a couple of my friends started going out, and im alright with that, its just that i barely get to see the girl and really talk to her anymore. every time i see her she's with the guy, and he has her full attention 90% of the time (every once in a while she'll say something to me, but its never anything to really start much of a conversation). i do still get to talk to her online and all, but i never get to talk to her much in person and joke around with her and whatnot. is there anything that i should do about this, or just kinda go with the flow?
2006-11-09 13:53:06 · 8 answers · asked by Randomperson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do like this girl as more than a friend, and i actually went out with her last year, but she decided after about a month that she didnt feel the same way about me and just wanted to continue on as friends. we are really good friends, but i would love to be more than that, even though it seems pretty unlikely. maybe im just jealous that my friend has with her what i wish i had, idk.
2006-11-09 14:07:20 · update #1
I guess it depends on how you feel about her. I can see how, even if you are just friends with her, that you might be worried about losing touch. I'd say, just be available for her, let her now you're there if she wants to go anywhere or hang out, and let it ride, see what happens.
If you care about her more than a friend, then you've got to make a move! hehe But if not, then it's really up to you.
2006-11-09 13:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you get involved with someone, your full attention no longer goes to your friends/family, It usually goes to the one you love. This is normal and will probably never change. You need to back off, and just go with the flow. I know you miss her company and you miss teasing her, but it sounds like you have a crush on her. Dont get jealous, it will ruin your friendship. Just give her , the space she wants. And dont Confront her about not giving you attention, because In reality, When you date someone, and its serious, then Their whole attention shouldnt go to you. Sorry.
2006-11-09 22:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it always happens like this. When a girl gets a bf, all her attention goes to him. Its alright, if she doesn't say anything, just stay as you are. If she doesn't feel like talking, forget it. Just keep moving on with life. Sooner or later when something happens between them. she is going to start talkin to you again
2006-11-09 22:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should maybe talk to her about it she might feel uncomfortable hanging out with you bc your a boy and she has a boyfriend you should try to hang out with your other friends but dont upset her or you will ruin the relationship !!!
~*Kim*~
2006-11-09 21:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by kimberly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow.. theres nothing much you can do about it.
or maybe talk to the guy. "i don't really get the chance to talk to ya'll much."
2006-11-09 21:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about some girl friend if she not your girlfriend?
2006-11-09 21:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well TELL HER! when you get the chance. Its better to spill than to keep it all bottled up.
2006-11-09 21:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by saddleclub_cowgirl145 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her...if you really want to talk to her more...tell her you feel neglected as a friend...because she is always with her man
2006-11-09 21:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋