ok. my ex boyfriend and i are still good friends and he is going to come visit me at college. my roomate is going to be out of town that weekend, so we will have the room to ourselves. we will probably end up sleeping together anyway, but i am not so sure it is a good idea. we ended on good terms, but he is kinda seeing another girl from back home, whom i do not like. should i just make him sleep in another room or on the floor? or in my bed? i really want to sleep with him though i miss him a lot. he wants to cut it off with the other girl, and i want him to as well. she is no good.
so...where should he sleep this weekend?
2006-11-09 13:48:46 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl....quit playin, you know y'all gonna do it, you don't need advice from us. Just give him some. And please don't be a blond and thinks he gonna cut it off with the other girl, because he's not.
That's irrelevant anyway, since he will be spending the night w/you.
2006-11-09 13:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are in college so you are mature and old enough to make these choices responsibly. How will you feel after the weekend if he goes back to his girlfriend? Are you ok with that and will you still keep good terms with him? You don't want to jepordize you friendship with him. It would be best to wait for the weekend and see how your feelings toward each other really are. Plan on him staying in your room but leave options open. He could sleep on the floor or you could share the bed but him on top of covers.
You will need to feel the situation out, just remember you are playing with emotions, mainly your own. Which is just like playing with fire and you could get burnt. Just remember he may not leave his girlfriend and are you fine with him staying with her and sleeping with you. I hope your weekend is great and memorable for you. Wishing you all the best.
2006-11-09 14:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has broken up with the other girl, then your bed is ok.
If he is still seeing the other girl, then it will be better if he sleeps at least on the floor of your room. That way you won't be in a situation where you can "accidentally on purpose" shag each other, as you just happen to be in the same bed.
Look at it this way. Even if he doesn't like her, and he sleeps with you, he could do the same to you. Do you want to get back together with a guy who cheated? This is a way to test his integrity. He needs to do the right thing by the other girl, even if she is a *****. Unless they have an "open" relationship, then it won't matter.
2006-11-09 13:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a question of morals. Do you have any? Do you love this man? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Does he feel the same way? Or does he consider you a "sure thing" and are you going to fall for the same old line just because he's good in the sack? My god your in collage , meat market of the world (well except maybe Singapore) If you need a distraction there's hundreds around you all day, pick one . the dude was with a girl you say was or is no good for him but obviously he didn't think so .What's that say about him and his choices and who's he gonna get friendly with next when your not around . Figure out which head he's thinking with and where his heart lies. If it works out ,god bless you both ,If not you don't have to go through the same heart ack again.
2006-11-09 14:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by WESTERN M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The question becomes why is he your ex? Is it because you went away to college? Is it because he thought he had something better? If you are still good friends then it's because the sex was worth it. And maybe thats the reason you want to sleep with him again. Not because you don't like his new girlfriend. Treat it for what it is, a good weekend and then let it go.
2006-11-09 13:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by The Kid 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he wants to cut it off with the other girl, why hasn't he?
I am sure you do miss him alot, and it's great that you guys are still friends. However, I don't think it would be a good idea for you to sleep with him. If he is still with this other girl and he sleeps with you as well... That should tell you something about his character. Make him sleep anywhere but your bed.
Every woman deserves respect. Treat yourself as such.
Good luck!
2006-11-09 13:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by cutebastardette 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
motel alone. OK, I realize that's not going to happen. If he stays with you, it probably will end his relationship with the other girl. It doesn't matter if you like her or not, it is not your job to destroy that relationship. That is between them.
If you let him into your bed, insist on full protection!! He's been with another person, maybe more, and could be a carrier for their diseases. Also you don't want to be pregnant. If he won't suit up, then you sleep separately.
2006-11-09 13:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
on the couch ex means passed leave it that way. Its a reason you two are not together, so no u dont sleep together. NOT IN THE ROOM OR THE BED!!!!
2006-11-09 13:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by JAMESANDBRITNEYAREMYEVERYTHINGLU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still in love with him
So obviously you think the other girl is no good
So either you want to be his girlfriend again or just wanna sleep with him, in both cases you have to wait until he has dump this other girl, so tell him to come visit you when he has done that
But if he just wants to get into your pants, he will lie about dumping her.
You better move on, and forget about him
2006-11-09 14:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In a hotel. If he was your current boyfriend how would you feel if he was sleeping with an old girlfriend....... Don't be the other women. Have some respect for your self. Once he is a free man then you can revisit the idea.
2006-11-09 13:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by van 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make him sleep at a hotel. He's your ex for a reason, isn't he? Do you think he's going to say no to sleeping with you? He's going to try. Let's say you do sleep together, how will you feel if he doesn't dump her but got a peice of you and her instead? If you two got back together, how do you know he's not going to do the same thing to you? I advice you to think with your head and not with what's between your legs.
2006-11-09 13:50:25 · answer #11 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋