 13:59:37 · 18 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Singles & Dating

heres why im upset
my friend invited me and my other friend over to her house. i didnt find out i could go till the day before so i called her and told her that i could come. then she said her mom said she didnt want two friends over at the same time. but the week before all three of us were over at this persons house and her mom didnt care. then i called her while they were over at her house and she asked if she could call me back. i said yes and waited. when she did call i didnt hear the phone so i called her back. she said that her friend was asleep while i could distinctly hear her in the background talking. then she said she was gonna go to bed since the other one was asleep...i know that it isnt true because it was 9:00 on a friday night. so now i am suspicious, upset , and mad...should i be??

2006-11-09 13:57:03 · 9 answers · asked by falloutboygirl_13 2 in Friends

like wat is frist base and second base and thrid baes and homerun mean'???

2006-11-09 13:56:14 · 9 answers · asked by monkeybutt3511 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend went to a meeting that usually lasts 1 hour. He was gone for 3. When he got in, he made no excuses and i asked for none. Shortly after, we kissed and i smelled the beer on his breath. I do not mind that he drinks, i by beer for him when i am shopping. My problem is, i feel since we live together , he might have had the common courtesy to call me and say " he, i going to have a drink with so and so." Not a problem.We already have issues. His ex-wife told me months ago," you don't know Dave, you will find out , you don't know him" Could it be that the Dave i am not supposed to know is coming out? I feel the way he acted about it, he was somewhere or with someone he should not been. I would think with him knowing that his ex has put a bug in my ear , he would not want to do anything that might even make her seem remotely right. Am i jumping the gun or am i heading for more of the same?

2006-11-09 13:55:20 · 8 answers · asked by shyone 3 in Singles & Dating

Have just have a few question for the world to answer in like a few.
O.K. I have a boyfriend in he just be tripping. It's like he trust his homeboys more then he trust me. In you know that is just not cool. Like one of his homeboys told him that he seen me at the mall with another dude or what ever and he was just blowing up my phone and I was trying to figuar out what the hell was oning on and **** like that.
What I am trying ask what should I do about that because I don't know what to say.

2006-11-09 13:54:45 · 6 answers · asked by lil crazy 1 in Singles & Dating

Did you discuss it beforehand, or did it just come natural, and you don't have any set roles? I know things like chores aren't huge issues.....I guess i'm just interested in how married couples ease into living together, and get adjusted to it. Should you talk about everything before you even walk down the aisle, or is it better to just go with the flow and let things happen naturally?

2006-11-09 13:54:35 · 13 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We have a class together and he rides my bus. We talk and I am friends with his sister. But whenever I see him, I see him watching me and looking at me. My friend on bus thinks he likes me because she said, "He feel comfortable with you, and doesn't hesistate, and plus he is always looking at you." He is 1/2 year younger than I am, so would it be weird for a older person to ask a younger person out. In the hallways he follows me and talk to me all the time, but sometimes he waits for me....like today, his class is down the hall and my class is further away, so he told me he made he put everything away just to be in time to see me. He now has a girlfriend but is always complaining to me how she is so annoying and he is always looking at me. When I see him, he stares right at me and is really friendly. He is always flirty with girls that are right next to me and other than that he doesn't talk 2 them.You can ask question but I will not answer personal questions. (Example: names and etc.)

2006-11-09 13:53:11 · 2 answers · asked by Michelle 5 in Singles & Dating

a couple of my friends started going out, and im alright with that, its just that i barely get to see the girl and really talk to her anymore. every time i see her she's with the guy, and he has her full attention 90% of the time (every once in a while she'll say something to me, but its never anything to really start much of a conversation). i do still get to talk to her online and all, but i never get to talk to her much in person and joke around with her and whatnot. is there anything that i should do about this, or just kinda go with the flow?

2006-11-09 13:53:06 · 8 answers · asked by Randomperson 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I will be hosting our wedding in the upcomming years. We have over 800 people comming to the wedding itself and I'm trying to shave of as many people as I can to invite to the recption. So far I'm up to 200 neccessary guest and counting. It's not that I dont have the funds it's just that I want to opptomize my dollers worth. How can I opptomize my budget? ANY IDEAS FOR THE WEDDING OR RECPTION WELCOME.

2006-11-09 13:52:59 · 14 answers · asked by alishaedens 1 in Weddings

my mom passed away last year when i was 18, and she always wanted to find her real parents, and i would like to know them aswell, i was wondering if anyone has heard of this hospital Victory hosp, Ventura Cali...i heard it burnt down, i really dont know how to go about finding my grandparents, if anyone could help it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you, anything helps.

2006-11-09 13:52:50 · 1 answers · asked by LAUREN O 1 in Friends

alright, i'm only 14 years old, and i know that's very young and all, but i feel like my whole life is just passing me by and i never advance at all in my social OR love lives...and im not trying to whine to anyone, sorry if this annoys you, but for a few years now ive been very depressed-i've found myself crying alone on my bed because, simply , i think i deserve a boyfriend, atleast someone to love me and hug and kiss me, and, frankly, other girls don't. i know the only reason they have succeeded is b/c they are-er-easy, but i still envy them, which i know isn't very good and christian, but i can't help feeling depressed when i think of them getting to do all the things you do when you're, well, attatched to someone. ALL I WANT is someone to love, and ive never had anyone. ive never even been on a date. plz answer these questions: 1)how do i get a date?(NOT ONLINE!) and 2)could this be something more than teenage angst? could it b depression?

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IF YOU DON'T WANT TO READ ALL THIS, LONG STORY SHORT:
*if ive never been on a date, how should i change this?
*ive actually lied down and CRIED for hours about it. could it be srsly depression?

2006-11-09 13:52:08 · 7 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Singles & Dating

Lets say a woman has a job, and works a lot, drives a big vehicle and is independent, does that make guys feel intimidated and stuff?

2006-11-09 13:51:36 · 10 answers · asked by sharpy 4 in Singles & Dating

I have this problem at work, whenever I lay an egg it's like a co-worker comes up to me right then and wants to chat, or see how to do something or whatever. Either way, I get amazed when the folks that do not know me well and are very polite seem to almost "take" the smell, I mean shoot I can smell it man I know you can.

2006-11-09 13:50:27 · 5 answers · asked by AmplePressure 2 in Singles & Dating

We have a class together and he rides my bus. We talk and I am friends with his sister. But whenever I see him, I see him watching me and looking at me. My friend on bus thinks he likes me because she said, "He feel comfortable with you, and doesn't hesistate, and plus he is always looking at you." He is 1/2 year younger than I am, so would it be weird for a older person to ask a younger person out. In the hallways he follows me and talk to me all the time, but sometimes he waits for me....like today, his class is down the hall and my class is further away, so he told me he made he put everything away just to be in time to see me. He now has a girlfriend but is always complaining to me how she is so annoying and he is always looking at me. When I see him, he stares right at me and is really friendly. He is always flirty with girls that are right next to me and other than that he doesn't talk 2 them.You can ask question but I will not answer personal questions. (Example: names and etc.)

2006-11-09 13:49:38 · 6 answers · asked by Michelle 5 in Singles & Dating

ok. my ex boyfriend and i are still good friends and he is going to come visit me at college. my roomate is going to be out of town that weekend, so we will have the room to ourselves. we will probably end up sleeping together anyway, but i am not so sure it is a good idea. we ended on good terms, but he is kinda seeing another girl from back home, whom i do not like. should i just make him sleep in another room or on the floor? or in my bed? i really want to sleep with him though i miss him a lot. he wants to cut it off with the other girl, and i want him to as well. she is no good.
so...where should he sleep this weekend?

2006-11-09 13:48:46 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating