heres why im upset
my friend invited me and my other friend over to her house. i didnt find out i could go till the day before so i called her and told her that i could come. then she said her mom said she didnt want two friends over at the same time. but the week before all three of us were over at this persons house and her mom didnt care. then i called her while they were over at her house and she asked if she could call me back. i said yes and waited. when she did call i didnt hear the phone so i called her back. she said that her friend was asleep while i could distinctly hear her in the background talking. then she said she was gonna go to bed since the other one was asleep...i know that it isnt true because it was 9:00 on a friday night. so now i am suspicious, upset , and mad...should i be??
2006-11-09 13:57:03 · 9 answers · asked by falloutboygirl_13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
btw
theese are my 2 best friends
the 1 said she would call me back tomorrow
should i answer the phone, yell at her, or just talk to her??
2006-11-09 14:05:41 · update #1
Girls are so petty. They are just picking on you to see if they can get you riled. If you get riled, they will have won and they'll do it to you again. Best to ignore the whole thing unless you want to become the bawlbaby of the group. Believe me, I've been there. The more upset I got at things like this, the more they kept doing it to me. Dont react. Girls, in groups, always want someone to terrorize. Ignore them for awhile and see what happens. They or at least one of them will get with you and try and pick on one of the others. It is tried and tested thing with girls.
2006-11-09 14:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have every right to be mad, I'd be mad to. I'm having the same problems with my friends, I would call or email and say , If you don't want to be my friend fine! Don't lie to me though, and hang up. Or, the mature thing to do would be let it go. apprentley, your friend is "Dicthing" you and is more than likley loosing a great friend. Just move on, and remember, your not the one loosing here, she is.
Good luck!
2006-11-09 22:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are being dished dear, if you feel the need to get mad go ahead and get it out of your system and then move on.
2006-11-09 22:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Whynotguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they're shutting you out, you need to find new friends.
2006-11-09 22:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and forget, this too shall pass.
2006-11-09 22:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad! Let out your anger!
2006-11-09 22:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hecky yeah u should be they back stabbers
2006-11-09 22:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just let it go :)
2006-11-09 22:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Haley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
f **** yeah you should be hella pissed that stupid liar!!!
2006-11-09 22:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋